It’s so powerful to see positive support and encouragement around the weight gain journey, especially from female feeders who truly get the emotional and physical sides of it. I don’t have specific video recommendations myself yet, but I’m always looking and would love if others could share their favorite channels or creators!
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MrOverstuffed:
With weight gain I know there are a lot of things that need to be taken care of, knees, back, healthy body function, etc. I don’t want to struggle and feel miserable if I gain weight and put my life at risk, so I want to keep working my body while gaining weight. Is yoga good to stay in good health or would the gym be better?
The gym environment just kind of stresses me out, I could easily do yoga at home.
Yoga can definitely be a great way to stay healthy while gaining weight, especially if the gym environment stresses you out. Yoga helps strengthen muscles, improve flexibility, and maintain good posture, all really important for easing pressure on your knees and back as you gain weight.
The gym can also be beneficial, especially with strength training that supports your skeleton and muscles, but if you feel comfortable with yoga and can stick to it, that’s totally fine. The key is to listen to your body, avoid pushing too hard, and keep moving in a way that feels good and safe. If possible, I’d recommend mixing a bit of both, but yoga alone is definitely a solid way to stay connected to your body and keep it healthy during the process.
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Wow, this is so intimate and powerful. There’s something really special about being in charge of this process, not just the feeding itself, but also the deep connection created through that passion, the eye contact, and the wholehearted consent.
Actually, I experienced something like this with my feeder until recently, she used to funnel huge amounts of food into me. That kind of feeding makes you gain a lot if it goes on for a long time. It’s amazing. It’s beyond sex, it’s control, it’s closeness, it’s a different kind of love.
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Captain Cake:
To start with, this is a serious question and I'm very curious about it, particularly when it comes to men as I have somewhat a personal experience of it to some level.
For those of you who are super fat men (or dating/partners of super fat men), has there been a point at which standard, penetrative sex has become impossible without the use of toys or other additions to make it work? I'm aware that every man is equipped differently and fat distribution plays a big part, but I'm generally curious about it. Is there a point where you've tried and then had to basically say "okay, this isn't going to work anymore so we'll have to do things another way from now on"?
That’s a really thoughtful and real question. Yes, there definitely comes a point where traditional penetrative sex can become challenging or even impossible, depending on the size and how fat is distributed. For some, it means adapting, using toys, trying different positions, or exploring non-penetrative intimacy.
I think it’s part of the journey of being comfortable in your body and figuring out what works best. Often, it’s not the end of the world but rather an opportunity to discover new ways of closeness and pleasure. Every relationship is unique, and communication between partners is key to finding what fits best for both.
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CatgirlEva:
I'm pretty big already, but I absolutely want to get fatter. At my current size, I'm having trouble standing up, but I see it as part of the package. Do I want to be immobile? I really don't know. Yes? No? Maybe? I guess if it happens, then it happens. I do, however, want to be a minimum of 500lbs.
Wow It sounds like you’re on a wild and inspiring journey with your body, and it’s fascinating to see how open you are about the dilemmas, challenges, and desire to keep growing.
I have to admit, I am no woman but if I had a real feeder who took control over me and fattened me up however she wanted, I’d be ready to balloon without a second thought. Even up to 800 ibs or more. There’s something addictive about being that fat, so dependent, under the hands (and the cooking!) of someone who dedicates herself to the process. The idea that she’s cooking, feeding, pushing one more bite and snack after another… until I can barely move, it’s just insane. Feels like a fantasy I wouldn’t say no to.
What’s the most exciting part of the 500-pound goal for you? The physical sensation? The dependence? The transformation in how you look? Or maybe something totally emotional?
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What was the exact moment you realized you loved the power of making someone bigger for you? Not just the kink. Not just the play. But the raw, intoxicating thrill of control. of watching someone surrender, bite after bite, pound after pound. because you wanted it.
Was there a turning point? A moment that lit something up in you: dominance, nurture, lust, obsession, even love? What changed in you when feedism became more than just fantasy?
I’m not just asking about logistics, I’m asking about the fire behind it. If you’ve felt it, you know exactly what I mean.
Let’s talk about that.
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Ball Belly Craig:I'm just curious to know all of your methods/techniques/experiments all you feeders would like to or have tried out on a small feeder
Honestly, it's different every time and depends on the dynamic. Sometimes it's soft encouragement with little treats throughout the day, just gently making sure they're always a bit full, a bit spoiled. Other times it's more playful with teasing them about how snug their clothes are getting or how heavy they're starting to feel in my lap.
I love using food as a way to connect: slow, indulgent meals, feeding bites by hand, or surprise desserts that just magically appear after they've said they're full. And of course, praising every little change, from the tighter waistline to the growing appetite. It's all about making them feel safe, adored, and deliciously out of control. Some days it’s subtle, other days it’s a feast. Depends on the mood and how greedy they’re feeling.
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Helveticus:
I wish you all the best on your journey, and thank you for the kind and encouraging words!
You goal weight is one I aspire too, in my still under control unrealistic aspirations.
I must say that I shared because it took me more than 20 years to finally take the small steps towards fatness. Don't miss out like I did. Even if I started 10 years ago, I'd be significantly fatter and my confidence would be much higher.
It sounds like regrets, but I'm also happy I finally did it at all. So if what I wrote here could help someone take the step right now, they might enjoy it longer.
Getting intentionally fatter is a serious step to think about in depth, but if someone's only reason not to do it is apprehension-based, baby steps to dip your toe in the feedee mindset are easier to undo than regretting not doing it at all.
well said, mate.
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