^^ I'll go first:

Lunch today I ordered the following from Tim Hortons (hi fellow canadians):

2 x crispy chicken Cilantro line wraps
4 x Hashbrowns
1 x XL hot chocolate
6 x doughnuts

I ate it all in my car before going back to the office, but I was caught throwing away the doughnut box lolololol

Thanks Munchies 😊😊😊

Hey guys! About a year ago I moved from a smaller city (~230k) with a okay climate (snowy VERY cold winters, and extreme heat/forest fires in the summer) to a slightly larger city (~430k) in a very mild climate (very little if any snow, mostly hanagable heat, lots more rain). I've noticed in the past year that the general % of fat people I see has decreased when compared to where I used to live.

For example, where I used to live chances are 1 in 5 people I met AT LEAST one was chubby or bigger, with 1 in 12 easily being visibly fat/obese. Now, I'm lucky if I see 1 chubby person in 20 and only really see fat/obese folks once in awhile.

Is this because of less pressure/need to be skinny in more rual areas or less access to health/fitness stuff? Could it be because going outside/working out is easier in a more mild climate? Are there factors I'm not considering? How have yall found percentage of fat folks in different cities?

Sidenote: Don't love where I used to live but I super miss being around other fat folks and it being more normal 😢

I have a few:

First time I finished a McDonalds large chocolate shake and my Big Mac Meal (mmm those shakes have so many calories).

First time I ate a whole family sized bag of Pierogies with lots of sour cream and bacon

First time I ordered 2 entrees at a restaraunt and finished both (uhhh... I think one was a burger with fries, the other either tacos or something similar, sorry it was awhile ago)

Curiosity, what are the main implications when it comes to gaining on Margarine vs butter?

From what I know (and I could be wrong) butter is generally better for gaining as it is a higher fat content and made with actual cream. Further, Margarine (I may be wrong) is usually higher in Saturated fats, which work, but ultimately put a bigger strain on your heart/liver as time goes on.

What am i missing? Where is my info wrong?

I'm in Victoria!

1. Oh man I love food and flavors and especially sweets

2. I grew up chubby, never really learned that junk food shouldn't be eaten regularly, then only got fatter with age

3. Grew up with the rule of 'you must eat what you put on your plate'

4. Never loved how exercising felt, still don't

5. Genetic disorder where when my stomach is empty, acid builds up and trys to burn a hole in my stomach, so I actually need to eat quite frequently

6. Intense sugar cravings and love of Mac and cheess

7. Honestly, not believing I could ever lose weight/become thin even if I tried, I don't think I could stick to it...

Ah the ever present struggle of wanting to fit in to our diet obsessed society vs. Wanting to just break free... it depends on your priorities - if being fat is more important/enjoyable to you than being physically fit, then work on your fitness, if being fit is more important than enjoying this kink and a bigger body, do that. You can also make an effort to be fit while gaining, just keep up exercising but ensure your intake is more calories than you're losing. It will be a slower gain, but you'll probably find it more sustainable long-term.

As for dating, perhaps you may have an easier time finding a partner while thin, but it's also more likely they'll be toxic towards your weight gain when/if you do gain. Personally if you want to gain, I'd just gain and date at the same time, and when you do find someone you want yo go ling term with, all the more likely bring fat will be just fine. Fat people date all the time (exhibit A, see dating ads on this website).

I think ultimately it comes down to if having kink related sexual/romantic experiences is important to you. I am attracted to being a feedee, and I'm definitely not skinny, but my partner is not involved and isn't into all this. She does know I am. Other side of the coin, I know, but I found that having/being with someone into feedism and having experiences related to this kink with a partner was not something I really needed/craved. I stuff myself alone relatively frequently and enjoy my own gaining, read stories, post/interact on forums, but I don't usually dm with people, or chat past a quick friendly tip or thought - and it's enough for me - I don't feel urges to go cheat (physical, emotional, etc) but I'm also okay not having this kink be apart of my relationship ever. If you want you can engage with this kink in ways that don't need to be done with your partner - but only IF you are okay with feedism not being apart of your relationship EVER and/or engaging in this in ways that don't result in cheating. You'lll have to determine what cheating is to you/your partner as not everyone has the same definition (especially when it comes to talking online/fictional role play/secrecy/emotional cheating). If its any hope, I'm happily engaged in my 5+ year relationship (known eachother for 10+ years).

I've recently been really struggling to use my menstral cups as I'm loosing both flexibility and my belly/thighs get in the way if my reach for taking it in and out!

Also my fave restaraunt really packs in tables side by side, so to escape I always have to go sideways, and half the time my ass still messes up the place setting or hits someone's arm...