Longevity

It’s weird how our modern culture is really weird around death but in the past it was more understood and accepted as an aspect of life - In pretty much all culture it’s only moderns that are goofy about it going on about how their going to live forever
8 months

I want to ask people who were thin before and decided to gain weight

Viktoshka:
I want to ask people who were thin before and decided to gain weight. After you gained weight, do you regret doing it? If you don't, then share your experience of gaining weight. How did you do it?


I starting putting on weight right after quitting wrestling to focus on my school work in college I yo-yo’ed with my weight until my late 20s when I was 300 pounds I kinda just gave up on trying to lose and it’s when I found fat acceptance and later on feedism and it just clicked in me; I was fat liked being fat and I didn’t need to feel guilty for it- after a while I started gaining on purpose and that’s been with me since. I don’t regret it at all, in fact if I were to regret anything it would be not being more accepting of my body earlier
8 months

Advice for gaining

Sounds like you’re growing at a pretty reasonable rate I don’t the time line or how long it took you to each 290 but I’d just keep up with what your doing maybe increase your portions a bit sounds like you got a pretty big appetite already so that’s a plus
9 months

Book recomendation on narcissism

Morbidly A Beast:
Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.

Enas:
I dont care to pathologize anyone. I simply want people to learn what narcissism is, and what it is not, what are its specific qualifies, etc, and to be capable of figuring out the dangers that exist with it (for example, the worst case is narcissists in position of power). And i especially want the mods to be able to moderate these people properly.


Are certified narcissists any more of a threat to anyone than a butthole of a human being?
9 months

Book recomendation on narcissism

Munchies:
This is true. Some people have mental health issues, but that doesn't make them a bad person. Some people are bad people that happen to have mental health issues. Those issues may or may not contribute to them being shitty people.

But I think most assholes are just assholes. No mental health issues involved.

Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly. This isn’t to say narcissism doesn’t exist as a classification or anything just to say that just because someone is a *** or you don’t like someone doesn’t mean necessarily that they are a narcissist, it’s far far to common to hear that these days everyone is a narcissist, to me it’s a lot like people online who say they are autistic having never been diagnosed, just an excuse for their asocial behavior or whatever

HectorBalloon:
Do you mean antisocial (as opposed to asocial)?

I was diagnosed with autism and being super introverted in addition I don't socialise and am more or less asocial (meaning just not interested in socalising) as opposed to anti-social (activily bad behaviour etcetra).

But yeah generally I agree with everything else you say.


I forgot they are not synonymous, but that’s what I meant yes.
9 months

Book recomendation on narcissism

Munchies:
This is true. Some people have mental health issues, but that doesn't make them a bad person. Some people are bad people that happen to have mental health issues. Those issues may or may not contribute to them being shitty people.

But I think most assholes are just assholes. No mental health issues involved.


Exactly. This isn’t to say narcissism doesn’t exist as a classification or anything just to say that just because someone is a *** or you don’t like someone doesn’t mean necessarily that they are a narcissist, it’s far far to common to hear that these days everyone is a narcissist, to me it’s a lot like people online who say they are autistic having never been diagnosed, just an excuse for their asocial behavior or whatever
9 months

Book recomendation on narcissism

Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.
9 months

Tell me your embarrassing fat moments

I went out to lunch with a friend this week we got sitted at a booth and while I fit just barley it was really tight and half my belly hung on the table and there wasn’t any play in the booth so I was kinda just wedged in
9 months

My fat-phobic parents

Mmmm garlic bread 😋
9 months

My fat-phobic parents

Morbidly A Beast:
I like pineapple on my pizza

Bbwfrancii:
Oh no pls I’m italian


It’s delicious
9 months