There is this guy I am in touch with on fb, who is just gorgeous. And he seems to like me too: he always likes my pix and sometimes we even sext, although it's more about exchanging flirty messages. However, when commenting fb posts on random groups, he will crack the occasional fat joke, not about me or at anyone else 's expenses, just in general. Ofc, he is married to a really thin girl, but I dont resent him for that. People may fall in love for different reasons and anyway he lives abroad. I am just wondering what could motivate a guy to act with such a lack of consistency. Mind you, my pix are recent and unfiltered because I want people to see the real ME, so he certainly noticed I am a BBW. How can you like some characteristics and at the same time make fun of them? I have slight preference for short guys, but I am nit tempted to make fun of them
2 years
Coming to Lisbon this weekend. Does anyone want to meet?
2 years
Guestoflegend:
Your health is important (if you care about that).
The fetish is just that, it also leaks into fantasy elements that are unwise or unrealistic.
If the urge is always going to be there, indulge it while you are young still.
Once you are older it all comes at great risk and can come back to bite you.
Also keep in mind that if it's strictly a sexual thing, your libido may wane as you get older and you won't necessarily enjoy it the way you do now. Even if you're stuck with a heavier body.
Thanks. Just this.
2 years
I prefer real food... so delicious
2 years
I prefer real food... so delicious
2 years
HappyBigBelly:
We’re hiding in plain sight on here :-)
Not hiding
3 years
Satana:
I think it creates a strong intimacy. When someone trusts you for shaming them and respect their limits. It's very intimate so very hot...
The subversion too. We know fat-shaming people is wrong, I would never do that IRL without consent. I yell at people who fat-shame actually.
So it feels really good to have that freedom here... (or with a consenting partner)
Also there is something very cute about a fat guy blushing with embarrassement ^_^ It just drives me crazy.
What a pity you are not bi, I love the French language and I dream about a 3sum with a guy and a girl based on size contrast
3 years
Satana:
I think it creates a strong intimacy. When someone trusts you for shaming them and respect their limits. It's very intimate so very hot...
The subversion too. We know fat-shaming people is wrong, I would never do that IRL without consent. I yell at people who fat-shame actually.
So it feels really good to have that freedom here... (or with a consenting partner)
Also there is something very cute about a fat guy blushing with embarrassement ^_^ It just drives me crazy.
What a pity you are not bi, I love the French language and I dream about a 3sum with a guy and a girl based on size contrast
3 years
bigdj1977:
I really don’t like it when a waiter (mostly men do this in my experience) calls me “big guy” in a restaurant when I am about to order. Makes me feel really self conscious about my large order of food. Yes, I am most definitely big and I am about to stuff myself thoroughly but I really don’t like a stranger to draw attention to that.
Would you consider leaving then and there?
3 years
