Morbidly A Beast:
it seems to me like they think fat people can’t be or aren’t pretty/handsome, or think that getting fat is “giving up” — like nah we’re hot af and totally not given up lol maybe given up trying to appease fatphobic buttholes lol
Munchies:
Very, very true. Even outside of this fetish, fat people are sexy.
BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm 100 percent more confident at my current weight than I was under 200. I care for my hair,  skin, and makeup, and my fiance loves every bulge and curve. I hate the idea that the best revenge on the "hot, mean girl" from high school is weight gain, as though obesity is some terrible fate.
Yeah. Especially since a lot of those hot mea girls were either going through something at the time or weren't actually mean. I've seen guys label pretty girls and women as mean even though they were actually rejecting creeps. Sometimes they weren't even mean about it!
I much prefer stories of people finding liberation in weight gain. Finding joy outside of societal norms without bashing women.
And on that note, the ideal of bookish nerdy women being less attractive than sporty women is sooooo childish. They are equally attractive. You can also be both.
I'm a sporty nerd, and I've never been seen as less than for my bookishness. In fact, when men try to humble me irl and online, my intelligence is my greatest defence.