Did this January earlier this year to kickstart my gaining. Of course with my luck, the food wasn’t good. I just had to stick to stuffing at the dinner and breakfast where the food was somewhat better quality.
1 year
I wouldn’t recommend finding someone here if you want a relationship. But if you don’t go out much it’s probably best to meet someone through a matchmaking app. Hinge is really good if you give it a couple months to matchmake, even if you don’t, it starts out with showing mainly fat people. It even matched me with a feeder at one point, which I skittishly avoided after because it was too soon.
Really just experiment, people can play up sex history to be gross or intimidating, but sometimes it takes a couple times to find the right one, so don’t worry about it. Explore the fetish, if it’s killing you that you can’t settle, then set the fetish on the backburner and see what you find more fulfilling. It’s unlikely you’ll find the right person right away.
1 year
Stockylove:
Good luck. This is not a situation I would want to be in. But I don't think that will happen to me.
Oh it’s not a problem. A few bad apples made it hard to feel comfortable with making my partner gain. Exes that were vulnerable and obsessive, gaining weight solely for me against their own will to feel wanted by me. It made it hard it hard to apply my fetish to anyone but myself.
I’m sure I could be a feeder after all that if the circumstances were all right. I just would rather stick to gaining. My partner may be into it by how they act around my newly found belly, but I trust their judgement to tell me and I won’t be the one to expose it.
And I wanna try different positions, it sometimes feels limiting. I know there is a post with fat positive sex positions but all felt more or less the same but at a slight angle, leg raised, or straight up didn't work for us.
1 year
Stockylove:
I was just wondering if there were a lot of people who admitted to having these fetishes or kinks to their parents, families, friends, or work colleagues. How they reacted. Did they discover it or did you tell them? How do you live this experience?
For my part, no one knows. I simply don't assume it, especially since I have a lot of kinks around gaybears and bellies in general. If I told them all about my weird big weirdo's kinks, they'd be sent to the psychiatric asylum.
I told my partner, and a friend who I don't talk to much. But I haven’t told my therapist.
I’m quiet around fetishes and really don’t talk about it. My partner recently has asked me if I would love them after they lost weight with their new injection they were approved for. The question was vague and not really as direct as I worded it. But we clearly both don't want to talk about it. That was the first time they suggested my fetish since maybe a year ago when I first brought it up.
1 year
I’m sorry to rock your horse but that sounds like acts of service.
1 year
Munchies:In fairness to you, WebMD provides a comprehensive, but not complete list. This is also something that's still developing, so that might be why it's not on there.
There's new evidence that shows some people (not everyone) will experience digestive paralysis due to Ozempic. There's currently a class action lawsuit about it.
lawsuitlegalnews.com/ozempic-lawsuit/stomach-paralysisIt's a rare side effect, but if you end up with it, it may persist even after stopping the medication.
The bulk of Ozempic users won't experience this. But it's a reminder that if you are wanting to slim down and are not severely diabetic, it's worth it to explore other options first.
Thank you, thats good to know.
I just double checked with them and they said its the new zepbound/mounjaro injection, not ozempic. So no digestive paralysis.
I’m still petrified regardless, just because any new medication doesn’t have the data that you get from rolling it out yet.
1 year
I like the idea of starting with some contrast, with the feeder getting some accidental gains overtime.
As big as possible is too much, to add as small as possible next to it is just not something that excites me.
1 year
I like the idea of starting with some contrast, with the feeder getting some accidental gains overtime.
As big as possible is too much, to add as small as possible next to it is just not something that excites me.
1 year
2seatsalways:
If anything I'm for your body you do you, but Ozempic being abused for weight loss instead of mainly diabetes is really tragic. Sure there is mounjaro and a small list of others but ozempic was the leading medication that helped millions of patients.
Now those patients are struggling to get ozempic because it's becoming more available for weight loss than helping blood sugar levels.
Hot take I know but rather this pill be used for people who need it.
Munchies:
Yeah. Plus it's coming out that a decent size of people who are taking this are experiencing permanent side effects.
But that's not about fat exceptance.
Curious as to what side effects you’re saying, of listed on webmd all seem standard and pretty expected of a medication. Anything different you’ve heard in particular? My S/O is trying to be approved. I’m not really for it, but that’s not my decision.
1 year
My current one. I love my s/o, we do everything together.
I would love to be in a feeder or feedee relationship, but right now everything is perfect.
Sometimes we fight, but its usually because one of us is hungry or sleepy.
1 year
