Fantasy Feeder

For the female feeders out there

MottiF:
What was the exact moment you realized you loved the power of making someone bigger for you? Not just the kink. Not just the play. But the raw, intoxicating thrill of control. of watching someone surrender, bite after bite, pound after pound. because you wanted it.

Was there a turning point? A moment that lit something up in you: dominance, nurture, lust, obsession, even love? What changed in you when feedism became more than just fantasy?

I’m not just asking about logistics, I’m asking about the fire behind it. If you’ve felt it, you know exactly what I mean.

Let’s talk about that.

I've been an FA for the longest time. I loved watching others gain, but I never took an active role in it. A few years ago, I met what became my first feedee. He wanted me to give it a try, so I did. I took to it so well - almost like I'd been doing it all my life.

2 months

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Improving capacity

AskDrFeeder:
One reason for stuffing is to improve your capacity.

Any stories about this? How much can you stuff now compared to when you started? How much weight (if any) did you gain in that time?

My partner has a gastic bypass long before we met. He didn't have a very big capacity, but that didn't stop him from regaining all the weight he lost and then some.

Still, he wanted to be able to eat more. So I systematically stretched his stomach over 6 months. He did very well - got up to over 14kcal in a day at one point.

Of course, that's not sustainable, but the capacity was insane.

2 months

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Chat update 06/08/2025

Hiccupx:
We're updated chat again with one bug fix and one new feature:

Chat leeks (bug fix)

There's been a problem for a while with user's private messages appearing in the General chat room. We think this was caused by the user's connection being temporarily broken. When this happens the underlying software automatically reconnects the user, however the chat application then reset the user's active room back to the default General chat room, as if they were entering chat for the first time. The user wouldn't necessarily notice until they sent a message, only to find it's been posted in the wrong room. This should now have been fixed, the application should remember the room you were in before the connection was lost, and return you to the same room on reconnection.

Online status indicators (new feature)

When you go into a chat room you should now see a little round 'online status' indicator on each user's avatar in the user list. When the indicator is green it means the user is 'present', if it turns amber it means they've not sent a message for over 5 minutes and are deemed to be 'away'. If the 'away' user then types a message, their indicator should immediately turn back to green.

Note: The 'View profile' link is now available again, if you open the drop down next to a user's name, you should see the link at the bottom of their user information.

FINALLY!!!!!!!!!

2 months

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Weight gain and cholesterol

BigBallBellyGirl:
No doctor is going to give an outright blessing to obesity, but you do want someone who respects her as a person.

Very best of luck to the two of you.

Morbidly A Beast:
So true. This is very important. Make sure to check the reviews of the doctors. Avoid the fatphobic ones. It’s not a cop out, a lot of drs see weight loss as the only option and it’s simply not the case.

My issue with fatphobic doctors is not so much that they tell you to lose weight as it is they tend to think your weight is the source of all your suffering.

They also often have shit bedside manner.

So yeah, if you don't think your doctor is a good fit for you, get a different one. But do not swear off going to the doctor because you had a bad experience. Feedism is a risky kink the way a lot of people go about it. So you need to be under doctor supervision - even if all you are doing is getting a routine check up.

2 months

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Body hair/hairy bellies, hot or not?

BittyDawg:
Let's just say I dated a girl with PCOS and it permanently rewired my brain 😵‍💫

LuvsChub04:
I looked up with a girl once who had pcos, I was always neutral on body hair on a women, yet after her, major turn on...

As a woman with PCOS that hates her body hair, this is nice to hear. My partner tells me not to feel bad about it, but no dice.

2 months

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Weight gain and cholesterol

Art Tool:
I agree with you that working with the doctors is the right thing to do. For the time being we will be following their advice and see where things go from there.

Canuck:
last year i ran into some health issues that required some changes in my diet and activity. i have lost about 50 lbs as a result. i started out a lot heavier than your gf, but i have found my weight kind of plateaued, and i am still enjoying being fat.

i will add to the voices suggesting you continue to listen to your doctor's advice. at first it is overwhelming, and it seems you have to cut everything good out of your life... but over time as you read and learn of other options, you'll find there are still ways to enjoy the lifestyle, if not in the same way or to the same degree as before.

best wishes on this new journey!

I love it when the community rallies around people because they want the best for then. Restores my faith in humanity.

Also, wishing you all the best on your health journey Canuck!

2 months

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Is chat still down?

DanielAviation:
Chrome on my Phone

Cool. Google "How to clear cache on Chrome mobile browser"

2 months

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Weight gain and cholesterol

Art Tool:
Thank you for the thoughtful and caring responses. Mottif’s response has been particularly helpful and insightful. It’s given us some ideas and new directions.

I agree with you that working with the doctors is the right thing to do. For the time being we will be following their advice and see where things go from there.

Many thanks!

It makes me happy any time a feeder puts their feedee first and chooses to work with their doctor instead of against them.

3 months

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Weight gain drugs

Angelhoney:
Has anyone ever taken any prescriptions/birth control and experienced weight gain? I’m abt to start spironolactone (I have mild PCOS) , and the side effects are increased fat distribution to boobs and butt(yay) but also tummy and thighs too.. I’ve been average weight my whole life with an hourglass figure and I’m curious n excited. Kinda nervous because it’s always been hard for me to gain alotta weight despite my horny binges

Weight gain is fairly common on birth control. Not everyone gains on it, but if you are being lazy and eating a lot, you are more likely to gain than not.

3 months

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Is chat still down?

FF Team:
Anyone experience problems please clear your cache.

Chat is up and running.

Thanks,
c00kie
FF Team

DanielAviation:
How would I do that?

What browser do you use?

3 months

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