Question about my wife....
That's awesome!! I hope you two continue to have a great time with it. Who knew that her pregnancy would lead to this discovery? 
12 years
"i'll 'convert' you...."
It's possible you're just a game to her "He SAYS he likes XYZ, but does he really?" If you take her up on her offer, you may discredit yourself. Then again, you can always say, she thought she could convert me so I gave her a chance, but she failed
She may just see you as a challenge or an experiment, or, she could be genuinely interested too, but from what you said, I think she's just looking to score or simply testing you.
She may just see you as a challenge or an experiment, or, she could be genuinely interested too, but from what you said, I think she's just looking to score or simply testing you.
12 years
Freshman 15
SarahKthePig wrote:
It's only been my first semester and I've gained a Freshman 30 so far
It's only been my first semester and I've gained a Freshman 30 so far
LOL sounds like your off to a good start
What are you studying (besides good food LOL)
12 years
How do you like it?
Scooter385 wrote:
This sounds perfect. I'm not into being forced to eat. Encouraged and pampered would do the trick just fine with a few good belly rubs to free up some more space.
LovesBigMen wrote:
If I was ever to feed someone, I would probably just supply enough tasty food and then let things take care of themselves. I'd try to make sure the food was good enough and plenty enough to gorge on.
I sure would encourage him to eat "just a little bit more" but I wouldn't force anything. I'm not the forceful kind and weight gain itself isn't what I like the most about feeding. For me it's more about pampering someone who loves to eat with delicious food and care and making they feel loved.
If I was ever to feed someone, I would probably just supply enough tasty food and then let things take care of themselves. I'd try to make sure the food was good enough and plenty enough to gorge on.
I sure would encourage him to eat "just a little bit more" but I wouldn't force anything. I'm not the forceful kind and weight gain itself isn't what I like the most about feeding. For me it's more about pampering someone who loves to eat with delicious food and care and making they feel loved.
This sounds perfect. I'm not into being forced to eat. Encouraged and pampered would do the trick just fine with a few good belly rubs to free up some more space.
Same here!
A little variety once in a while is nice too, though
12 years
Fattening my wife..
Unkle Terry wrote:
Thanks! Good advice not to pressure-She loves to eat & snacks constantly.
I think if I leave her to her own devices she'll gain an even greater amount by Christmas,which will be awesome!
Not sure how she'll stop though...I'll let her decide;hopefully not for a long time!
Thanks! Good advice not to pressure-She loves to eat & snacks constantly.
I think if I leave her to her own devices she'll gain an even greater amount by Christmas,which will be awesome!
Not sure how she'll stop though...I'll let her decide;hopefully not for a long time!
How she'll stop... well, the larger one gets, the more energy it takes to sustain the body. In other words, the bigger and heavier a person gets,the more calories they require to do the basic normal walking, standing, etc. So, If someone's energy intake is more then they need, they will gain weight until an equilibrium is reached. If you see her rate of gain slowing even more, then you'll know she's close to that point. If you'd like her bigger but don't want to pressure her then you'll just have to encourage her to start enjoying more then she normally does without sounding like you're trying to. That's an entirely different topic (which I'm happy to discuss if you'd like - there are lots of ways!) You may also get lucky and she may gradually end up enjoying more then she does right now... given that she likes to eat and knows you're okay with it, portion sizes may gradually increase, she may indulge in seconds more and more often... stuff like that
Sounds like you two will be be enjoying not only lots of good food but lots of good time together as well
Congrats!
12 years
300lbs
My heaviest was 348 and it felt great. I loved how my body felt. It was very comfortable
12 years
Fattening my wife..
AussieFA63 wrote:
Just spoil & pamper her, treat her like a goddess, tell her you love her everyday & she'll lap it up & simply gain more weight with no pressure.
Just spoil & pamper her, treat her like a goddess, tell her you love her everyday & she'll lap it up & simply gain more weight with no pressure.
Absolutely!! Pressure will kill it. Just let it be natural - being that she already knows and is happy to do so, she'll do it without pressure. Just making sure she's well fed will do it. Food can even be a part of the 'romantic' experience or a part of time leading up to it.
Enjoy!
As far as the health, it's not so much the number on the scale as the lifestyle and the type of food one eats... you can get fat on healthy good stuff too. If she's active and eats healthy, she'll be healthy, even if she's heavy.
12 years
