I think many of us male FAs have had their tastes evolve with age.
In my younger days, I was in line with the conventional image of female beauty, meaning a pretty face with a thin-to-average body. But I’d always harbored an affinity for fleshy shoulders and a soft, fluffy figure.
But then my first love came, and she began thinking but our young appetites meant for gradual but steady weight gain. She put on about 50 pounds while we were together and she often showed off her growing belly to me, which slowly converted me to being the FA I am today.
My wife of eight years is a lovely 330-pound beauty whose story I’ve told in other threads here. I’d have never guessed that my younger self would ever be turned on by it, but here we are. Her soft features and 60+ inch belly are here to stay, and we’d have it no other way :-)
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Was curious about coke and mentos before trying it for the first time tonight. I swallowed three mentos and drank the one 16-oz. Coke I had on hand. I think for me, just the Coke makes my belly puff up more than anything else. The mentos might’ve added a bit of speed to the situation. It’s been a half hour and my ball belly still feels bigger than usual, so I guess this was a success?
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Tink69:We are a rare breed on this site.
Checking back in to remind we’re here! 👍
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Spoilsandriches:
Just curious on what you guys are interested in
AI is a bit divisive these days, but I do say my wife and I both enjoy some of the weight gain story channels on YT. Some stories are quite plausible :-) The creator doesn’t always get the progression right, but overall it’s pretty good.
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I tend to let my ball belly show whenever an undersized shirt is the only clean thing I have to wear that day :-) My wife has become much more confident showing off her double belly this summer, for sure 👍
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Surely some before/after photos of both yourself and the clothes, to find along with the pieces of fabrics and mixed-media art items 👍
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Agreed prices are expensive, but learn to cook and you’ll see some homemade creativity will stick to your bones (and make them invisible, ha) in a much tastier way than stuff from fast food chains 👍
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My wife and I have taken to heavy cream during dinner, actually. We add it to our Alfredo pasta sauce to stretch it out further without losing consistency or filling-ness :-)
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Neglectedfeeder:
When my wife and I started dating 15 years ago (we were in high school) she was about 140#. By the time we got married at 21, she was right at 180.
A big contributor to this was relationship weight and me taking her out to eat all the time.
It also didn’t help that we both worked at the same restaurant and at the end of the night, since I worked in the back, I could bring home any left overs. So I always made sure she had all the fried ocra and fried chicken she could want.
After we got married, she got pregnant with our first kid and started piling on weight pretty quick. I remember one night she was so hungry she ate an entire large stuffed crust pizza and it was the absolute best thing.
It was around this time I told her about feederism and how I loved watching her eat. Truthfully, she didn’t take to this at first - after all, it was a “taboo.” After her pregnancy, she was right at 215. It was great!
After some time though she has really not cared so much about the weight and REALLY uses her weight to her advantage.
Now here is the fun part: in the last 2 years, she has really developed an appetite since I’ve gotten better at cooking. Every Saturday I make her a big breakfast and I grill out as often as I can today.
Every Tuesday and Thursday, she has me go and buy her some fast food after the kids go to bed and the weight has piled on.
Other factors are that she mixes her coffee creamer with heavy cream and she loves her cakes.
Today, she weighs 250 and she loves to use her belly on me during sex. She’ll smother me with her belly, have me use her belly, and so much more. She has really come to letting me worship and adore her belly.
Ask me anything, but I need to get back to making her breakfast! Biscuits sausage and gravy with the gravy made with heavy cream (;
Sounds like you have quite the happy situation 👍 I can relate to much of it, as my wife and I enjoy our heavier sizes as well.
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Slimjim:
Most people think feederism and fat admiration are purely modern kinks, but in parts of Africa, they’ve been cultural practices for centuries.
In my culture (Nigeria), fatness traditionally symbolised wealth, beauty, fertility, and good health. Among the Efik people in Calabar, brides-to-be would be secluded in special “fattening rooms” for months. There, they’d be pampered, taught womanhood, and encouraged to gain weight before marriage.
These images are from both modern ceremonies and historical records 👇
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When I look at this community, I see a parallel: what we do here isn’t strange or “taboo” it’s part of a long human tradition of celebrating fatness as power, prosperity, and attraction.
Maybe Fantasy Feeder isn’t just fantasy at all… maybe it’s a continuation of something much older.
Had anyone here ever heard of the Calabar fattening room before?
You’ve hit on a number of parallels between cultures, indeed. As also seen in Buddhist culture, a fattened belly isn’t seen as weakness. It is seen as a strength. It’s seen as a sign of stature. 👍
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