Need advice on how to be a feeder on a budget

Starlord211:
We are currently doing the save up option and my usual discretionary spending is in the 200 range, thinking about moving to in persons.


Your profile suggests you live in or near a city. And since you're 18, you might be in college. If this is the case, there may be opportunities to supplement things with free or discounted food. (A lot of places offer student discounts).

It also doesn't hurt to look into rewards, coupons, discounts, etc, etc. Pizza is popular with college people for a reason. It's not that expensive compared to a lot of things and they usually come to you covered in coupons and discounts. Bonus points if you know how to cook.

If you don't please learn. It's an important survival skill and you can make a lot of food for cheaper prices if you stretch it right.

All that said, realistically speaking, I don't think this will be a regular thing for you two at this point. Unless she's chipping in a good deal and you are okay with spending all $200 on her, I don't expect you to afford the major stuffings that she enjoys.

My partner and I enjoy similar things to you two. At his peak capacity, I think we were spending maybe $50, $60 per stuffing with the two of us contributing. I'm not sure how much things cost where you are, so keep this in mind.
1 year

Need advice on how to be a feeder on a budget

Starlord211:
Hey all, im a new feeder who just met a feedee that id like a relationship with. I love talking with her besides just the feeder stuff we do. But besides that i need advice on how to do this on 1600 a month and with a feedee who likes force feeding, funnel feeding, and extreme stuffings.


I am assuming you're the one paying for everything? Because if so, I am not sure how that will work if she eats so much food.

Either you pay everything and do occasional stuffings you save up for or she contributes to it. Do you even have discretionary spending available?
1 year

Lecture hall seats are so tiny!

ThickassGothGirl:
So I'm in college, and I just arrived to my class in a big lecture hall. I guess it makes sense that they need to fit a whole bunch of students in the room, but guys omg I almost couldn't fit in the seat! I had to really push myself in to get in, I'm so worried for when the class ends and I have to get up (or try to) after

Currently wedged into the seat, with my fat thighs pressed together, which makes my belly stand out even more... of course I chose today to wear tight pants haha. I'm so embarrassed but it's also kind of hot lol


Living up to your name
1 year

Gaining with fatty liver disease

Munchies:
Honestly it depends. If you can reverse your liver damage, then you might be able to gain carefully once that's fixed. But if your situation isn't reversible, you might not be able to do it.

Bubbingscrubbles:
How do you reckon one goes about reversing liver damage?


It honestly depends on how severe your liver damage is. But basically you gotta lose weight, eat right, and take any medication prescribed.
1 year

A/b/o wg story recommendations

Sir Neapolitan:
Cheers for this!! Am not super familiar with Ao3 so this is a huge help. No issue with the Y/N omega stuff and the person who I had this in mind regarding is Bi, but there's still plenty to go through just with the het stuff. Thank you again for putting together!


It's nice to know I can put my internet degeneracy to work.
1 year

Plus sized elf anime adaptation

Kissasta:
So apparently the manga Plus Sized Elf by Synedoche is getting an anime adaptation this year. I'm pretty excited, especially after another favorite anime of mine, Delicious in Dungeon, also got its adaptation this year!



If youre not aware, Plus Sized Elf is a comic about an elf coming from a fantasy world after getting kicked out for getting chubby off our world's junk foods, namely french fries. Shes suppose to burn it off to be able to return to her duties and seeks help from a local spa/fitness clinic for help with fixing her life style. What follows is a cheeky, a little naughty and really funny story with plenty of fat and chubby characters, weight gain, and various antics. The manga does give some pretty good lifestyle advice, but it still has a large focus on very FA centric characters and plots. I highly recommend the manga (either the original run or the new one "Second Helping"smiley and just wanted to bring this to the attention of folks here since its a legit fun series thats going mainstream and depicting fat in a rather sexy/positive way.

Any thoughts on the series from yall?


This is interesting to me. I've come across this series before ages ago. I don't remember it very well, but I found it to be interesting. I'm fascinated with it getting an anime.
1 year

The golden age of feeding music may finally be upon us

The Augmentor:
OK, so I've uploaded another track, just 30 seconds long: what an updated Munchies theme song might sound like (the cartoon PSA, not the FF user...sorry, Munchies). I really like the result, but it took me hours and hours just to get that 30 seconds.

It's a little bit like trying to catch lightning in a bottle. With each iteration, the song changes a little...mess with it too much, and it quickly becomes unrecognizable. You almost have to get it right on the first or second try.


Okay, but this made me laugh.
1 year

Gaining with fatty liver disease

Bubbingscrubbles:
Anyone have any advice on gaining with fatty liver disease? I got all the way up to 361 but it got to a point where my liver was not a fan of my eating habits, and am currently trying to take it easy and have lost 6 pounds.

Thank you!


Honestly it depends. If you can reverse your liver damage, then you might be able to gain carefully once that's fixed. But if your situation isn't reversible, you might not be able to do it.
1 year

Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on

Letters And Numbers:
That's like Puritan level thought policing.

Munchies:
How so?

Letters And Numbers:
It seems like you’re trolling.


I am not. I legitimately confused.
1 year

Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on


Munchies:
There's nothing wrong with having sexual fantasies - even if they are unusual ones. But like ... consent is sexy. And if you don't have their consent, then maybe don't sexualize them.

Greentrees8733:
Totally understandable that the experience you described would feel violating.

I’m just not convinced fantasizing about others constitutes a violation of consent. I’m willing to be convinced otherwise, but here’s my take, featuring good ol’ Alice and Bob:

Alice’s thoughts about Bob are not actually Bob. Bob himself isn’t actually involved in Alice’s private thoughts about Bob, so there’s nothing for him to consent to (or not). Alice’s thoughts (about anything) are part of Alice. As an autonomous person, I would think Alice is the only one with any say over her own private thoughts.

Put another way, I don’t think fantasizing about guys as a teenager makes you “guilty” of anything. I just don’t see how private thoughts have any moral weight. Like, what harm did you do, or risk doing?

Sharing them is different, though. Sharing impacts others, so their consent is relevant. But that’s kind of OT for this reply.

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Side note: OP does say “I couldn’t keep my eyes off her” which (given the voyeuristic style of the post) kinda sounds like an inappropriate/potentially violating amount of staring, but that’s a separate issue from fantasizing being a violation of consent.

Munchies:
As a man thinks, so does he do.

I'm not saying fantasizing about people means you're going to actually do the thing. But it does color what you do in reality. The extent depends on what you conciously check yourself on, but it's never 100%.

Like, if a woman's boss fantasizes about her sexually, or a woman fantasizes about her best friend's husband, can we say it's not going to color their interactions with the object of their desire?

Remember, the issue isn't the kinks so much as the object of your desires.

Letters And Numbers:
That's like Puritan level thought policing.

Nok:
I don't think that's what she meant (Munchies, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.)

At least, the way I read it is not that it's immoral, so much as potentially damaging to your behavior with people. Like, fantasizing about someone doesn't make you a bad person, but it's good to remember that it can and likely will color your interactions with that person (or generic group of people). The mind is recursive - what you think affects how you think.


You're right. That's what I meant.
1 year