Nice soft round bum on a guy = A+. Make me want to give it a squeeze, so I say flaunt it
Saggy pants revealing undies, not so much. Makes me think of the time I was sitting on a crowded bus and ended up nearly nose to ass against a young man with nothing on but grey boxers, it was kinda gross... That said, I don't think that style looks worse on guys with a bigger bum, so go for it (if you must.)

Oh dear, that's awful. It's hard to fight your parents, but the truth is weight cycling is quite possibly worse for your health than just getting and staying fat. And the fact is diets don't work for most people, even those who prefer being thin. For those who prefer being fat, I strongly suspect they will gain again, if forced to lose weight. But, as you indicate, health, size and fitness aren't the same things, despite being conflated in people's minds. Is it possible to do things that indicate to your parents that you're working on health and fitness, without changing size much? Like maybe taking up a form of exercise that doesn't necessarily lead to weight loss, such as gentle tai chi or swimming (which always makes people hungry, in my experience)?

I like stretch marks. They make me want to trace them with my fingers. They're a mark of change and growth, and I think that's beautiful.

I wish I could unhinge my jaw, it would be dead useful- wait, are we talking about eating?

Good luck and have fun with it!

Well, I'm going to assume that if I wake up in a zombie apocalypse, I'll discover my latent necromantic powers, so, you know, I'll be the one leading the disgusting crumbling army of zombies. Seems like a reasonable plan.

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There, fixed that for you.

To the OP, I agree, talking this over with your wife is the way to go. Strangers on the internet can't tell you what she's really thinking and feeling.

I catch myself being much more shallow online than I am in real life. Probably if people were meeting you in person, your smile or your sense of humour or something would catch their eye and they would, er, overlook your height. Online, people just say, "oh he doesn't match my fantasy completely" and move on. I am ashamed to admit I've done it myself - stopped contacting a perfectly nice man after finding out he was balding, on one dating site (not this one), for example. So yes, people really are that shallow (not just women, I suspect.)

Nicely done, now there's more Morever!

I'm not sure we're in any place to criticize or laugh at them, as I am 100% certain there are people out there saying similiar things about a site for erotic fattening. It feels natural to us to desire fat. Probably those with even-less-socially-acceptable desires are just as much doing what comes naturally to them. Pot belly, meet kettle ***er.