amazingem:I have always found fatter people more attractive than thinner, fitter people. Growing up I had a friend who was always a little chubby, and around the time we were 13 he started to get bigger, becoming what I would definitely call "fat." I developed such a crush on him! I remember looking through magazines with him, with images of traditionally attractive women in them, and he would remark on how sexy they were... But I only had eyes for him!
I don't know why, though. Certainly the large size, the softness, it all is part of it. The jiggle makes me weak in the knees every time I see it!
Certainly the feel of grasping fat flesh is such a pleasurable sensation. But why? I have no idea.
I think it actually the size and the looks. Woman with larger body are prettier because of their size in my eyes. Also fatter men are much sexier. Fatness make you beautiful, more than just skin and bones. I love the perkier breast and the bigger bellies. But it's really hard to explain the reason that makes this attractive to us.
3 years
OscarAlfa:
Sinceramente no tendrían que meterse en tus decisiones, tu eres dueño de tu destino y decides lo que tú quieras. ( Qué raro es ese país, acá en México es normalizado el que las personas tengan sobrepeso)
Bueno, México tiene la comida más deliciosa. 😋
3 years
MissRohi:
Well, I guess you'll simply have to grow a thicker skin (no pun intended).
You could also make it fun. Having people notice and comment on your weight gain can be quite exciting.
Let them judge. You're the one to know better. ;-)
Hahaha, yeah I really growing a thicker skin, in any meaning possible 😂
3 years
wanttobefat600:
In my opinion, the best course of action to avoid an awkard discussion with family and friends about your sexual preferences, the best way to make people understand that you have no desire to lose weight and are ok with your fat body is to make it appear to them that you're letting yourself get fat because you've decided that exercising and eating right are too hard compared to being lazy and over indulging and being fat to you is worth the enjoyment of not exercising and not watching what you eat and tell people who push the issue that you respectfully do not care what they say and refuse to lose weight
That's really a good advice, thanks.
3 years
AnorexicPretty:
I have once gained 15 kg in one month, on purpose (sadly it didn’t stick, so I am trying again with new methods now) and all those people who usually tell me I look too thin and should gain weight at once told me I should watch what I eat since I am becoming fat 🤣 Seriously, you can’t please them people, they will negatively comment everything 🙄 I decided that this time I will pretend that I just don’t care. In real life, only my partners and one of my closest friends know that I do this on purpose. My family doesn’t. They wouldn’t understand.
Well this is my actual approach. But in my case the best friends will not understand also.
3 years
Peachiefuzz21:
It’s so funny how on websites that are meant to be praising fat people and the fat kink, I get the most hate on. Just had someone message me on here, telling me I’ve ruined my life from being as big as I am, yet I’m only 310 pounds lol. Even on fat fetish websites, I’m still hated on. How messed up is that?
That's really messed up, and you shouldn't pay attention to such rude message. You are beautiful in the way you are and even you choose to gained more it's your choice. Unfortunately, Rude people are everywhere. The best way to fight is to ignore them.
3 years
So, since childhood I was attracted to fatness and wanted to gain weight, to know how's to feel fat. During the years I became aware to the fact that there's actually an active community of fat admirers and people who determined to fatten up their body in order to fulfill their desire. So I registered here and found almost everything I was dreaming of, and the advices here helps me to gain weight.
Recently I gained weight noticeably, with rounded belly and more puffed face, but here is the thing: the people around me, who knows me as a thin person since childhood, started to make comments about the new me. Mostly, to draw my attention to the fact that fat is bad, and every time I meet them they asked me to exercise and get back to shape and giving me some advices on how to lose weight. But I don't want it. I even had a conversation with family about this, and I told them that I like it that way, I love my new belly, and a little more kilogrammes wouldn't be making a lot of difference to me (although I do counting on gaining). They do understand it, but I am wondering how to make people not to be so judicial about my weight, and do family will understand that in my case it's not about fat acceptance but actually a passion for fatness and a desire to become really fat?
Would be nice to ear from various perspectives and from experiences like this.
3 years
My weight machine has broken so don't know how many pounds I have gained but my belly got bigger since March 2020, that's for sure.
3 years
I actually would not mind to get to the point that my belly is hanged over my trousers, that I'll be too fat and lazy to lose it.
3 years
