Fantasy Feeder

Chafing

BBWBecky:
The crease under my belly and before my fupa get ref, sore and sometimes break open..was wondering what the best product is to help with that

There are a lot of options out there. It's not so much about any product being the best so much as the best for you.

I have thick thighs, so I know how important it is it keep things clean and dry. There are anti-chafing sticks, powder, diaper rash cream, and more. Some people prefer to keep their pant under their bellies for this very reason.

Another thing you need to do is keep the area clean, dry, and moisturized. What I like to do is wash the area with my face cleanser. Hibacleans is another good one if you are dealing with broken skin. Pat the area dry with a towel, and follow up with an oil or butter of your choice. I like to use raw Shea butter oil tea tree oil.

IMPORTANT

Do not use straight tea tree oil. You will irritate your skin. Always have it mixed with a carrier oil. You can either do this yourself or buy something pre-formulated. I like to used the kind from Hollywood Beauty.

2 months

Munchies

Honestly, i’m tired of the games

Masuli:
I'm surprised that no one mentioned of bringing back the real or fake meter that was working really well when speaking about abusing it.

Munchies:
I'm confused. How was it working really well if there was rampant abuse?

Masuli:
Tool to use when you didn't like someone or wanted to be mean just because of some reason.

Then that means it didn't work at all.

2 months

Munchies

Been in this community for nearly 30 years

Masuli:
I have also been part of the community for long time. I remember Dimensions weight room, weight gain stories & forum. Also I was using Dial up modem connection.

I don't really know where did this enjoying being heavier, rounder myself & liking bigger girls come from

I can remember being a young skinny child & spending a half an year with my grandma because family issues. During that time I become lazy, enjoyed my grandmas cooling + all the deserts & I gained so much WEIGHT. I did grow this big belly & moobs, started to enjoy playing with my belly. Also my grandma really loved to hug me & touch my belly while commentin that I looked much better with extra weight.

Maybe this was the start of the prefering female feeders & female fa's

There was also Fatnats, anime boards that had weight gain pictures, stories.

I also remember Fantasy Feeder inner clique mentality with moderators & certain users. Oh how we cannot forgot the controversial Real or Fake voting by the community that was used instantly against person that didn't belong to the inner clique or in other causes you were voted fake just by not living in England or America.

This fetish can be challenging if you live in a small country, less people so of course changes are smaller, especially if you are considering the rarest of them all: Female feeder.

I'm not giving up thought even if this will disappoint some users but keeping my eyes open & being open minded in the present + future.

Female feeders are not rare. We are simply skittish as fuck.

2 months

Munchies

Honestly, i’m tired of the games

Masuli:
I'm surprised that no one mentioned of bringing back the real or fake meter that was working really well when speaking about abusing it.

I'm confused. How was it working really well if there was rampant abuse?

2 months

Munchies

My weight is "stuck"

ChonkyBellyBhoy:
Been there. Had periods where it doesn't matter how much I eat my weight stays the same.

It's swings and roundabouts though cause I've had other periods where it's like I eat 1 cake and gain 5lbs.

Your body will tell you when it needs a break. When you start to stall despite all you efforts, that's when you need to take that break.

2 months

Munchies

Chat room issue report button

I know that we have a forum thread to report chat tech issues, but a lot of people do not know about it. Heck, most people who use chat never touch the forums.

I think it would be a great option to have a tech issue report feature in chat. It would work like the report button on user profiles, but maybe with an option for screenshots.

2 months

Munchies

What are some fatting foods with a good amount of hdl cholesteral?

Fattyyyyyyy34:
I have genetically high cholesterol and was wondering if there are any fatting foods that also contain HDL cholesterol.

www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/high-blood-cholesterol/in-depth/cholesterol/art-20045192

2 months

Munchies

Honestly, i’m tired of the games

ILuvChubbyChix:
I'm very sorry to hear that.

However, if you do come across scammers, please report them.

I would, but I’m not really sure I could call this person a scammer. More of a catfish… I guess? Although they might be who they claim but still just wasting my time.

Munchies:
Also, fill your profile out. Women who are worth your time are super choosy. If you don't have much to work off of, they might not talk to you.

Good luck

You’re absolutely right, I did have a more of a profile before but every time I got catfished* I removed a little bit more from my profile out of embarrassment at my nativity haha. What do you think people find most valuable on a profile? I’d rather not put my face right now, especially given what keeps happening 😅

*is it still called catfish if it’s a gay guy pretending to be a chick?

SYxySt2aR:
That sounds horrible. I'm really sorry that you've been through these bad experiences. I hope that future exchanges you have a more authentic and heal your heart and mind from the previous bad experiences. I know there are authentic and great people on here to talk to but yeah everyone's different so it can be hard to find the connection you're specifically looking for.

I wish you the very best and hope you find the interactions and connections you've been hoping to find. 😊

H203:
TYSM, I’m very grateful of the kind words. I honestly think I just didn’t make enough of an effort to put myself out there on this site, in recent years - I’ve got to take responsibility for my part in this.

It's still catfishing.

With that said, your profile should talk about your interests, what you are looking for, and maybe things you are NOT into.

Also, your forum and gainer profiles aren't helping your case either. You come off as depressed, insecure, and desperate. In other words, it's all the things a catfish could want.

2 months

Munchies

Best feederism community

SumoSized:
People on here also seem to come and go a lot. I was chatting with a guy on here through dm's the last couple days and randomly he just deleted his account. I've also received several messages that get deleted before I even open them or see who they're from. People can just be so fickle sometimes

SadPinkFox:
I know you are mad at me. I am sorry for suddenly leaving. I was depressed because some people ganged up on me. I hate it here.

Munchies:
Dang, what happened?

SadPinkFox:
I got upset that someone used the b-word and surprisingly people didn't agree with me. Even one woman user. I started to have a mental breakdown and decided to delete my "Kitsune" account. I vented about this website on an Autism website.

Munchies:
I see.

Personally, when I talk about things that I see as offensive, I go into the conversation knowing that not everyone will agree with me. And it is what it is.

You gotta learn to be okay with people not agreeing with you. I'm not saying that to tell you to get over it. I'm saying that so it won't be a mentally devastating situation for you.

SadPinkFox:
Fair point. I don't have thick skin like you so I guess it's easier for some folks. I think it's best for me to say nothing at all and keep my thoughts to myself. Although at the same time it feels like I am censoring myself. I do think I should express how I feel to educate others. Unfortunately, not everyone will want to learn. As you can tell with the current situation of the US.

Munchies:
I mean, you're talking to someone who's been through shit and came out the other side. It took me years to get to this point. I'm telling you this in hopes to save you a few years of suffering.

SadPinkFox:
Hopefully I get to that point someday. Being trapped in a toxic job and family makes me pessimistic about the future. Being treated like chipped liver at work also makes me regressed and don't seem to be seen like a functioning adult.

I am not giving up though. I am doing my best to take care of myself. I just detangled my hair while taking bath. I have a hair knot due to being too depressed to take care of my hair. I'm trying to draw more often instead of doomscroll although I still have those tendencies. I won't listen to those naysayers that I can't have my dream job due to AI but of course I have to have a backup job first and good net security.

Pardon for the long ramble. I guess I should write a novel since I often write lengthy comments lol.

If you wanna get that knot out, you need some conditioner, something with slip (oil, shea butter, cocoa butter, etc,) and carefully pick at it. Use your fingers, a wide-tooth comb/detangling brush, and a thinner tool like the tail of a rat-tail comb.

Work with the knot as it naturally separates. Pull it apart vertically as needed as well, and work from the ends of your hair to the root.

2 months

Munchies

Best feederism community

SumoSized:
People on here also seem to come and go a lot. I was chatting with a guy on here through dm's the last couple days and randomly he just deleted his account. I've also received several messages that get deleted before I even open them or see who they're from. People can just be so fickle sometimes

SadPinkFox:
I know you are mad at me. I am sorry for suddenly leaving. I was depressed because some people ganged up on me. I hate it here.

Munchies:
Dang, what happened?

SadPinkFox:
I got upset that someone used the b-word and surprisingly people didn't agree with me. Even one woman user. I started to have a mental breakdown and decided to delete my "Kitsune" account. I vented about this website on an Autism website.

Munchies:
I see.

Personally, when I talk about things that I see as offensive, I go into the conversation knowing that not everyone will agree with me. And it is what it is.

You gotta learn to be okay with people not agreeing with you. I'm not saying that to tell you to get over it. I'm saying that so it won't be a mentally devastating situation for you.

SadPinkFox:
Fair point. I don't have thick skin like you so I guess it's easier for some folks. I think it's best for me to say nothing at all and keep my thoughts to myself. Although at the same time it feels like I am censoring myself. I do think I should express how I feel to educate others. Unfortunately, not everyone will want to learn. As you can tell with the current situation of the US.

I mean, you're talking to someone who's been through shit and came out the other side. It took me years to get to this point. I'm telling you this in hopes to save you a few years of suffering.

2 months

Munchies