Gained 11.5 pounds in 2 weeks

Logn:
I wasnt even trying to gain a bunch of weight i was just eating what i though was normal?? i stepped on the scale a few mins ago to see i went from 250 2 weeks ago to 261.5 i dont even know how i did that im so greedy and this was without a feeder i couldnt imagine how big id get if i had one


My question is what all did you eat?

If you were eating normal amounts and put on 11 lbs in 2 weeks, that may be cause for concern. You might have fluid retention or something. But if you actually ate enough food to gain that much weight, then I question what you think is normal.

In my experience, you gotta be eating a shit ton of food. I've made my current and previous feedees gain 11 lbs in 2 weeks, but they were eating 10k calories every day for those two weeks.
1 year

Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on

Morbidly A Beast:
I just think it’s pretty gross that there’s people fetishizing strangers irl when there’s people in this community who are actively gaining on purpose but whatever enjoy your nut I guess

Billedmeup:
Sorry, I didn’t mean to be offensive. I see that the language I used could be taken that way. My apologies if I offended anyone. I meant this to be light and fun and not to be taken too seriously.


It's a consent issue.

Like sure. There are things we find attractive. And sometimes you see a stranger that really revvs your engine.

But you gotta admit it's violating to have someone put you in their spank bank like that. Imagine you're going to the bank and then someone digs your vibe. But instead of talking to you, they put you in their spank bank to get off.

Or worse. Maybe someone you know is attracted to you. Maybe you're close. Maybe you're just friends and you are in a relationship with someone else. But instead of respecting your relationship with each other, they masterbate at the thought of you.

Like sure. Maybe you never tell anyone about it. But it's still really creepy.
1 year

Did any of your school's girls became heavy office workers?

Hammerhead32:
The mods should do something about the thread.


The thread should be locked, but seeing how a mod had previously commented on it, I doubt it.

Like, I get we all have our fantasies. And I know a lot of people who have this specific fantasy. But this specific thread invites people to fetishize real people who didn't consent. Take OPs inital post. The first picture appears to be a real person.

Who is she? How would she feel about having her picture on a fetish site - especially in this manner. It's not a stock image. It looks like a thirst trap.

But a lot of people don't think about these things. To a lot of people, if it's online, it's fair game.
1 year

Extremely degrading words/phrases for feedee?

SwitchFeedee:
Would love to be encouraged and degraded a bit if you ever have more to test out 😉


Bro, she's got a partner. Stop being thirsty.

Go find someone available like a well-adjusted person.
1 year

Getting rid of internalized fatphobia? :(

OinkOinkPiggy:
I find myself thinking mean things about my body and worrying that others think I smell etc. even though I shower pretty thoroughly. I feel like my face looks like a bowl of butterscotch pudding and sometimes I get really upset that I never had the chance to be conventionally attractive due to medication-related weight gain.

How do I stop putting myself down and embrace my chunky figure?


It starts off small. You find little things to like about yourself here and there. Maybe you end up cutting fatphobic people out of your life or at least putting up boundaries. Surround yourself with people and media that uplift you.

You'll have your good days and bad days. The road to self-love isn't a straight path. But, in time, you start to be happy with the image staring back at you in the mirror.
1 year

Did any of your school's girls became heavy office workers?

Morbidly A Beast:
it seems to me like they think fat people can’t be or aren’t pretty/handsome, or think that getting fat is “giving up” — like nah we’re hot af and totally not given up lol maybe given up trying to appease fatphobic buttholes lol

Munchies:
Very, very true. Even outside of this fetish, fat people are sexy.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm 100 percent more confident at my current weight than I was under 200. I care for my hair, skin, and makeup, and my fiance loves every bulge and curve. I hate the idea that the best revenge on the "hot, mean girl" from high school is weight gain, as though obesity is some terrible fate.


Yeah. Especially since a lot of those hot mea girls were either going through something at the time or weren't actually mean. I've seen guys label pretty girls and women as mean even though they were actually rejecting creeps. Sometimes they weren't even mean about it!

I much prefer stories of people finding liberation in weight gain. Finding joy outside of societal norms without bashing women.

And on that note, the ideal of bookish nerdy women being less attractive than sporty women is sooooo childish. They are equally attractive. You can also be both.

I'm a sporty nerd, and I've never been seen as less than for my bookishness. In fact, when men try to humble me irl and online, my intelligence is my greatest defence.
1 year

Did any of your school's girls became heavy office workers?

Morbidly A Beast:
it seems to me like they think fat people can’t be or aren’t pretty/handsome, or think that getting fat is “giving up” — like nah we’re hot af and totally not given up lol maybe given up trying to appease fatphobic buttholes lol


Very, very true. Even outside of this fetish, fat people are sexy.
1 year

Did any of your school's girls became heavy office workers?

Morbidly A Beast:
i don’t care about your thing with the sister fetish or whatever it’s kinda weird but what got me to respond was the “have you ever seen a pretty girl get fat and gross smelly nerd” vibe it’s gross to my sensibilities as a fat person also just the whole thing about them being minors triggered me


I am not sure if OP was talking about minors or not. It's a bit of a Shrodinger's ephebophile. The teenager is both a minor and of age.

That said, you bring up a very good point about the other part. I've noticed this a lot in many of OPs posts, but he's hardly the only one guilty of this. But there's a sizable chunk of feedists (especially feeders and FAs) that see getting fat as some kind of failure. It's like "Look at this person that fits into society's view of success. I want to humble that person by making them 'undesirable'."

It's this special flavor of fatphobia and misogyny that makes it extra icky.
1 year

Advice

Ferro1987:
I need some advice from fellow gluttons. I’ve reached a point with my stomach’s capacity that despite packing as much food in my lunch as possible it takes me the full hour I have to eat it all, and I’m not satisfied. I’m left wanting more. It’s a balanced meal and not just junk, which I prefer because I want to live this lifestyle for as long as possible, but I’m hoping for some advice on how to make the most of the hour I have to sate my appetite in the middle of the day.


How much liquid are you consuming? Sometimes, your brain interprets thirst as hunger. Try getting something to drink - whatever you like - after a meal. You can also use it to increase your capacity.

That said, the trick is to take your time drinking. It will keep you from hurting yourself and your brain wiññ better register what's happening.
1 year

Time away/jeans

MickRidem:
Hey all. 2023 was pretty bad for me, some big and extremely stressful/scary things happened that kind of mentally shut me down aside from surviving day to day. Those events made my blood pressure skyrocket, blood sugar wonky, and I simultaneously LOST weight. *facepalm*

Things have since calmed down, therapy helped immensely, and I'm still under my doc's watchful eye a little longer. Something about *health*... UGH. 🤣 But I don't LOOK thinner at all, measurements are all pretty much the same. (I'm 5'4" so all weight on/off is usually very apparent.)

So I haven't gained back what I lost, but I put a *few* pounds back on. And by a few I mean literally 3. LOL! I went through stints of immersing myself in the fetish on multiple platforms and apps, and then nothing for a while needing mental healing time. I hope this year treats us all better. 😁

Before the holiday, I split the crotch of a pair of jeans. 😳☺ I crouch to the floor at work a lot. Haha! I bought 2 pairs of jeans pre-covid, and I'm bigger now than when I bought them, but because they're stretchy they never *felt* tight. This past week? Yup, the other pair split, same spot, same action. Thinner material? Too many washes? Denial much? Haha!

But I'm smaller than my heaviest when I wore them the past couple of years. Maybe I had some muscle loss and fat gain? Maybe they just gave up the ghost? I bought 2 new pairs this week, different brands, one and two sizes up. Wow, what a difference. 🤣

A funny little side story... a couple of friend coworkers know I'm happier being bigger. (No fetish stuff.) One day someone brought in boxes of doughnuts to share. I said something about not having enough breakfast that day. Friend of mine stressed the word YOU and not NEED when he said, "It's not like YOU need an excuse!" 🤣🥰

I love being fat. 😁


Hello friend. I'm happy to see you're back. I'm sorry that 2023 was such a shitty year for you. Here's to 2024 being kinder.

Stay safe and feel better soon.
1 year