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6 years
A good relationship must have its foundation in love to flourish over time. Both must be open and honest about what catches attraction. It's very easy that this fetish takes control as it is somehow addictive. And yes, people can easily be more or less horny all the time. But a mix of the fetish, everyday life, some nice surprises, a little adventure from time to time can make a lifetime of enjoying life and the sensational excitement of experiencing all the good of an abundance of food and increasing softness π
6 years
John Smith:
I'm still waiting for the sources that states out the percentage of Swedish male population who hold favorable appreciation toward heavier women...
Hi John, I have searched Swedish Google, but not found a reliable source. I guessed the figures, do you have figures from some other study? Probably a properly done study, from any place would indicate quite accurately what percentage there is, plus / minus some, depending on local factors.
6 years
Mohawk:
SvenskFA: It must be some cultural difference, jante-law or something. But surely there are Swedish women into this, though by percent I guess the number is less than in USA. I have had long term relations with more than one BBW/SSBBW, and I agree with you, it is hard to explain that people actually are attracted to their physical appearance. Better to hide the curves in baggy close by reasons not defined π But if one want COLA and live in a glass of water, one must get up and change glasses ππ
deepdesire:
I like your coke verses water analogy lol.
I've always felt like I either am living in the twilight zone or I'm from it. Never quite fit in and this fetish on top of thar .... most people would never understand it, it seems. Ever ever
Thanks for liking the analogy π I heard it on a seminar and remembered it as it simply explains what people need to do to get what they want.
I don't care what people think about my fetish, it is 100% legal to like big woman, and it is legal to be big. I might have been lucky, but I have never got a negative comment on my girlfriends. And sometimes they questions of preference come up, and I just state what I like. Never a negative comment on that, but sometimes a guy can admitt they share my preference, but don't dare to live it. Sorry for them π In my life, I want to have what I desire, and surprisingly often, I get it ππ
6 years
I like this too. If I could have a lady sitting and snacking in my office expanding her figure simultaneously with helping me expanding my businesses, it would be hotter than hellπ
6 years
SvenskFA: It must be some cultural difference, jante-law or something. But surely there are Swedish women into this, though by percent I guess the number is less than in USA. I have had long term relations with more than one BBW/SSBBW, and I agree with you, it is hard to explain that people actually are attracted to their physical appearance. Better to hide the curves in baggy close by reasons not defined π But if one want COLA and live in a glass of water, one must get up and change glasses ππ
6 years
SvenskFA: I agree on that. Once there was Stor och vacker, they hade meetings/party in Stockholm. But now there is nothing. I think Swedish people don't dare to be what they are, less show it in public. I am open with my orientation and gladly walk with a big woman everywhere. I have thought many times about starting a site/community, but how to reach the right people? I'm also afraid that Swedish women with this orientation don't dare to let them selves express this side. What do you think?
6 years
I would say listen π Listen and remember what she says. Also be clear with what you like and want. Probably you won't get an exact 100% match and that means that compromises is needed. This is a fetish and only one part of life. Be a good man in general, give hΓ€r unconditional credit for the good she does as a person. Give her surprises now and then, vary regular life so something new unexpected brightens life. Be romantic. Also remember yourself and spend time with your interests and friends, and give her space at the same time to be herself and do what she likes. With the feeding/feedee thing, I think she will tell you how to be a good feeder, as it varies from person to person, just ask. I'm sure you'll find a fine woman! Wish you good luck!
6 years
I have thought about a too, but in the opposite way. How many women could there be in Sweden that were feedees? But to give a guess to your questions, I'd guess from 0.5 to 2 % to be true FA's. And that is 50 000 to 200 000. Split that in half for how many men/women it is per gender. This is probably the answer in general for the difficulty to find matches for at least Swedish men. Sometimes I wish I lived in USA as the women of interest seems to be living there and not in Europe and definitely not in Sweden. Or maybe European women still lives in the closet and don't dare to come out with this fetish.
6 years
I very easily get aroused by that

I think of that almost all the time, guess thats why I am a feeder!
6 years