Morbidly A Beast:
I went to the doctors today it was just a normal check up but I got weighed in, turns out I’m up to 426 the topic of my weight came up when the nurse weighed me she assumed I weighed less than I did and was super apologetic when she read the number outloud, I just shrugged it off like nothing but I was quite amazed how much over 400 I am haha I remember when I just crossed 300

then again when the doctor came in, mentioned how I’m up 50 pounds from my last visit expressed concern asked what I’ve been doing and I was just honest about it, I just said how I love to eat and eat a lot and how work takes almost all my energy and how I actually don’t mind being fat. He said my weight isn’t a problem, for now (hey plus points for being educated) but he recommended me a dietician (again) and said he wants me back more often for regular checkups.

also I could not for the life of me fit into any of my sweatshirts from the spring this morning 🙈they are 3XL my belly poked out the bottom of all of em ☺️

Stranger122:
It's ex's and ohs by Elle King but I would love to hear the foot ball version

Nofbar:
Football (US) coaches will often go over plays with the team before the game. The plays are drawn on a chalk/white board with X's representing "us" and O's representing players on the other team.

Softcutie:
On tumblr “soft feedism” is the term most used to describe this.

I’m curious as to understanding the continuum of kink that seems like many kinks have a spectrum that ranges from creation and celebration to ruination.

Munchies:
Kink is a very fluid thing. But I've noticed that there are some general archetypes.

Non-gaining feedism: No desire to gain weight
Classic feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed)
Extreme feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed) as much as possible without severe health issues
Ruination feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed) regardless of or in service to health issues.

Technically, feedism as we understand it is two fetishes merged into one: fat fetish and feeding fetish. Then there are the satellite fetishes - things that aren't feedism but are feedist adjacent. Examples include but are not limited to:

- Food
- Bellies
- Expansion
- Transformation
- Vore

A lot of people view feedism through a BDSM lens - even if they aren't into BDSM. I won't say it's a bad thing. BDSM is a very popular fetish, and it pairs well with everything. However, I think it's also a limiting view. There's nothing wrong with enjoying soft feedism, but there is so much more than soft vs hard feedism.

ForeverFFA:
So well put. I find that categories can be limiting, in that most people check more than one box even if they choose to identify more with one or another aspect. Also, it's a pet peeve of mine that kink = BDSM automatically to a lot of people.

Softcutie:
On tumblr “soft feedism” is the term most used to describe this.

I’m curious as to understanding the continuum of kink that seems like many kinks have a spectrum that ranges from creation and celebration to ruination.

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.

Munchies:
Might wanna look into increasing your activity level. And also look into your diet and see if there's anything you need to cut back on. Don't gotta reduce your calories, but you can play around with things.

LuvsChub04:
tru, just didn't think id be getting out of breath n so sweaty this easily.

Fatty67:
It can raise your set point range and make you permanently jiggly

Munchies:
Your milage may vary. Some people experience permanent changes. Some people lose all the weight the moment they stop. It really depends.

Besides, the real magic of heavy cream is that it primes the body for weight gain. So if you want a more permanent change, make sure you are eating enough high calorie food. If it's a struggle to eat more, you are drinking too much heavy cream.

Ceepert:
How do you mean that it "primes the body for weight gain"?

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.

BigBallBellyGirl:
In the past 16 months, I regained 170 pounds of lost weight, plus 40 past my previous highest. Most of my weight with this regain settled in my belly, which has a pronounced yoga ball shape, side rolls, muffin top, and back. Obviously, breasts, buttocks, arms, and thighs grew significantly as well, but I'm very round, and my midsection is my biggest area. Because of this, when I sit, my girth expands exponentially, and I'm swimming in fat. I measure about 77 inches around standing, but more than 90 sitting. This poses major issues with clothing, particularly anything that has a waistband. Even the most elasticized leggings become very uncomfortable when sitting, and I find myself constantly rearranging. As a result, everything is ill-fitting. Any clothing recommendations?

LuvsChub04:
out of breath every time I climb stairs, its kind of concerning me

PumpkinSpice2002:
Just exploring this site and all, always been a bigger girl