SSBBW Summer:
Full of your favourite foods and snacks. Everything you like in that one shop. Wouldn't that be great!

Munchies:
Amazon, Walmart, Sam's Club, Costco, HEB ....

You get the idea

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think they understand we’re Americans. We have them all at one store lol

SSBBW Summer:
But you still can't get EVERYTHING you've ever wanted at one store lol

SSBBW Summer:
Full of your favourite foods and snacks. Everything you like in that one shop. Wouldn't that be great!

Aphrodita:
@Malvineous:

About autogynephila: I myself was not particularly autogynephilic at the beginning, I never crossdressed before January 2020 and never thought I would do it ever before October 2019. But purposely gaining weight while being FA may be a kind of fetishistic transvestism. Anyway, today I don’t know if I ever met a woman as beautiful as the one I see in the mirror, and my image with revealing clothes is one of the sexiest content I know.

About “transitioning to get laid”: no, not to get laid. I think that fat fetishists have no interest to get laid, even if they first think they have. They are in love with obesity. Indulging this fetish has nothing to do with being in a relationship, founding a family, having children. Living as a fat woman themselves may be the best life for which fat fetishists are made, at least some of them. These people don’t have to transition medically (I didn’t myself and will not), in addition, the sex drive of gainers is often already really low.

Forcing myself of being bisexual instead (having sex with men as a man): I see no interest to do it since I don’t like sex, even less with men. What I love is all about having the role of the woman.

About “Stop trying to gaslight cis people into thinking they're trans”: I don’t know if there are cis and trans people after the definition of transgender ideology. All adult people can transition if they wish. There are for example success stories from incels, they never had gender disphoria but they love their lives now, contrarily to many people who had gender disphoria prior to transitioning (because the real cause of their gender disphoria has not been identified and treated).

About dating in the feedist community: I don’t know personally because I never tried it, but in France the community is like a family, many complaint that there are nearly only men. For global networks like Fantasyfeeder, I watch the statistics.

About what people write in the manosphere: I think that it shouldn’t all be understood in the 1st degree meaning, for example the theory that “all men find only slim and under 35 women attractive” and all the content about it seems to be motivated by sadism, it is in fact sexual SM content (do you really think that there can be another motivation for example for this: heartiste.org/2009/09/29/which-is-harder-on-a-womans-looks-fat-or-aging/ ). I am 41 years old, generally about 125 kg and I live what they call “the carousel”.

Jshep2158:
What would you think of a story where a young woman who is overly obsessed with working out and eating salad



becomes a roly poly over pampered cheesecake of a woman with a massive sweet tooth and is usually a couch potato but sometimes likes being a cheerleader type by doing some cheerleading dances and aerobic exercise


and she ends up getting a hot hunky boyfriend

Angy523:
I guess my bf actually became a feedee. Why I say that?

-> he used to tell me that he will lose weight if his belly starts to hang, but now he came to tell me some of his friends told him his belly is starting to hang and he was kinda proud about it
-> we were playing a game with some random questions and one of them was "what would you do if you had only one day left", his answer was that he would stuff himself and would spend time with me
-> lately he plays with his belly more than I do
-> I told him he looks sexier and he told me that he is for sure because he got bigger
-> He wanted to start going to the gym and he asked me what should he eat to get bigger (ik this is very common for the ones whe go to the gym for muscle gaining, but in the past when my bf was talking about gym, he was talking about losing weight)
-> He gets horny if I touch his belly or if I talk about it

SSBBW Summer:
Have you seen how small the portion is? Like 6 thin chips lol

Jelly Rolls:
So at my appointment I ended up talking about struggling to go to class because I hate being made to walk over a mile a day because of classes. I don’t like walking and find it horrible because I see it as slow and a pain in the ass. I have depression and don’t have much energy. I expressed that I did not want to exercise or worry about eating healthy and that I didn’t like my friends and family judging me for it. I ended up complaining that my last significant other was into riding his bike 1-3 times a week and worried about his diet and argued that I was wrong for thinking it was pointless and a waste of time. I ended up saying that I don’t want to date someone like that because I would hate to have a different lifestyle to my partner and that I like mine. My therapist said that I need to accept that my lifestyle and how I want to live my life. I don’t know why a therapist would support someone in hurting their health and responsibilities. I don’t understand how the fact I hate walking so much that I struggle to do everyday things isn’t something that needs to be changed or worked on to find a solution. I think the fact I dislike walking to that extent shows that I have problems that need to be worked on.
Also why should I accept and indulge in living an unhealthy lifestyle because I hate the work of being healthy. How isn’t that bad. How isn’t my feedist sexuality bad (I never mentioned a sexual part of it) I actively want to harm myself and others by doing these things and I’m told I should accept it and do it because it sounds fun?!? Also why should I accept and believe it’s completely alright to hurt myself by having a bad diet and thinking ruining my health is sexy! Why should I believe it’s ok to actively encourage others do hurt themselves with an unhealthy lifestyle and think there is nothing wrong with enjoying it sexually! All of this is implied when my therapist says these things. How is this different than telling a drug addict to shoot up drugs because it makes them happy even though those drugs get in the way of the drug addict wanting to see his kids? Isn’t this wrong? How is encouraging taking on an unhealthy lifestyle or feedist lifestyle not wrong?

Munchies:
Imma level with you, chief. I do not see this ending well.

If you cannot afford rapid gains, then don't do rapid gains. To do otherwise is unwise, and it will not endear your girlfriend to your kink.

You mentioned in another post that she knows about your fetish, but is very much not into to. Is the issue about her gaining weight? Or is it about this fetish in general?

MultiMedia:
I think it's mainly her gaining weight, because she is already quite big and have problems with her knees and back. I think it's also a societal thing, that my fetish for big girls is "not normal". I think she's also scared when she lose weight (on que for a GB-surgery) I will find her unattractive, but I have told her that is not the case, 'cause I love her personality the most, I will love her no matter what weight she's at, and she has told the same thing about me, so hopes she keeps that promise.

Chimneychonga:
Not to diminish OP's coming out story, but using the MtF pipeline for men to have sex with women is flawed, in both theory and practice.

First, fully transitioning with bottom/top surgery will leave that person sterile, and if you're interested in having biological children, you will have to freeze your sperm/eggs which will have a set cost per year to preserve. Even when you get to use it, there is a chance the batch has gone bad, and that's the end of it. For women that want families, this will be a big hurdle unless she wants to adopt.

Even when trying to preserve organ function by using T-gel patches, the fluids may become clear if the estrogen overwhelms the testosterone, and the gonads shrink. You can still use your banana to a degree, but even if you want to use it as a contraceptive, you may produce enough T to get someone pregnant.

Secondly, with enough estrogen for a long period of time, MtF's usually begin to see sexuality differently. In some cases, they may lose interest in women, and start chasing men, or what they look for in sex and fetishes may be completely different. For bisexuals, atypical sexualities like feedism, and/or bottoms, this may make little difference, but for women who are picky, they will notice.

Third, although laws have cracked down on escort services, they still exist if you know where to look. If you have no commitment to dating and have zero rizz with cash to burn, there are women that are DTF. Depending on the country, transitioning may be cheaper at first, but has a runaway effect after a certain point.

That said, there are aspects to learning about women that may be useful. Fashion, hygiene, and arts and crafts are useful when socializing, and if you can meet a girl halfway, you can at least be friends with them. There is something to be said about being broke and dating, but self-improvement does not always mean getting cut and buff; for most on this forum, that may be the last thing on their mind. By getting a decent career and saving a budget for dating, you can be ahead of the curb and sustain playing the long game. The dating pool and job hunting are similar in that both require patience to find the glass slipper that fits; if you don't have the time to be fun and/or attractive, prepare to make compromises on both sides of the aisle, and everywhere in between. Even then, being single is not the end of the world, and it's better to have a relationship you like later on in life instead of getting sucked into a relationship which drains both parties.