FatAdmirerLove82:
Though I did have this fantasy of mine, that would only really work with a woman who wants an actual romantic relationship. Since it would focus on trust and undying love for each other regardless of whether gains or losses actually happen.
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I’m curious how many years/seasons you’d try to keep that up!
Would you keep repeating the cycle no matter how much she gained or would you prefer to find a balance?
3 years
Why has nobody warned me about fat tan lines?!?
I have feelings.
I’ve always been annoyed by tan lines and so if I can swim nude I do, but with the last couple covid years that hasn’t been an option.
Well we went to the river this weekend and I have tan lines from being fat. I get that I’d have the normal swimsuit tan line but the ones on my belly and thighs are from being fat.
I’m equal parts embarrassed and proud? I’ve never ever been this fat ever. For a long long time the idea of getting to 200 was A LOT… it took a long time to get there.
Now I’m so fat my own fat rolls create tan lines on my body.
You can dramatically see the line on my thighs of how far out my belly rests on my lap when I’m sitting. I’ve never had that.
I can’t even sit naked to not get tan lines without making sure I adjust my fat distribution periodically.
This is my fuck I’ve gotten fat moment for sure. 🤯
3 years
I never had a thing for fit guys before I got fat. I usually preferred thicker guys when I was fit/skinny because skinny/skinny doesn’t feel good together…
But now that I’m big and soft skinny/fit guys are fun to have such a contrast with.
There’s a few ways I find it hot- fit guys have that endurance to fuck which is absolutely fantastic.
Skinny guys I can overpower with my weight. I love having control.
There’s the contrast in sizes which the bigger I get the more I feel like I’m being mounted/rode and there’s something about that, it pushes so many buttons.
There’s also the complicated mental triggers happening in my brain too… when I was fit the fit guys I dated we’re obsessed with fitness and their partner (me) also being fit… so that’s still in my brain and I love the idea of a fit guys just so obsessed with my FAT body they can’t help themselves even though they also hate it.
It’s like a revenge/power kind of satisfaction. I play with a couple very fit dudes, they take a lot of pride in being fit af and even though we’ve been hooking up for years they’re just as obsessed as ever and I like to think part of that is because fat bodies are meant for fucking. It just feels good. (Not to mention I’m good at it.)
So yeah I don’t typically instigate with fit dudes, that vibe just typically isn’t for me but fit dudes into fat chicks is a whole other vibe I am into!
3 years
PolyPinoyPuppy:
But to me, there's a difference between feederism as a kink and fetishizing people for their body type or habits. The former can enrich relationships. The latter is objectification that needs consent.
Communication is at the core of what this thread is about.
Finding out what people want before trying to provide what you think they want is critical.
I wish everyone could read this and then behave accordingly.
But reality is that’s the biggest fantasy of all.
3 years
As someone who has been fit the majority of my life, I thought getting fat would mean less attention.
Absolutely not what has happened. I have more interest than I have time for and I attribute that to my confidence.
And I think sex has gotten even better. It’s more primal. The way men touch my whole body now where when I was skinny they were more prone to just tits and ass. It’s absolutely amazing and one reason I’d never want to be skinny again.
I really really wish all fat women could understand the power that they have.
3 years
Zampano708:
It's indicative of our society and is very evident in this fetish community. Most of the women who like fat guys or when a man gains weight and gets fatter would never act it out in real life. They couldn't handle showing themselves with a fat man because they would be embarrassed. They come to these sites, mostly anonymously, and then offer online encouragement or online feeding sessions so they can masturbate because sex with their real live partner isn't satisfying for them. The best thing about it is that they appear completely natural and self-confident behind their anonymity. I've been on different sites for a few years and most of them are no different from this variety. Can actually only advise the gentleman here that they attach money to them and not the other way around
spoop skerry:
And? So? Not to be mean, but sexy stuff without attachment is kind of the point for most users here, right?
Yeah I thought that’s why we’re here sharing the way we do, man or woman. I hope so because that’s why I post the pictures I do! 😅🫠
3 years
I have mixed feelings about this aspect of gaining. I’ve always been fit and active, so the physical limitations are very much a mind fuck still…
But it’s the sharpest reminder that I’m fat fat now, I’m not that little fit thing anymore… obese…. Technically morbidly obese… the fat girl that breaks chairs and may not fit in an airplane seat much longer… the super flexible girl who can’t just easily clip her toenails anymore since her fat belly is in the way… so all those little things add up to do a psychological number on me that makes me a needy wet mess.
But my faaavorite is the attention, it’s a bit different from the right people. It’s more primal, physical, grabby. I love using my whole body during sex but most normal guys even when I was skinny don’t operate like that… but being fat… man I love being grabbed and jiggled and touched ALL over… ugh, it’s fantastic!
And I feel like I’m even in more demand as a fat girl, I don’t lack for partners, I have more than I can actually handle. And I think I’m surprised a bit by that sometimes, since I’ve heard other women complain about that being a problem.
3 years
Just be yourself. Be authentic. 💯
Authentic interaction is way more gratifying than numbers. I think anyway.
Make sure your profile is fleshed out, I know that’s something I look at and has inspired me at times to message people when we have something in common.
There’s the chat option to also interact with others. (I’ve never used it but just because I’m too awkward)
Forums are my favorite way to interact and share experiences and ideas.
3 years
The accidental gainer- ex jock.
Accurate but also there were so many questions I wanted to give multiple answers to. I’m flexible and varied in the ways I enjoy this kink.
3 years
