Emilyew, emilywithlove

Hwkeye13:
Does anyone know where she’s migrated to now? It looks like she’s left p@tri0n and Devi@n+@rt. She’s the GOAT and I miss her work.


No clue, but I hope she's doing well. I loved her whimsy and her talent.
1 year

Why are so many discussions getting locked?

Letters And Numbers:
I’m pretty much of the mind that unless it’s about size acceptance or other weight related political issues, there’s the ENTIRE REST OF THE INTERNET to talk about politics. It’s inescapable. This site can be an oasis from that. But just my opinion.

Karenjenk:
The other side is just skip over things you dont want to read and realize its all right ot be offended

Letters And Numbers:
Yup, absolutely. Half of the annoying slap fights could be avoided this way.


I don't enjoy talking politics on here. Only time I do is when you have bigots bigotting. Other than that, I talk about it elsewhere.
1 year

Best place to go for (cheap) clothes for button popping?

HRHB15:
Yeah, thrift stores are awesome for this.

I Am Probably Cranky:
Honestly, it's something that I keep forgetting about lol. The one thing that stops me (well, mostly partner) is that we wanna plan ideal outfits instead bahaha


You can find cute clothes in the thrift store. It's not all tacky, sad clothes.
1 year

What ya listening to?

?si=eM2Ln1w_m7iKcqbI

Current obsession
1 year

If you search for "feedee" on tiktok...

Mrman1980uk:
Censorship is abuse. Very *very* serious abuse.


Eeeeeh

It depends on what is being censored and why. Censoring fat bodies for an activity that thinner one can do is bad. But some forms are censoring aren't.

For example, when the news is reporting on a gruesome situation, they might sensor the really graphic things. Minors' names are usually censored to protect their anonymity. Also hate speech tends to be sensored.

Context is important.
1 year

Why are so many discussions getting locked?

X_Larsson:
Sure, many people here are unable to understand proper argumentation, and many are doing childish ad-hominem attacks instead of presenting counter arguments, but it seems the moderators are clamping down harder and harder nowadays?

Even worse, the posts that COULD justify some moderator comment remain unacted upon, while some other posts can end the thread, even if they are not very hostile or off topic.

Do other memebers here share this view?


Best I can understand it, it comes down to the moderator's judgement, how often they are paying attention to the forums, and if the thread has necroed.

I do know that lately admin has been more vigilient since years past.

Two things can happen to a thread: getting locked or deleted. Getting locked is more common than getting deleted.

A mod will have to provide further insight, but from what I've seen, the following are the most likely to get locked or deleted:

Soliciting users for money
Scams/spam
Harrassment, especially towards one user
Dogpiling, especially towards one user
Any thread where emotions are high
Post containing blatant bigotry (e.g. racism, sexism, agism, homophobia)
Posts soliciting advice on secret feedings
Posts bashing FF or admin

There might be more, but this is what I can recall witnessing. I know that you can also report a thread to admin. If they deem it necessarly, they will lock it.
1 year

Gaining with high blood pressure

Fattened:
I recently had a check up and found out my blood pressure is high , i was wondering if there are any helpful ways to lower it while still gaining or if that is just a pipe dream. Im still very much not done getting fatter but id also prefer not to stroke out. For you real big folks how do you deal with this issue?


Short answer is yes, but your milage may vary.

Some people are saying that you can take medicine and keep trucking. This isn't necessarily true. A poor diet and lifestyle can aggravate the issue over time - especially if your blood pressure isn't that high.

I'm not anti-medicine, but if you can avoid needing it, it's better for you.

If your blood pressure isn't all that high or is under control with medication, you can still gain safely. However, you'll need to switch up your diet and exercise more. It won't be as fast as chugging butter, but it's more sustainable.

For example, avocados, unsalted nuts, and high fat fish like salmon are good for weight gain. Limit or avoid foods with hydrogenated ingredients. And, most importantly, read the nutrition labels.

A lot of people don't pay attention to what they are eating. Take salt, for example. A lot of foods have more salt than people realize - even foods with no added salt. And even if you are eating something low in salt, it muliplies by the serving.

Now, if your blood pressure is out of control, focus on getting it under control before you try to do anything else. Better to delay your gains than to get too sick to gain.
1 year

Best place to go for (cheap) clothes for button popping?

I Am Probably Cranky:
Feeder (kind of)/FA with a partner who loves to stuff/bloat, and also loves the idea of button popping.

I'm thinking of places, like both online and physical stores. Location is IL, Chicago Area (which is a big area, so I'm not doxxing myself lol). Shirts or pants, honestly (though I kinda like shirt option more).

If you have a particular shirt/pair of pants to share, please do!

I think I just need to get a few individuals' options and opinions, rather than trying to go out in this overwhelming world of options.


Have you considered thrifting?
1 year

How to introduce someone to feeding

Buenos65:
Seeing this girl ive been dating tomorrow. She’s a bigger girl, stunning, but I’m not sure how to introduce this stuff to her smoothly.


loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/
1 year

This site has been around a long time.

2seatsalways:
Ooh I like this voting idea!! Totally every profile is real here 😉

ILuvChubbyChix:
Until cliques form and then those users will vote "fake" en-masse on a particular target that's on the shitlist of the clique as a form of "griefing."

That's why such a voting system can't be put in place. You can still "vote" fake by reporting a profile. While that's not a guarantee of removal, the odds are very good if the profile is a scammer.

I do miss the maps, but I would guess whatever API was used broke, and an appropriate replacement was never identified.


You're right about the clique thing. While I've never been a target of such a thing, I've seen it happen to other people. You'd be surprised how organized people can get when they have a common target.

It can happen to any one for any reason, but the most common reason is feedee/gainer content creators who refused men's advances. If you truly believe a profile is fake, it's best to email admin and let them deal with it.
1 year