What is a Lil Nas X ?
A person, place or thing?

AskDrFeeder:
Weight-gain (and weight-loss, for that matter!) can be a symptom of depression or other health problems. It is natural for your loved ones to be concerned about that possibility; if you can put their minds at ease that would be gracious.[/quote]

That is a good point too.

My question is :
Why do you think you "owe" them an explanation?
Its really none of their business isn't it?
You wouldn't go around calling attention if one of them put on weight would you?

Seems these days people feel the need to "come out" about almost anything.
Are they searching for acceptance or something else?
I never understood that mind set I just did what I felt I needed to do for my reasons not someone else.
What I do is my business not friends or family.
If its a spouse then I can see it being a thing that needs to be talked about between the two.

I saw a lot of that when I worked part time at an LGBT center but never got a firm answer from any of the people.

I'm still here just a lot fatter than when I joined.

I have seen where testosterone has caused weight gain on FtM trans people so a change in hormones may likely cause a weight change.
MtF I have known did gain 20 lbs or so and that fat will eventually will end up in the hips and butt as well as thighs.
I'm no expert just an observation I made working at medical center that dealt with trans people that were seeing doctors.

Dimensions magazine's site and forum were fun back then.
I made lots of friends over there.

Munchies:
Feel that. I had to put the fact that I am in a closed relationship just to stem the sheer number of men begging me to cheat on my partner. And even then I still get messages telling me that they will pay me to feed them.

One guy even said he can give me the money without knowing any of my banking details. You know ... like a creep.[/quote]

The begging me to cheat on my BF shows me they are jerks and someone I wouldn't want to be around.
Super sleazy.

I have some message me expecting that I need a feeder and they want to make me immobile.
That shows me they never read my profile in the first place.
Guys please read a girls profile before you make yourself sounds like a jerk.

Just block them and be done with it.

Learn to let go and add some weight and see how you like it.
Do it for yourself.
20 or 30 more lbs isn't the end of the world and you just might find out you feel a lot stronger and healthier.
If others have said you should put on some weight maybe you should.