Here is the truth, some folks on here can be weird and will just block you just because they were in the chat talking to someone who ghosted them and then they will block you just for looking on their page; you have to let it fall off you like teflon

They are embarrassed and you can tell from the tonality of their message but they are not used to this life of ours. I am superobese and I can't hide the gut that I took effort to grow so why be ashamed of it

I concur because we had to be nice because no one paid us any attention

And use toothpaste with baking soda; it neutralizes the acid and buy some iodine which stops tooth decay in its tracks

I didn't realize this until my ex said to me that made me see it differently. She said that: "Now that you developed skills to encourage and support a feeder; what will happen when there is no one else to feed ?" Eventually, some will turn that in on themselves but I didn't want to believe it until I eventually saw that she liked it and because I liked her it grow from there. Which led to me liking it more than she did because I got amazed at the new sensations that came with it like my moobs rubbing against my shirt or my side fat grabbing my shirts and getting my shirt stuck in my side fat to the first time that I felt my gut slap against the middle part of my thigh as I walked. I want to see what else I can further feel in the near future.

I have always been the chubby guy in school who had the belly so I have never not seen myself as that until I started to become good at multiple athletic skills in several sports. It was when I dated a female associate professor at my alma mater and that changed the game for me. I have always liked bigger women and it germinated from admiration to encouraging to gaining after she helped me changed my perspective on it because our ego tells us that folks will make fun and stare at us but the truth is that no one actually gives a damn and that is the aha moment which will send your gaining into overdrive.

You hit the nail on the head; it is a waste of time to talk to fake profiles. You can tell they are fake because all they want to talk about is how fat they want to get quickly and anyone who has taken this jump into the fat sunken place knows that getting to obesity takes an equal amount of focus as being an athlete and you don't feel like gorging every day but when you do it takes you overboard and there is nothing wrong with that because this is your life so expand if you want to or if you just so happen to change your stance then that is good too

First off, there is nothing weird about you wanting to be playfully teased; for most it is actually the norm but most won't purposely talk about it unless they want to be seen as the residential expert on all things fat. It is in the very fabric of this lifestyle we all desire. You can either be the one suggesting someone to get fat or you can be the one trying to be fattened or you can admire the lifestyle from the sidelines; and liking to be playfully teased/complimented/encouraged are all a part of this lifestyle. Is it weird ? To some, it will be but who cares if they don't get this gift that we call fat ? The key is to find folks who get it and it will be an amazing process.....

Agreed. I used to be a semi professional football player and just like I had to use discipline to stay in condition; I had to use discipline to not go more than two days without gorging and it took me damn near twenty months to go from 234 to just over four hundred pounds.

I understand that feeling all too well