Jboabfe:
I’m definitely heavy in the butt, I realized I was uncomfortable in just about every pair of jeans and ended up upsizing the pants. I think I might jump up another size, since even the new upsized pants (largest at the store I was shopping at) are JUST comfortable.

Glitter Jelly:
My boyfriend is bottom curvaceous (thicker thighs, round butt and wider hips) but he definitely wouldn't be considered fat here.

He's autistic and hates crowds so when shopping for pants he compares the width of the waist with his forearm to gauge so he doesn't have to try them on.

When he was heavier he used so wear size 34-36 so he thought the size 32 pants he had found would definitely fit.

He tried them once he got home and, to his dismay, they were tight in the legs and when he managed to pull them past his hips it became obvious there was no way he'd be able to button them.

He's a student and the last months have been very stressful for him so it's likely that he gained a bit of weight but you wouldn't know that by looking at his hollow cheeks and protruding collarbones.

Since then, he seems more self conscious, eats less at meals and somewhat reduced his sugar intake (he usually has ice-cream or pastries before bed). He's expressed that he doesn't feel good in his skin.

I'm trying to reassure him that he's not fat and nothing's wrong with his body. Thrift store clothes sometimes fit smaller or larger depending on how they were cared for and whether or not they got stretched with time. I suggested to him to look at the labels and avoid pants unless they have at least 5% stretchy fibers.

Munchies:
I learned this trick from my grandma. Take whatever clothes you want and hold them against your body. For wants, do the front and back. She had to do this when it was illegal for black people to try on clothes in stores. Not as great as trying on the clothes, but it's the next best thing.

Jboabfe:
I’m definitely heavy in the butt, I realized I was uncomfortable in just about every pair of jeans and ended up upsizing the pants. I think I might jump up another size, since even the new upsized pants (largest at the store I was shopping at) are JUST comfortable.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Our Big Fig cost around $1,800, and I know that's a ton of money. Both my fiance and I love it though... I'm short and around 530 pounds, and he's very tall and a lean 180 pounds. Somehow, our weight distributes on it, and neither of us are lying in a hole. Our last mattress was a high end Serta, but when my weight climbed over 400, it started to flatten unevenly

Glitter Jelly:
Weed elevates prolactin??? 🙀

My boyfriend has been addicted to it since he was 14. He also has moobs that remain visible even at a lower weight. I wonder if these things are related.

Munchies:
Potentially.

zrtlab.com/blog/archive/the-effects-of-cannabis-on-your-hormones/

This is something that I would like to see more studies about. But from what I gather from reading the studies and checking out some anecdotal testimonies, you have to be using excessive amounts of weed chronically.

Ditzy:
I'm a fan of a man with a fat ass.
Thats what first attracted me to by BF.
He has thick thighs that rub when he walks too.
To me he is the hottest guy I know.
Thick around the middle and has the cutest back fat roll just above his belt.

Sarahishungry420:
Here's one for the Emetophiles

I have been bulimic since I was 9. I remember the first time I did it, I was so full but wanted another rice ball and 4th of july so I made myself throw up and it was like I unlocked a door that let me eat forever. But now at 31 Im dealing with some health problems. Im autistic so I like to binge eat but if I get overly full I can't keep it down anymore. I went to a brazillian steakhouse the other night for a friends birthday and got sick like 6 times every half hour i was running to the bathroom to puke what I just ate. I can't hold down large amounts of food anymore, even normal meals make me sick half the time. Im not doing it on purpose or to lose weight but I just can't hold binges down anymore and it makes me sad, but I was wondering if any guys were into Emetophilia and wanted me to record when I get sick/if stuffing to sickness is itself a fetish for anybody?

Sarahishungry420:
I was terrified to be seen after my weight gain, but when one of my best friends from college saw me, she was like "Oh my god you have an ASS! baby got BACK!" and started complimenting how much healthier I looked and how much nicer I behaved since recovering from anorexia. Since my recovery/weight gain ive gotten very few comments on my size but Ive been told i have a "glow" or that my vibes are significantly less rancid than they were when i was killing myself to be thin lol