I've been told I have a 'bubble butt' before. Was confused at first. But I suppose I embrace it now.

I'm not a gainer nor have I gained. It's just been a fact of my anatomy. I have...what is considered....a big ass.

Mine is more on the fit side though. I cycle a lot, walk a lot, and run. So it's firm and big. You get a lot more 'torque' out of it too.

I've always just been curious about the female attraction to a big ass. I mean, it's not like the opposite male attraction to a big female ass. As a male....you mount that and you pound the shit out of it (whichever way you're entering). And you get that feeling..that only a heterosexual male doing such could get I imagine.

I dunno....women? What's in it to like in a guy's ass?

Well I don't usually post but what the hell..

As douchey as the OP words it (and as much as I hate the idiot who constantly put on the Zoolander in the break room all the time many years ago....)

There are a few points:

1) Yes, there are MANY if not most fat girls out there who really do have it in their minds that they are not 'good enough' and make various efforts to actualize this idea by doing everying up to and including sabatozing any chance they may have with a guy THEY deem to be 'too good.' Try dealing with a woman who has it engrained to auto/systematically hate herself. That's your average fat girl

2) I really really really REALLY hate to say it, but: WTF women. Well, some women anyway. I sadly know too many women who actually like the D-Bag demeanor the OP operates upon; such women will go to all ends to defend them. And I've found many of the bigger girls just to assume that's the way by talking with them....

3) "Ridiculously Good Looking" is a joke and OP knows that. You don't mention Zoolander unless you get your humour or I suppose severely mentally handicapped (the orange people and such you see on TV these day, etc.)

4) Since this happens to be the one year aniverssary of me being tricked into going in to a particular bar on what I found out was "black night".... Let me just say, as the only white, Canadian guy (the place litrally being on the same street I was born on too).... I was acutally laughed out loud at by a fat white girl for my advances simply because of my appearance. I had a heart-to-heart with one of her African friends confirming this, and my preferences, right afterwards. I danced with and had a fat Latino girl perplexed with me that night as well.... Ultimatley the confusion had me resovle to drinking 6 more beers on top of my two bottles of wine, and getting strange VIP treatment and NOT being kicked out, which is highly odd for this establishment

Anyway, do not underestimate the power or female self-hatred. However do notoverrestimate the ramblings of your average male D-Bag. Too many women are hooked to this

Well I'm not one to use this site much let alone post on the forum.... but I am one for loving being the minority in any circumstance..

I have to side with Hunter here and totally get what he means.

Some girls just are the fat type; man involved or not. Do we need to point out that there are PLENTY of women who easily/effortlessly/happily/whatever put on plenty (hundreds of pounds even) of weight all on their own? Then whine about hating it....

I consider this simply more of the discrepancy between society, reality, and the condition of the
modern human animal....

Hunter9's experience sounds like the classic western idealism I've seen all too many times. Girl gets particular self image imposed by media and society.... Society does not support such self image in practice with the reality it presents. Plenty of women say they want to be fit, look like whatever idol,and even go to the gym, yadda yadda. But when it comes down to it.... They don't want to take the time, and take on what is an ongoing maintaining lifestyle. And they'd much rather be lazy and pig out on all the ever so available tasty food in modern societies.

I'm willing to bet a pretty penny that the girl Hunter was with would have got plenty fat all on her own at some point anyway. Leaving food around or openly serving it is not manipulative when someone readily eats it up.

Plus we need to remember that she probably did enjoy it as he suggests. But when society says that anything fat is evil - as I have experienced - girls will go to any length to conform for comfort and say they hate it all just for for show. Take away the bias and I bet you'd see a lot more openness for the girls who love to eat and who would otherwise have no other reason to hesitate getting fat.

There are plenty of girls out there who would love to eat as they please and inevitably be fat if it weren't for the massive pressure of pop culture telling them they should feel bad in the first place. These are the girls Hunter is talking about who seem to just 'pile on the pounds with ease'

I'm not trying to be sexist either. I'm a straight guy who likes fat (not morbidly obese) girls..so that's been my experience. I'm sure the same goes for women liking men, and gays, trans, whatever, too....

I'm a 76 kg (169 l fit 20 year old male. I went to an all you can eat buffet 2 days ago. I noticed one exceptionally large person there. However, here they don't discriminate I find. I've never seen anyone kicked out or asked to stop.

Better yet I, the "skinny" guy have got to be their greatest nightmare. I ate 4 massive plates of pure snow crab legs. Like literally over 10 crabs worth. Not only is it established that these are perhaps the deadliest food to obtain in the whole world....they are also expensive as ***. You'd pay over $200 in a grocery store for the amount I ate (and always do at these things). So the stereotype doesn't always work.... Plus when I also go to these things and then go for a hardcore workout afterwards. Crabs legs are apparently quite healthy and thus good for working out with.