Kink doesn't have to be strictly sexual. And most kinks have an ace community.

Plus, feedism is special regarding the community's overall approach to sex and sexuality. In many ways, it's oddly chaste.

I remember coming across an interview with a porn star that dabbles in multiple kinks. She said she loved making feedist content more than other kinds of porn because all she has to do is wear comfy clothes that show off her belly and eat a lot. She mentioned that most of the people who watch her stuff would feel embarrassed if she was as overtly sexual as she is making her other fetish stuff.

And it makes sense. I have a number of kinks. When I look at porn or erotica for most of these, it's usually about sex in addition to the kink. However, while such things exist in feedist spaces, a lot of it is gluttony-centered. Too small clothes, overfilled bellies, getting so fat you don't need clothes, etc. There's even a sizable chunk of people that think getting too fat to have sex is sexy.

So of course it will appeal to asexual people.

Merry Chrysler

I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.

If I recall correctly, store scooters have a max weight of 500 lbs. Any bigger and you'll need to bring your own. Those can get pricey, so ask your doctor for help. It may be covered under your insurance.

When you eat a lot, your stomach stretches to accommodate it all. It takes some time for it to shrink back to its normal size. The more you stretch it, the hungrier you are afterward.

Not really. I've seen post after post wax lyrical about how their obvious fetish/kink isn't a fetish or a kink. It usually comes at the expense of someone else - usually women. And when you point out the obvious flaws in their logic they either double down or say "Well that's just my fetish."

It's tragically comical how often I'll see people making "Is my spouse secretly a feedee?" threads. And every time without fail it's just some person doing regular people things.

Or the feedees terrifying someone will think they are a feedee for buying a carton of heavy cream.

It's the same with the evolutionary essentialism crowd. It's ultimately about legitimizing the taboo. People want to enjoy their fetishes but also want to fit in. Nothing wrong with that. But the way they go about it is very ... having your cake and eating it too.

Sooooo ...

You are attracted to fat women.
And only fat women.
You don't find any other body type attractive.

And you are on a fat fetish website,

My brother in Christ ... that's a fetish.

Being attracted to fat women isn't a fetish. But the way you go about it is inherently fetishistic.

The same goes for any other kind of woman: thin, muscular, thick, tall, short, etc. If you can find different kinds of women attractive - even if you have preferences - then it's not necessarily a fetish. But if you can't find women attractive outside of a specific kind of woman, then it's a fetish.

Here are some suggestions in no particular order:

Take care of your joints. This is extra important when you're super-sized because everything starts disintegrating after a certain point. And if you are already there, try some water exercises to build your strength back up.

If you have trouble reaching, you can get sock aids, shoe horns, and reach extenders. They tend to be pretty cheap and can be major life improvements.

Make sure you are getting enough fiber and water. When you eat a lot, your body has to work overtime to process it. Don't make it harder than it needs to be.

If you're struggling to pleasure yourself, don't be afraid to buy a toy. I recommend getting a wand with an extra-long handle. (To my AFAB peeps who want that internal stimulation, get you a thruster. They are a bit more expensive, but they are amazing.)


DON'T AVOID THE DOCTOR

I repeat

DON'T AVOID THE DOCTOR

Gaining weight increases your risk of several different health complications. It can also exacerbate pre-existing ones. I know many people don't want to go because they don't want to get scolded for getting fat/fatter. But hiding your head in the sand is doing you a huge disservice. Plus, you can get non-weight related illnesses that will never be fixed if you don't go to your appointments. Plus, there are fat-friendly doctors out there you can see instead.