Sweetfattie:
The heavier you are, the softer a mattress feels, because you have more weight pushing down on it. You will also wear the mattress out faster, which is why models made for heavy sleepers tend to be firmer.
I would recommend a hybrid mattress over a pure memory foam model. Hybrids are cooler and more durable. Look for one with plenty of cushy foam over sturdy springs. That way you get both back support and comfort. Cooling features are a big plus if either of you sleeps hot.
Good luck on your bed hunt! I like a firmer mattress, so I’m afraid I can’t suggest any specific models, but I did a LOT of research on beds for heavy people when I replaced my bed last year.
Many thanks for this! It sounds like we’re on the right track, then, with our desire for the middle ground between too soft and too firm. I’ve been stuck with both extremes in the past and it’s been bad, ha. Main goal for the new one is to comfortably support about 520 combined pounds nightly.
I’m happy to see most of the newfangled brands these days seem to offer x-number of days to try it out after buying it. I presume they’d give a full refund if we end up finding it too soft or too firm?
2 months
So my wife and I are planning to replace our old, worn-out queen-sized topper with a new king-sized mattress and/or bedding system. Many of the newfangled mattresses assume heavier people want a firm feel, but we both prefer a softer effect. Any advice to pass along?
2 months
Store-bought pasta of any kind and chicken-and-rice dish with some gravy or simmer sauce. It’s about as “cheap” as you can hope to obtain these days.
With the basics of cooking skills in hand, it can still make for a tasty dinner!
2 months
I have family who are fat, and so it’s always been around. My SO’s family is half fat and half not, so I’m grateful she inherited the fat gene :-)
2 months
As I tell everyone here who seem to be enjoying being fat, I’m here to encourage them and compliment what they probably don’t hear enough of in everyday life :-)
I’ve always loved bigger women, from my first gf forward. Hope to be a proud member of this community for as long as I can :-)
2 months
I think people who love each other will find a way. My SO is 320-340 pounds depending on our budget. I just caress that big, jiggly belly of hers, gently move it away from her fupa and penetrate her with love ❤️
2 months
HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)
It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.
It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)
So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)
Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.
That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.
HappyBigBelly:
Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.
In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)
Munchies:
Plush, full, soft, luxurious, fluffy, well-fed, over-fed, plump ... there are much better words than bese.
There's a psychology to words in that the mouth feel of the word influences perceptions of the word irrespective of its meaning.
Take the word "obese." The first syllable, "o," rounds out the word, allowing the mouth to slide more comfortably into the second syllable. Consider how your mouth moves when you say the list of words I provided. Your mouth and tongue stay relaxed and rounded, reflecting the softness these words suggest.
Now compare "bese." It is a sharp sound. You start by forcing air against closed lips. Then, you pull those lips back while flattening, stiffening, and drawing the tongue back. There's no soft sound like an o to remove the sharpness.
By all means, make up a new word. But maybe a different one will better visualize the softness you are trying to describe.
Yeah, I guess it demands more of an appetizer word instead of a main dish word :-)
2 months
HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)
It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.
It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)
So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)
Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.
That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.
Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.
In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)
2 months
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)
It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.
It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)
So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)
2 months
I usually grab a table instead of a booth in restaurants. For me, it’s about my back, not so much my stomach. The back cushions in booths are usually far too straight-up vertical for my back. I like to be reclined slightly when I eat. Same for when I drive. Granted, my basketball belly isn’t exactly “huge,” but it’s big enough to want to recline :-)
Table emphasis goes double for my wife. Her luscious figure sure doesn’t deal well with booth tables that don’t even offer enough space for thin people, much less larger people! :-)
2 months
