What clothes make you look fattest?

I will also throw a bid in for any stripes, but specifically stripes leggings. Also anything plaid (like a snug dress shirt) really shows off the curvature of sweet jiggly rolls (although probably not both these things at the same time but idk, I’m not a stylist)
2 years

Turned on by your own fat

WideJuan76:
As I got more and more obese, what I noticed was the sensitivity that came with it. I could actually feel at the same time different parts of my body jiggling all independently of each other and it was amazing because I was turned on but it was my little secret as to why and I used to be embarrassed by it but now I champion it.


This is the dream.
2 years

Does anyone love wearing outgrown clothes in public ?

User14244360:
Also I finally gave in and bought new jeans about 2 months ago and they’re already getting way too tight.


This is my problem 100%. I’ve had to go out and get new, bigger jeans over and over in short bursts of time because if they’re just a little too small they cut into my abdomen when I sit, super uncomfortable. And even my biggest ones, when I’m home if I’ve just eaten I often have to let the zipper down and unbutton. I’m not a gainer either, this is just how this is playing out for me.
2 years

Outgrown clothing?

Pants/jeans have been the problem for me. I don’t like getting new clothes and I don’t have a lot of money to always be getting more clothes, but I’ve had to relent again and again because just a little weight gain and the tops of my pants start cutting into my abdomen, making me feel achy and generally horrible. I feel like it will be obvious when you have to size up; if you continue to get away with it and enjoy it and you’re not suffering, keep wearing those smaller clothes 🤷‍♀️ but in the last couple of years I’ve gone from a women’s size 12 (US), to 14, to 16, and currently I’m on 18 😵 I’m not even gaining intentionally, it’s all pandemic weight. Which also means I’m not sure when it will stop.
Actually I may have this particular problem more acutely than some people because I’m naturally very bottom-heavy, so all that weight goes to my….. uh……. *cough* pants.
2 years

No new feabie accounts?

Oh WOW the saga fucking continues with Feabie. I got un-banned this morning and by early afternoon I got re-banned. Why? I literally think it’s because I posted a meme about returning from “Ban Land”.
This whole time I’ve emailed them over and over and they’ve never once gotten back to me.
can you believe I had a fleeting moment of worrying that they were monitoring other sites like this one to see who is talking shit about them? 😂 that’s just anxiety for ya, thinking irrationally like that while they’re not even monitoring their own inbox. I swear to god there isn’t a single human actually looking at the emails they get. I feel so fucking toyed with. Serves me right for ever having gotten mixed up with them tho! Five straight years as a community member and OH NO, one critique of their staff and suddenly I’m banished and re-banished over and over like I’m some self-proclaimed professional troll. Not one word of an explanation. I sure as hell hope that you can handle me solo, FantasyFeeder, cuz that’s what you’re getting! 🙃 ⛺️

If anyone is thinking about making a profile with them and you’ve never been on there before: don’t bother because this is how they’re treating anyone with the audacity to point out their flaws in administration and favoring racist *actual* trolls.
2 years

New partner may have fetish

Daddysfeeder15:
Okay update, sex started with him putting his belly in my face and letting me kiss it, he then smothered me with it (asking me first).

He mentioned FUPAs the other day too


Hah. I’m just saying, if he waddles like a BHM and oinks like a BHM….. 😉
2 years

Turned on by your own fat

While I’m not a gainer and not particularly big- just modest amounts of chub in my belly and butt- I gained about 30 lbs of pandemic fat and have continuously had to go clothes shopping as a result. While it was unintentional tho, I was wildly turned on when I realized I could feel my belly jiggling (when it definitely didn’t used to) anytime I go over a bump in a car, and when my (fairly small) boobs were able to brush the top of my new little tummy when I sat down I was *amazed*. In the last few years I’ve been with my man I’ve also realized that my belly is one of my most erogenous parts. Honestly just being part of the feeder community has enabled me to accept feeling stimulated by my own body and I just love that I can say that.
I’m also deeply happy just to live in a world knowing there are fatties out there like you folks who CAN get off like you’re describing, with fat only and no genital contact 🥲
2 years

No new feabie accounts?

Jasonsgroovemachine:
The Feabie Admins mishandled a situation, no surprise there, and they've been banning anyone that's been disagreeing with them. Old accounts, new ones, whatever. I'm on day 15 of a 5 day ban myself.

They aren't responding to emails, Grokio the parent company isn't either.


This, exactly this. I likewise am deep into a ban that was only supposed to be a few days and likewise am not hearing back from my emails, so I guess it’s nice to know it’s not just me. You wouldn’t happen to know of anywhere on the internet where the wave of folks like you and me are gathering (besides here) would you? I tried looking for the discord server they were talking about before I got booted but no luck.
2 years

Discord server

Glenn:
The alleged doxing apparently involved publishing the actual corporate mailing address of Grokio, Inc. You know, that publicly available, non personal information?


Oh god, the horror 🙄
2 years

Discord server

Glenn:
In short, a couple weeks ago they refused to ban someone over a likely racist comment that was documented—and banned the person the comment was made to. When people started grumbling about that, they banned those people. They gave me a 1 week ban (now extended with no explanation to 3 weeks) for suggesting people submit in-system support requests to have these other bans reviewed by a different moderator.

Horrible? You tell me.


Couldn’t have said it better myself. And that’s exactly what’s happened to me too.
More specifically, the statement the admins put out after the initial drama said that they banned the Woman of Color who was initially attacked because they *claim* they had proof that she was trying to doxx Feabie admins. They didn’t substantiate that at all tho, we were just supposed to believe it. And like, I didn’t know her but that’s one hell of an accusation to make about a person and not back up, don’t you think?

The admins’ statement didn’t even refer to the white woman who made this likely-racist comment past inferring that she had apologized— which, when I was scanning the whole feed in the heat of the moment, she and the other few trolls like her were doing anything but repenting. They were doubling down (i blocked them all after that, no one needs that energy in their time on Earth). So we were also supposed to believe they pulled a random, total 180. They don’t make it sound like she even received a temporary ban like we did! Because they didn’t “troll the admins” bc of course not, they had no reason to, *because* they weren’t getting reprimanded. Feabie admins are coming down on “trolls”, but only those who they perceive as “trolling the admins”— a.k.a., us. Nevermind the not-subtle difference between trolling, which is just to be abrasive to get negative attention out of your bored life; versus legitimate thought-out criticism of the poor and unfair way they handled this whole situation. The fact that critique got miscast as just trolling is really illuminating as to how fast they are to skew the narrative, which casts doubt on their claim that the woman who was targeted is guilty of any foul play like attempted doxxing. And it’s also illuminating that they chose to focus on banning us over banning the real trolls of course.

The thing that stings is that even if the original “I’m studying you like Jane Goodall and her apes” comment wasn’t supposed to be racially motivated, it was still really bloody clear that the original instigator should have been kicked off the platform entirely (and again, never saw any punishment that I know of) because all she did was double down over and over. People called her out and she threw it in their faces, angry-laughed, very edgelord-esque. Two or three joined in her chorus, all laughing about others being “triggered”, yada yada…. you’ve seen this type 1,000 times before on the Internet, it’s so old. They were completely destroying the peace of the community, and worst of all they- these white users- didn’t pause for a second to consider the hate inherent in them twisting the knife towards users who were People of Color. It did not make them stop and think. None of them had that obvious moment of, “you know what, I’m a white woman being accused of being racist by a Black woman, maybe I should back off, reevaluate, apologize for causing them harm, do my best to clarify my non-racist intention and learn from my mistake”. I’m white and I would be *fucking mortified* if I realized I had done that. Anyone engaging fairly would do that: admit that they’re the privileged party hurting someone outside of the privilege culture grants them. But those trolls were acting with anything but humility, happily tearing everyone else apart, and that’s how you know they were in the wrong. And they’re still there right now, smugly patting each other on the goddamn shoulder.

So yeah tl;dr Feabie is the Hottest of Messes lately/generally and the admins are prioritizing themselves and doing their best to make the community more toxic for the rest.
2 years
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