Anjou:
Hey...
Long story short I married the man of my dreams, who when I simply said I like hefty guys (he was a slightly plump 190lbs to my 215) and told him about feedism he went hog(lol)wild.
At the same time I started losing weight due to my a1c (although I have always wanted to be thin).
Ngl, that contrast of him gaining and me losing made me horny 24/7. I just loved the feel of his rolls of fat getting bigger and bigger as I got smaller and smaller. I was on cloud nine.
He is up to 362 now to my 105. Ngl, I just look at him now and get a little wet. The fact that he workouts out daily (power lifter) and that I feed him pretty clean, with heavy cream mixed with protein powder being the mainstay when he is on his yearly gaining cycle, I think has allowed him to really only have high blood pressure that we keep in check with meds as a side effect of his 160 lbs gain in 3 or so years.
He has already started drinking a quart of cream because he wants to get to 400 by Halloween.
I guess my question to y’all is how long can one gain like this until health issues arise? Or stay as active as he does?
I told him that he is plenty big for me, but he has 💯 become a feedee and does not want to stop. I just worry that might be to big and have told him so. He did reassure me that he will stop if he has health issues, but tbh I kinda doubt he will at time. He is sooo into this now.
Any advice?
My partner and I are into extreme feedism. So, out of abundance of caution, he gives me full access to his medical records and updates me about every doctor's appointment. He also tells me any time he doesn't feel well for any reason.
Our communication is open and we have no secrets. This way, I know when it's safe to indulge as well as how intense we can be.
I get how you feel. Feeders can have a lot of guilt if our feedees get hurt or sick - even if we aren't at fault or completely to blame. But I cannot stress just how much have mutual trust and communication helps with that.
