Fantasy Feeder

Using feeding as a form of control

TheWhipHand:
As he's grown fatter my feedee has definitely become morecsubmissive, and not just in ways concerning good. He was pretty docile and obedient before, but as he's gained, he's become seemingly more content with things he would ordinarily be more quarrelsome about.
This weekend we were away, and I ordered him a large breakfast from room service, while I went on a hike. When I returned I knew some part of him was disappointed he was too fat and the hike wouldn't have been fun, but part of him was happy and content to stay cool inside.

He is one lucky guy -- and you are one lucky gal!

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Girlfriend wants to get immobile

cornsnake:
Sorry for my late reply .it was a very stressfull week.Yes but she still want to become immobile ,she means this serious she bought a few weight gain shakes. And we made a every year weight goal and for this year its 50kg.But next year on our wedding day she want to weigh 200kg+.

Surely, you can see how unrealistic that wedding day goal is. I think you both should enjoy the fantasy of all this because I don't think you have seriously considered all this.

In the meantime, enjoy feeding her and watching her bloom into a huge beauty!

Best to you both.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Do any men want to be immobile

Kyle OMFGummyBear:
I would really love being dominated with no control over with immobility. I'd love to be inflated with Icecream & Heavy Cream til I can barely get out of bed on my own & then some more. AS much as whoever was inflating me wanted to go, I'd let them fatten me & abuse me with their fetishes as much as they'd like.Tbh.

Looking through the responses here from the last 7 years or so, anyone can see what a strong fantasy this is for many of us.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Some general questions! i want to be immobile but i´m at the very begging of my journey.

Feedmemassive:
I want to gain massive since a long time but i pushed this urge away for so long. Now I decided that i don�t want to ignore this urge. I want to gain and I want to get immobile. My first goal is 250lbs - 300lbs. I dont have a feeder yet but I try to gain myself. Do you have any tips to gain fast and effektive? What do you think how long it will take to gain to my first goal if i really but effort in gaining? How do you think I will look with 300lbs if I�m pearshaped... I don�t know how these numbers are in reality i only fantasized about it.
So this are quite a lot of questions but I�m really new to this and want to get started soon. Thank you for you time

It will take a long time to get to that goal, but just be patient. If you check into this, you can find that the most remarkable long-term gains are generally no more than 3-4 pounds a month. Don't let that discourage you. You are young. Time is on your side. And you sound serious about this, so just take it one bite at a time.

Since you don't have a feeder yet, I would suggest you do something a bit naughty:

Do everything you can to combine weight gain with sensuality and sexual desires. Do this, and you can't go wrong. The more eating and gaining arouses you, the more you will eat and gain. It's that simple.

If that also means reading erotic weight gain stories and viewing feederism/weight gain pics and videos, do it. It will help you feel happier as a side effect.

Also, don't go for quick fixes like weight-gain powders or appetite stimulants. These may work in the short term, but what you want to do is just tuck in to some nice fattening comfort food.

Keep your belly filled and stretched to the maximum. The bigger you stretch it, the more you will eat.

Best of luck to you.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Submissive gainer

TheWhipHand:
I started fattening up my bf a little while ago. Things are proceeding well, but the little Butterball has become rather submissive as he has gained. Has anyone else experienced a gainer or gaining accompanied by submissive feelings?

If this is a problem for you, you need to let him know. There are those who enjoy an aggressive feedee who demands to be fed. If you are of that mind, let him know, so he can please you.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

New to gaining

Heavyhannah:
Also, speaking of big tummies.

1. Does anyone know why I'm basically only getting huge in my tummy and a bit on my hips? I feel
Like my belly is ballooning instead of spreading out all on my body. Is that normal?

2. How do you get your belly to drop? The more I eat the more mine just sticks out straighter and further and harder, like a toroedo. But I just want it to roll over. Suggestions?

Almost everyone gains in their belly first -- or at least that's the perception. It may be because of our clothes that we feel this way or that a belly is the truest way to see one's weight gain.

It takes a lot of weight to get a belly to drop. From your comments, I think you are in this for the long term. Don't worry. It will happen probably when you least expect it.

In the meantime, just enjoy eating.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Getting turned on by someone's arousal for your gain.

Life just keeps getting better and better when this happens.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Surviving summers heat for the disadvantaged (fat)

boundandfeed:
Now that here on the east coast, summer is here. Does anyone have any tips on how to survive?
It's not easy to stay cool when you have so much extra insulation (fat).

Think how wonderful all that insulation is going to be this winter.

In the winter, you can help keep your honey warm with that big beautiful hot bod.

During the summer, perhaps your lover can benefit from the shade you provide on a hot sunny day?

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Surviving summers heat for the disadvantaged (fat)

chubbynate:
I was getting ready to post a new discussion on being fat and dealing with the summer heat but you guys beat me to it. I've been sweating even more than before now that I've gotten bigger. By the time I reach 300 pounds I'll likely need to move north, lol.

Having a pool is the best way to deal with it. The deodorant between your fat rolls and folds is a good idea. I'm going to start doing that. My only concern is the toxic crap in the deodorant. Having it more places just means more toxic stuff on your skin.

My advice to my fellow fatties is to use a natural deodorant brand on those special areas of your body. Now I need to order some online and take my own advice. Until them I"ll be taking several cold showers a day when ever possible.

Also, baby powder or something like Gold Bond can take the place of the deodorant and help you immensely.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Lower sex drive from weight gain?

TheyCallMeHurricane:
It's probably different for every individual. I know for myself that when I weighed 240 my sex drive was less than it is now at 190, but not by much. While my wife's sex drive only seems to increase as she does.

I think the reason for this comes from several places, she feels more attractive the bigger she gets so she is less reserved while I feel more reserved. The higher levels of estrogen due to fat gain probably lower a male's sex drive while raising a woman's. And, (this may be a bit forward) but... just the comparison of how it feels could also play a role in that. When Fiona was 86 pounds she did not feel the same as she does now at 120 so just the difference in how sex feels could lower or raise someone's sex drive.

So:
Confidence,
Hormone changes,
And stimulation.

Also, having a partner or admirers who drool over you and encourage you may increase your confidence and subsequently make you feel more sexual and help you be more confident in the bedroom. No one, regardless of size should ever feel like they should hide their body from their partner.

Your last point is well taken. No one should believe that your greatest sex organ is between your legs. It's really between your ears, and what goes on in our amazing brains certainly has much to do with our libidos.

8 years

GrowingLoveHandles