What were the earliest signs of your fetish?

Earliest? As a pre-schooler I had an LP of nursery rhymes that I listened to incessantly. One of them was Jack Spratt would eat no fat / his wife would eat no lean / And so betwixt the two they licked the platter clean". I can remember being fascinated by this idea of a couple eating an entire platter of food by themselves. The album cover had illustrations associated with the rhymes, including a very thin Jack Spratt and his very fat wife. I concluded that the picture didn't make sense, since there is usually more lean that fat, so he should also be fat -- I thought having a really fat wife like that would be fine, but I didn't want to be super skinny, so I happy with that logic.

That is the earliest I can remember -- certainly pre-kindergarten.

The thing that really drove this home was reading the picture book "The Pumpkin Giant" (you can find the text online, wilkinsfreeman.info/Short/PumpkinGiant.htm, and some of the pictures covers.openlibrary.org/b/id/6660057-M.jpg ,'> ) which finishes with the fat prince and princess happily rolling around together (they were too fat to walk), and I knew that this idea was very appealing to me -- I was worried about getting dizzy and could see other drawbacks, but I saw it as sort of the fairy tale ideal, not something you have happen in real life, but obviously the best sort of thing possible. I was probably in first grade at the time.

There was lots more after that, but it was all sort of "well of course; l like fat, so ..." rather than discovering that I liked fat.
8 years

Bumped into my ex - now i'm freaking out

All just IMO:

I would be completely honest and open .... You have a rare chance to know the person somewhat but also start over fresh.

In fact, you could print her here or to Fernie or something, and say to be honest, this is my scene. She might run away, she might be thrilled. At the least she seems somewhat open to the concept right now, so that is a good start smiley

Just make sure you have some good boundaries around the money issues, to keep that from growing into a problem again.
8 years

Sad news

Such a loss for the community, she had such a strong character and was so generous with her time and wisdom.

My condolences to her friends and family.
8 years

Ideas for 25

hungrypiggygirl:

25 days of snacks: I was trying to do a single stuffing so I have something for my youtube channel actually.


In which casr:

25 chicken nuggets?

25 Halloween size candy bars?

25 hash brown patties?

25 hors d'oeuvre (you can buy boxes of frozen ones) or 25 mini sausage rolls?

Good luck with finding just the right thing smiley
8 years

Bumped into my ex - now i'm freaking out

A. Awesome!

B. Why did you two break up originally, and is that apt to be a problem again?
8 years

Ideas for 25

How about kicking off 25 days of an extra treat each day?
8 years

Which of these fat futures do you like the sound of most?

First one for size, although I prefer good food with the fat, personally.

Part of why I like the first one is that it still leaves room for being very fat compared to average smiley. I like fat being normal, but I like those who really like being fat to have room to stand out, without it simply being a case of more immobile.

Just my taste.
8 years

Strange fetishes related to fat.

Fat positive community. Seriously, living in a fat positive setting is in my top five most frequent fantasies and is sufficient on its own for me to work as a fantasy.
8 years

Experimental weight gain

Maybe to the point where some of your everyday clothes are getting tight. Not just a little snug, but visibly getting small on you. See how you feel while wearing those in your everyday life, at work, at school, seeing family, when going out.

If you can't handle it being only that clear that you have gained, you probably shouldn't go further.

If you are good that far, then go shopping for at least a couple of articles that are a little loose on you still (likely two sizes up from you old clothes, but depends on the store, style, cut, etc). See how you feel about buying clothes that big, wearing them, seeing them in the wash... and think about being big enough that those were getting tight.

By that point I think you'll have a pretty good idea if you are really ready to gain more.
8 years