I have always been into my wife gaining weight. There had been a huge void with her gaining for many years when she went back to take an executive job in the financial field where she had been recruited for many years. The kids were all in High School towards the end and I thought it was a great deal for her. Her position was mostly a small book of business along with entertaining the upper Management large accounts. She had a Company Card for high end lunches and dining which she took the top clients out and wined and dined them. She seemed to like her new position after being a stay at home Mom for so many years.
After a month or so I started to notice all her business pencil skirts become incredibly snug with her pronounced gut jutting out and her silk dress blouses becoming extremely snug showing her beautifully fattened love handles and her huge breasts were bulging out the chest of her blouses with the buttons straining. I would admire her fattening figure while she would tell me of the great lunches, wine and deserts she would have most days for lunch. At the beginning of her new position I would help out, by buying groceries and preparing dinner in the evenings. I decided to buy all her fattening favorites as well as cooking nice and fattening. She seemed to love it and ate with reckless abandon. She would clear every plate I made her even if it was obnoxiously big followed by a pint of ben n jerrys every evening. The months passed and she was packing on the pounds at what some would call an alarming rate, but I loved every inch and roll she grew. She soon grew out of her business clothes and bought new larger sizes until her figure started straining those. She looked amazing getting so much fatter again.
Her eating habits stayed enormous but what I didn't realize is all of a sudden I seemed to develop a sweet tooth like her and was eating ice cream every night after our huge Lasagna meals I cooked with huge pieces of Italian bread with butter and sometimes seconds I would serve both of us. I weighed myself one day at the gym, that I had not been to in a couple months and realized i had packed on close to 20 pounds. I admired my new gut in the mirror and was pretty aroused and decided to intentionally gain, mostly to see if my wife would tease me, joke or even scold me for packing on such a big gut. I started eating even more intentionally even though I had already developed a bigger appetite, but I surprised myself in two weeks time after stuffing every meal how big my appetite really became. I would have deserts after breakfast and lunch and even started having several milkshakes in between through out the day after massive lunches that were easily 3k calories. I figured I was probably eating a very unhealthy 6-7k calories a day if not more.
At this point my wife was now doing the cooking in the evenings again and buying the groceries. The crazy thing is in the past once my wife would gain 10+ pounds she would try and eat really healthy and diet, but this time she had to have already gained 20+ pounds and she was preparing us a lot of the same fattening dishes I made, not to mention she was buying all her favorite ben n jerrys, cookies and chocolates. She didn't slow down one bit and she even mentioned to me one night, "Honey, I bought all your favorite ice cream and cookies at the store today". I thought to myself "have I really turned into that much of a pig with a sweet tooth that she knows all my favorites that I have been devouring from her stash for the last several months". I came home bloated every night stuffing myself all day just to get a reaction out of my wife, but then I wanted to impress her with eating my huge fattening dinner she made us. It was tough some nights but the she would serve me seconds and I didn't want to let her down and I wanted my gut to hit a new huge territory every night so I just kept eating. I was at the point even if I was so bloated and full I could still keep eating with all my practice for many months now during the day and stretching out my new huge gut. If I didn't know any better I would think she was trying to make her husband even fatter with how many huge servings every night and then immediately following dinner coming over and dropping a huge bowl of ice cream on what was a shrinking lap I had with my huge 15 months pregnant looking gut now taking up all the space on it. I was so consumed with stuffing myself and seeing how big and bloated my gut was becoming not to mention how fast I was packing on the pounds with all that I consumed I barely noticed how much my wife had continued eating with me and how Fat she had become during this time as well.
She seemed to love her Fattened Huge Gut husband because I believe I think she felt she created my new Massive Gut with Love. I certainly liked her Beautiful Fattened figure and she was never as Hot to me was she was now. I packed on around 60 pounds to her 45 pounds.
1 year
My wife happens to be 5’ 3” and probably 180 pounds currently.
We went out to dinner the other night and she had on some extremely tight jeans and a higher waisted blouse that showed her large lower belly snug in her jeans with at time her belly squishing out and love handles exposed when sitting down.
The main part that caught my attention and always seems to - she has on flat sandals - she looked a good 40 pounds heavier wearing her flat sandals as opposed to when she has on 3-4” heels. It is amazing how much heavier she looks just with a shoe adjustment.
1 year
Strayguard:
If you're in a situation where your partner cant or isnt into feederism or if you got no partner at all, what do you do to overcome the urges that come on every once in a while? Is watching stuff online enough for you? Or do you do things like chatting with community members? art? onine feeding? talk on forums/discords, etc.
Just wanted to see how other ppl overcome these things.
This is a great question!
I have found engaging in these websites and discussions on these boards have been really good about absorbing needs for weight related talk and Fat it self.
True stories are really exciting and have become my favorite in the last many years. They are tough to find, being truthful, but are very intriguing to red and dive into.
Reddit and Confessions posts are great, but exactly as above very difficult to find pure truth in, but great nonetheless.
Chat with the same sex seems innocent enough but I wouldn’t dive into chat with opposite sex because that seems to cross the boundaries a bit.
It certainly helps to discuss and talk about like issues regarding weight gain & Fat with others that understand and enjoy the same.
1 year
Should read - results in much softer Fat!
1 year
Ditzy:
All good comments as to possible reasons.
Interesting subject either way.
I know when I lost almost 200 lbs my belly was like a ball sort of but hard.
When I regained the weight it was softer and super flabby.
This is very true in my experience with both my myself and my wife. The gaining then loss results it much after fat!
1 year
Ditzy:
When the largest size of shapwear still won't hold your belly in.
I love this and I bet it looks so good!
1 year
I will reply again because eight pages is a lot to shuffle through!
I originally related to Voluptuousness - but I should really change it too Very fat because that is where my liking has become over the years.
1 year
I am not Italian - but you are not alone, I for one crave for my wife to gain more weight all the time but it becomes more heightened when I notice she has recently packed on several pounds. I just want more and more when I see her gaining.
I would go so far as to having dreams of her gaining.
I think most of us husbands or boyfriends on this site want the same thing as you with regard to wanting her to gain more weight and keep gaining.
With that said I have never had my wife gain so much that I wanted her to stop gaining - and I honestly don’t think she ever will. I sometimes fantasize about her gaining to 350 lbs. and she happens to be a gorgeous 5’ 3” curvy plump woman at only around 180 pounds currently.
1 year
Chloe24xx:
I'm sure lots of others feel confusion surrounding this kink to, but with myself I truly am happy in the slim body I have and being active is my life but ever since I was younger I've always had these thoughts and urges when thinking about gaining some weight even if I may not want to, but the thing is there are times when the urge is stronger and it
leads me to want to try it out but later I'm back to my normal self where I then feel weird and confused about it, because i have been ashamed about this side of me and
struggled to accept it. The desire always fades away without fail after the arousal passes though. Is this common here.
I think this is fairly common, especially since you are still quite young. I have seen what you are speaking of change for many others as they are older - whether they accidentally gain with their metabolism changing as they get older and relax in and and are totally comfortable letting this come out. For myself when I was your age I always loved women gaining weight and especially the women I was with and never really thought of myself gaining being that I could eat whatever I wanted and never gain any weight. All of. Sudden my metabolism changed, I wasn’t playing sports competitively anymore and I now head a desk job in my career and living with my sweetheart. I was enamored with all the weight my already chunky GF gained while we started living together and one day as I came home from work she was sad sitting on the sofa watching TV and I asked her what was wrong and she said she had just come back from her Doctor where she had her check up and said she was shocked when she had got on the scale and that she has gained 35 lbs. since we have been living together and was reprimanded by her doctor. I consoled her and obviously knew she had been gaining rapidly, but loving it didn’t dare point out to her. She then said “should we go on a diet together”. I don’t like the thought at all of her on a diet let alone losing any weight, but not rather her keep gaining more weight, and that’s when it triggered in me, I said both of us, and must have had. Shocked look on my face. She smiled and said, honey, you don’t even realize how big you have got also since we have been living together. I was shocked but then so aroused to here this. I have gotten fat along with my gorgeous fattened up GF.
1 year
Raises hand!
One you didn’t have here which was a big one for me at my fattest - you get so used to eating very fattening food, fast food & sweet desserts/treats. Once you try and slow your consumption you still crave these fattening foods as well as sweets making it that much tougher. Also, you may be good for a few days and then go off the rails and eat enough in one day to eliminate any losing once you become this greedy.
1 year