Yes role reversal and Mutual is pretty hot. A while ago this role reversal happened to me by accident.

I was buying the groceries and doing the cooking and would constantly buy my wife favorite snacks and ice creams because she has a huge sweet tooth and try to refrain from getting her favorites. Well I was buying all her favorites ben n jerrys, cookies chocolate, chips etc. and it obscene quantities...she even got excited and thanked me. I happen to be the type that likes my meals but have never really had a sweet tooth.....its not that I don't like ice cream or cookies I just don't crave it after I am done with my big meals.

So this went on for a month or longer and I noticed her gaining weight but I was so fixated on how much she was eating and it didn't seem to compute to as much weight as I thought she would be gaining. I would return home with a an even bigger stock in the freezer and pantry until the next grocery store visit. Same thing we would have a huge meal either I prepared or she would and I realized when she made us dinner she would serve me seconds even before I was finished with my first huge plate.....then we would retire to the couch to watch some netflix or television and she would bring me over a huge bowl of ice cream and she would have a ben n jerry pint for herself.

All of a sudden it I realized i had been eating a huge bowl of ice cream or cookies directly following our massive dinners for a while now and as if I was totally oblivious to the fact that I had a big belly sitting out in front of me. The next day as I went into the gym that I didn't realize I hadn't been going to but maybe once a week for the last several months I weighed myself to realize I had gained 19 lbs. I decided to intentionally gain just to have her tease me or scold me for getting such a big gut. She never said anything.

I would come home after work while pigging out all day to some huge fattening dinners she would make now being that I had more daily travel in my job and was getting home later than her every night. I became her secret feedee while she became my secret feeder even though we didn't talk about it. Although she was eating close to what she served me at dinner until my third helping appeared on several occasions and the dinners became more and more fattening and carb laden. For once she didn't seem to care that she was packing on the lbs. so fast I guess because I was fattening up even faster than her.

This was several years ago but I am thinking of doing this again just to see how big she will get this time.....the only thing is at the way things were going last time I would become huge just to get her over 220 lbs. She just called me to the table just now for our second lunch because we are going out for a late dinner with friends.....here it goes again...as I type this I can barley breath sitting in my office chair with my pants cutting into my big gut still stuffed from the huge fattening Lasagna and italian bread first lunch.

My wife tends to use generic saying's when refers to herself getting fatter which I really like....for example.... "I am getting heavy again" or "I really have put on a lot of weight" or when referring to another friend I have heard her say "She is becoming a big gal".

So maybe when using it toward your husband you can try ........ "You look like you have put on some weight honey....and I love it" or a little playful "I guess I am a pretty good cook...while you softly palm and pat his gut". I know this will be the thing I say if I am ever confronted in front of my wife by some of our friends about my new big gut....."She is a fantastic cook these days."

One thing that surprised me or I should say shocked me is one time years ago after a huge gain she came over to me after we had just ate a restaurant on vacation we were both a bit intoxicated and I was still bloated from overdoing it at dinner as always and I mentioned that the restaurant reminded me of another place we had been to and she said I am not sure and as she came in softly and close to me as she palmed with both hands my chest and gave a slight shake and said "I don't remember these either".....referring to my once firm and muscular pecs which were now thanks to her I noticed soft and jiggly.

hahaha ....especially " I probably do the latter to help me see what the scale says". By the way sexiest belly ever!

on a lighter note:

I wouldn't mind my wife fattening me up without permission as she has done in the past when she realizes my appetite has increased so much I don't say no to her bringing me seconds and sometimes thirds of her fattening dinners she makes us.

Likewise as her appetite grows and I buy all her favorite ice creams, cookies and chocolates and continually stock the freezer and pantry with some obscene amounts. She actually thanks me....and after several months the 20 lbs or so she has packed on shouldn't seem without permission.

I mean this is on the lighter side to be funny but I mean this topic gets carried away at times in both directions.

Not sure if my wife is fattening me on purpose but I do know several times that I have accidentally packed on the lbs. and intentionally (secretive from her but to get a reaction from her) her meals had become more fattening and the plate sizes were huge not to mention serving me second and thirds on occasion even before I finished that plate....almost so I couldn't say No. Not that I would say No because not only was I trying to impress her but my appetite would get huge. One time I packed on 40+ Lbs. mostly all to my new huge gut and she didn't flinch or slow down any of the meals and portions they only seemed to get bigger and more fattening. She only commented on a couple occasions when we she was slightly intoxicated (teasing me).

There is quite a few posts on here so I am not sure if any of this has been mentioned.

1. If you gain enough weight and Fat it will be tougher to lose it.

2. Re gain is very easy and quick once you have gained a certain decent amount of weight.

3. You create a new set point for your weight.
(wouldn't weigh more than 190 Lbs. then it was 210 lbs. then 230 lbs. etc. etc. your body never goes as low and if it does it climbs back up really fast to the new set point)

4. I know someone mentioned you get used to the lifestyle and laziness that comes along with gaining and not denying yourself. You allow yourself more things in excess than you would have done....and it makes you feel relaxed and happy. Also Muscle memory can relate to stomach stretched memory.

5. If you have the desire or kink to gain intentionally in the first place .....you will probably like it and be on the path to increase time and time again even if you lose a little for a bit.

It may be your age....and when you're body is ready to hold onto some weight.

It seems like for the past several months I am always eating and I looked at myself in the mirror the other day with my shirt off sideways and realized how big my gut has become again.

I tried sucking it in while looking in the mirror and realized not only did it not make much of a difference when I tried but the harder I tired sucking it in ....it kind of hurt. I guess as I mentioned never ever having my stomach empty or at least even when I wake up in the morning it doesn't feel empty may have to do with the pain I felt. Not to mention I have a defined crease know with a bit of a sagging big ole extended gut (Gravitational pull) the crease lines wrap mostly under the sides of my belly but I just realized my love handles have developed more and I have that crease under them too.

For my wife Pear....the more she gains the more Pear shape she becomes.

I totally agree with a few others that have mentioned to just allow them to fatten on their own without bringing up the weight gain to much. Early on many years ago I was much more in my wife’s face (girlfriend at the time) discussing her gaining, telling her how much I wanted her to gain and even weighing her. This worked but backfired eventually.

I currently just allow her to fatten up on her own along with buying her favorite deserts ie. Cookies Ben n Jerry’s chocolate etc etc. The really key is to build up their appetite and stretch their stomach out and then they need to eat a lot all the time and eventually crave eating and sex more and more. It’s the beat of the beat until they can’t fit into their color he’s anymore and you have a minor set back sometimes.

Allow them to get Fat on their own.....and it doesn’t hurt if they have some new pretty fat friends ....that will definitely speed up the process and allow them to feel thinner while they are getting fatter that much faster.