Ditzy:
I have noticed gainers going all out for a year or so get to a point they just look like they don't feel so good.
Mostly the fast food junkies.
They gain a lot for sure.
I could never eat at the golden arches without getting sick so that tipped me off that something in the food wasn't right.
I have to agree that home cooking is best :-)
1 year
C00kie:
Just wanted to come and say that Munchies has highlighted something really important here. Secret Feeding is not welcome in this community as it is a form of abuse and control. We understand people may have fantasies about this sort of thing but acting on desires like this is manipulative and a dangerous dynamic to have in a relationship.
I am glad that you are ok and have help if you need it, but not everyone who is in a relationship like this has safety nets such as their own place. family or friends. So it's important that people know this behaviour is not normal or loving in anyway and a huge Red Flag.
Now that I've said that... I will try get back to your original post which appears to be about celebrating your new found fatness and self-love.
1: When did you get fat ?
I was always chubby as a teenager, and I have progressively got bigger and bigger from a youngish age.
2: How did you get fat ?
I got fat from my sheer love of food and eating. It started when I moved out to Uni and had the freedom to go out to eat, buy whatever food I wanted. I was restricted living at home as my parents were a bit frugal with food and were always trying to buy fat free versions of everything and keep their and my weight down. I love to cook, go out to restaurants, relax and snack, treat myself to fancy foods when I go shopping, I buy artisan cheese weekly for example. I find it indulgent and I guess I would consider myself a Foodee, so with that I have naturally put on weight.
3: Did you use to hate being fat ?
I've never hated myself for being fat, although I have had occasions where I don't like specific parts of my body or face. I think that's pretty normal to dislike your appearance from time to time, regardless of weight.
4: Do you love being fat now ?
I love being me... whatever form that comes in. As I have gotten older I have learned to accept myself who I am and what I like, and I don't aim to please others like I used to. I like my life and I am happy with that and the affects it ma have had on my waistline.
5: What's so great about being a fat woman ?
Nothing. Theres nothing I specifically admire about myself simply because I am fat. I am not a Feedee or gainer so being fat is not of any great importance to me... it just so happens that I am.
6: Do you have any insecurities about your looks now ?
Occasionally, but never weight related, those insecurities were long gone when I hit my 30's. As you get older you tend to care less about others good opinion because you realise the only opinion that really matters is your own.
Very important post, cookie, and certainly agree on #6 :-) Hope you’ve been well!
1 year
Pizza, pasta and ice cream each just raised their hands. “Can’t forget about us,” they said :-)
1 year
TubSlug:
18: I rolled my ankle last summer, probably because of my weight and not doing any strength training. It’s still weak and I can’t do intense exercise on it. Being fat made me fatter ☺️
19: I’m doing this for myself, but ngl having a lot of followers who probably all want to see me get fatter is yeah ☺️
20: If I have treats in my home, I can’t stop myself. One slice leads to another. ☺️
21: I just kinda got to a place where I think about food and my fat a lot of the time.
Can’t keep snacks in my house either. They get devoured no sooner they’re bought :-)
1 year
TubSlug:
16: I spend so much time on this site 😅
17: I don’t drink it, well sometimes a little ☺️, but I add heavy cream to my coffee, milkshakes, desserts, and cooking 🤤
You’re filling out that chair nicely :-)
1 year
Mine is down to 25.1. Had to cut back a little for health reasons. Wifey is somewhere between 60 and 60.2, depending on whether I enter 5-2 or 5-3. I guess we’re more into contrast these days :-)
1 year
There’s more of a contrast between wifey and I than there used to be. I had a heart scare last year and had to cut back on some of my favorite indulgences. My belly is still a ball but my weight is down to about 180. Wifey is up to 340, though, and I find her irresistible ;-)
1 year
Many levels to my being HappyBigBelly.
I’m always sure to leave some happy and sweet comments for people, so that covers the happy. I have a big ball belly and absolutely adore my wife’s beautifully enormous tummy, so that covers the next two words :-)
1 year
