Kita is a person with a kink as much as her body would be someone else's kink.

And for her, it is not a thing she can just turn off. It is there all the time, whether it is convenient to her or not, and is the primary driver of her romantic and sexual urges. It does have the added benefit of Kita basically never finding her partner unattractive, as the thing she finds attractive is their willingness to feed.

As far as whether or not they find her body attractive? Kita can't control that. So she just hopes that they won't fall in and out so much that they quit feeding. She has not had much luck on that, and it leads her to seeking people who just aren't insecure about it. It is that insecurity that causes so many people to hide.

Bumping, update that our finances have shifted drastically and our weight will definitely, and upsettingly, decrease unless we find a feeder. : (

Ninja Edit: Should also state, that depending on location, we are very willing to move.

OCs. If we are familiar with a character's source material, we'll get annoyed that it is out of character because said character is x or does y. The suspension of disbelief is harder to sell to us.

But OCs are free of this, and can be characterised more compatibly without the need for said suspension of disbelief.

Yes. Chewing mixes the initial salival enzymes more evenly with your food and also breaks it down further into smaller pieces. Smaller pieces = more surface area total = easier for bacteria to get at it.

Chewing more and proper probiotics. Also, ironically, quitting booze.

The first two are rather mundane, but the last one is kinda interesting. Turns out, bacteria don't like alcohol! Including gut fauna!

Maintaining a healthy digestive system is really important for gaining!

Agreeing with other users... but do want to note...

Eventually, enabling is the only way to gain, but where that "eventually" starts and what "enabling" entails in full will vary from person to person, if you can gain that much. On some level, there is a limit to your capacity to gain fat. Not everyone can pursue extreme sizes, so to be on your way past 500 is fantastic for someone gaining on their own.

That you are struggling to go further makes sense; a lot of people seem to cap here. Sometimes having a feeder helps break that barrier, sometimes not.

Your body may have to acclimate to the extra calories. Bodies seek equilibrium, and when gaining you're intentionally messing with that equilibrium, so there is always gonna be an initial inertial resistance.

It may be a level of impatience. Just pumping a lot of food in doesn't mean you're able to actually fully digest and process all of it.

Could have to do with gut health, muscle and bone mass, and what specifically you are eating. If its all empty macronutrient and very little micronutrient, then you're getting materials but not enough of the other things that facilitate the internal chemistries. Not that one needs to eat enough brussel sprouts to OD on vitamin A, but more... there is more that goes into this than increasing calories.

Hope that helps?

To put it simply, it is a question of bodily autonomy. Being fat doesn't hurt others, so I don't think we should acknowledge the people who call all forms of feeding and fat fetishism immoral. They just aren't engaging with reality.

Most feedees and gainers are well aware the consequences of more extreme practices of the space. So the purpose of pointing it all out is clearly shame. And Kita doesn't need that in her life, personally.

So, this is actually a complicated question.

Two people who eat the same amount, we'll say 2,500 calories a day to insure no malnutrition, have a similar muscle mass to bone mass ratio, and are both similar in hormone palette, then yes. The skinnier of the two will likely struggle to gain weight compared to the bigger one.

This is mostly due to having more fat cells = easier to get fatter. But having all these things be lined up would be absolutely unheard of, so it is better to think of "harder" or "easier" as relative to the amount of effort a person puts into the task.

The unfortunate truth is that analysing one's gaining is a very math and monitoring-heavy process. So if you aren't able to just constantly stuff yourself it may be difficult to figure out what specifically plateaus someone.

Many people start skinny, though, ans get rather large.