I'm definitely happier fatter. I put on about 20 lbs during the first UK lockdown only to lose 10 lbs again afterward. I saw a comparison photo and felt genuine sadness. I was in that moment absolutely certain that I needed to gain them again, which I subsequently did. I've plateaued for a while due to life, though happily haven't lost any.
Seeing and feeling myself grow, being fat, is without a doubt the most mind-blowingly erotic experience. Much more so that I could have hoped. For anyone sitting on the fence about it, take it from me: Actually getting fatter is even better than you imagine it's going to be.
3 years
Even if someone could sustain the intake of 20,000 calories per day, it’s extremely unlikely their digestive system could absorb that amount.
3 years
1. Do you consider gaining more of a fetish or need?
Usage of the word "fetish" is inconsistent and thus open to interpretation. But assuming that it's use here is to suggest that feedism is an additional and non essential component to one's sexuality, then definitely the latter. My sexuality is entirely fat and feedism based.
2. How much have you gained (on purpose)?
Off and on, 50 pounds.
3. What's your weight goal?
Fantasy: Heavier than yesterday and lighter than tomorrow.
Reality: I swing between wanting to be leaner, say 200lbs, and wanting to be 300lbs+.
3 years
I am looking forward to trying this. Thanks for making and sharing it!
4 years
Sir HugALot:
last month i did 600ml of double cream everyday, with 1 day as a break on top of overeating. i gave up after 2 weeks because i didnt gain anything. been averaging 5000 a day this month on normal food and still havent gained anything. am i defying the laws of nutrition or something? its really depressing and frustrating
becomingoverweight:
Has your fat distribution changed at all?
Sir HugALot:
i think it might have, i still weighed the same last night, i got upset and depressed
That’s rough. My experience is similar to others here: The most effective way to consume double cream is to spread it out over hours. When I use it, I tend to drink 600ml over about 4 hours, in the morning/early afternoon. This way, I don’t experience the internal “heaviness” and I avoid it crushing my appetite.
If you’re over-consuming calories but not gaining fat, then you’re not absorbing those calories. This is normal, as we don’t absorb every nutrient that we consume, however it might be worth spending some time considering your digestive health and eating habits to see if you might find ways to optimise your calorie absorption.
4 years
HanSelo:
You think it’s sexist.
Just stop typing.
Bicepsual:
I do think there's a prioritization to men, yes. Just read the history of trying to get flibanserin approved by the FDA and the many other female oriented libido drugs, all while male sexual drugs breeze through.
Another example is MT2, a peptide that clearly raises libido in men and women. And as a man, I can walk into any anti-aging/hormone clinic and receive shots. But a woman is forced to buy it on the black market when the side effects are identical for both sexes.
Apologies - I misunderstood. You raise a good and important point.
4 years
HanSelo:estradiol being the primary hormone relating to female libido.
Some research suggests that supraphysiological testosterone levels in women may elevate sexual desire, but this is abnormal.
Bicepsual:
The studies that were mixed were using 1% cream at a dose of 5-10 mg per day. Absorption rate of creams are 10-20% at best. They're crap. The studies with MEN are mixed using creams and there is no debate that test drives male libido. Inject a female with 20mg of test propionate and ask her in 24hrs what she's feeling. It's not subtle. She'll be crawling up the walls within 48hrs.
Small doses of ANY strong androgen will turn a woman's world upside down with lust, particularly DHT and DHT derivatives, more so than testosterone itself (has higher affinity for the androgen receptor). This is why drugs that reduce SHBG all have a side effect of increasing libido because SHBG binds to androgens.
Vice versa, estradiol causes SHBG to skyrocket. This is why estradiol birth control notoriously craters libido.
I dated a number of bikini competitors that took small doses of androgens like Proviron, Stanozolol, Anavar or low dose test. And it was insane what even 5mg of a DHT derivative will do to the female libido. My one ex after two weeks on stanozolol had to wear a pad to work because she was soaking through her pants every day. Perpetually turned on. My other ex had to stop riding her Peloton bike on Proviron because she would orgasm.
The East German Olympic team was forcing its female athletes to take turinabol and the declassified team physician reports show 3 of the girls left the program because they couldn't psychologically handle the libido increase.
There are a ton of drugs that dramatically increase the female libido and the common thread is they all target the androgen or MC4 melanocortin receptors. They'll simply never be FDA approved for long-term use due to the effects on cholesterol, disruption of their cycle, HTPA suppression etc. In the end I still think it's sexist because men are going to any clinic and getting up to 600mg of test injections a week which is WAY harsher on your lipid profile and organs than the female drugs we know about.
You think it’s sexist.
Just stop typing.
4 years
Bicepsual:
Probably much more psychological – tied to your kink.
Physically, fat generally leads to a declined libido because fat contains aromatase. Aromatase converts testosterone to estrogen. The more fat you have, the more aromatase you have, the higher your estrogen, lower your free testosterone.
And free testosterone is critical to female libido; why women are the most horny when ovulating or right before their periods. This is also why very obese men develop gynecomastia and often have erection issues: super high estrogen, very low T levels tied to their weight.
Estrogens and progesterone regulate sexual desire for females in mammal species, with estradiol being the primary hormone relating to female libido.
Some research suggests that supraphysiological testosterone levels in women may elevate sexual desire, but this is abnormal.
4 years
Just curious to know what others have experienced with regard to friends and acquaintances, and your suspicions that they may have an interest in this area.
I have a long-term female friend who I’m reasonably certain has feedee feels. A few years back she appeared to be intentionally gaining (my gain-dar was beeping loudly) and was quite successful, causing me to experience a great deal of internal conflict, since she is a friend, as is her partner. She subsequently lost the weight. My reading of the situation is that she wanted to explore getting fat, but only temporarily, or that the act of doing so came with consequences that she did not like.
Another friend, also female, seems very interested any time someone brings up the topic of someone male gaining weight. She’s even joked a few times about finding fat men attractive, and has certainly noticed my weight gain.
It makes me wonder what percentage of feedists do not take their interest online, to sites such as this. It’s reasonable to assume that FF and other sites are the natural destinations of the fat-intrigued, but I wonder the ratio between those who explore this online and those who don’t.
4 years
