The message limit is diabolical

Attaker2z:
Anyone agree with this?

Canuck:
membership has its privileges!


True in some cases but with a site that needs a lot of fixing up premium is not worth it. At least to me. Now if everything was more modern, kept up to date, and maintained regularly I think it's worth it.
The limit is pretty outdated. This is why you find the scammers, catfishers, and scam center workers trying to go off site to communicate.
3 months

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

The only reason I am chiming in on this again is for the fact our system is so broken here. Ok block people that's fine, but what about the repeat offenders? The catfishers and scammers that get IP ban and yet find their way back?
I just interacted with someone who was banned last year and back already starting up the same bs. How do I know? I know because I'm the one who got them banned with evidence. This has got to change. I already blocked them again but now they can try their tactic on some member who doesn't know any better.
3 months

Have you found "fat and happy"?

Some people find satisfaction more so at the size they are than a number. I've been with feedee's where there is a mix. Some are fine with a certain limit, others think they are fine where they are but secretly crave more (though fear losing control), and others are never satisfied and only want more as it turns them on so much.

The balance is what you feel is appropriate for yourself and how you manage those gains. Once you reach where you want to be it's about your state of mind and maintaining, or even losing if you feel it's too much. Having a partner support you and your goal can be helpful as well
3 months

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

Hiccupx:
I realise that sometimes it can be hard see that this website is being updated, because so much of the work we do is on the back end. As admins, we probably don't shout enough about website updates, but then, if it's on the back end it's probably not of that much interest to members. Anyway here goes:


Registration/Account Blocking:

We have spend a temendous amount of time this year on improving the registration validation process, to stop bots and spammers creating accounts. We have over 20 validation checks, written by AI, that automatically block the majority of them.

For those that do manage to create accounts, we have new scripts that check the uploaded content to highlight spammers which we then immediately ban.

We're never going to be able to keep out all spammers on a site like this because we want to make it easy to sign up for genuine members and also protect your privacy. Therefore we haven't gone down the phone verification route. We've also learnt that most of the spammers we get are not bots, but people sat in data centers in the far east who do this for a living.


Member Blocking Feature:

This stops blocked members from contacting you but it doesn't stop them viewing your content. The maxmium number of blocks is 100, which we believe should be plenty on a 'community' website. After all, what would be the point in joining a community site, and then blocking hundreds of members?


Chat:

Chat was completely re-written this year as part of the streaming feature (still in beta), however the visible functionality hasn't changed, so it would be difficult to tell as a user. However, with nice clean chat code we're now in a good position to do a major overhaul of the front end at some point. There's a number of possibilities here, including perhaps building the video streaming into the chat?

I Am Uo:
Perhaps you could start a forum page that only you and other mods can post in called, patches and updates, or something, were you post as updates are rolling out and maybe a brief description of what it does, thisway people understand what's going on


Echoing this.
Sorry you all broke chat with that latest update. At least once a day you see someone talking about it. So it is still worse off with leaks on top of it.

I can see the data centers and they have their m.o. yet they are showing up in drones.

Block list definitely should not have a limit regardless of free or premium. You have members who delete their accounts and rejoin the following day using a vpn. Thought those were illegal on the site? They should be instant ban.
3 months

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

Canuck:
i think the comments about the age of this site, changes and moderation are a little unfair. there are a number of active mods, and there have been a bunch of updates over the last couple of years.

are there still bugs and quirks, sure. i almost enjoy the occasional "chat leak" now. smiley


This site needs a fresh overhaul. It is very outdated and crumbling by the week. Chat was promised to be fixed last year, now this year and it's slated for "late this year." Believe it when it happens. We have new bots and scammers joining daily using vpn's which are blocked yet there is a workaround somehow.

People go off site and find out the hard way they are being scammed. There has to be a way to modernize a site like this where a block button works. What makes no sense is when you block someone but if you are following them you still get their updates. Like what?! Makes no sense.
3 months

Scales... which ones

Yup XL-700 is pretty much a standard. Even if your goals are not 700lbs it is reliable, talking, and sturdy even in the 600lbs+ range.
3 months

How do you maintain emotional intimacy in a feeder/feedee dynamic?

This is like any relationship.
Trust and over communication is key. If your feedee/feeder can't be vulnerable with you on their wants outside of the lifestyle then that may need to be a conversation you two have.

There should be interests and wants outside of "getting fatter 24/7." That should be the cherry on top of what makes you two click.
3 months

Best way to mount a funnel??

BigBallBellyGirl:
I haven't funneled in over 3 years, so I don't have my setup anymore. If I did, I'd share a picture. I had a free standing clothing bar, and I hung a plant hanger from it with a funnel in it instead of a pot inside. I gained quite a few pounds thanks to that contraption!


This is definitely the most easiest way. I also recommend this. There are hand free funnels you can find as well without the tubing.
4 months

Chat update 27/01/2025 - report bugs here

Admirer54321:
Yeah. Me too. I'm grateful it exists but dang it's irritating combined with the limited messages. Seems like a not so complicated fix to not show online when not online. But. I'm no I.T. person....


This happened due to a chat update. An update I haven't noticed. Instead it seemed to break something. Doubt we're getting any chat fixes this year
4 months
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