Chat update 27/01/2025 - report bugs here

Hiccupx:
Yes, we'll be working to iron our these glitches over the coming days. The chat has been completely re-written, so the code's in much better order.


This is exciting
2 months

Have a job outside the home when very big

Bigwideland:
I am interested in find if members have held down a job at an external to the home work place, if more than 500 or 600 lbs. What job industry full or part time, what was your max weight in that job, any particular restrictions or methods to make it work?


I used to work in a call center with a 500 lbs lady. Lovely woman.

As far as I am aware, her only accommodation was getting a special chair. She could still get around on her own - albeit very slowly.
2 months

Necroposting question

JN_TumLover56:
So here’s my two cents on the matter.

I think that it really depends on the subject post and what the intention is. Like let’s say for example the thread about why so many people are mad about BP/FA movements, it maybe an old topic and the OP is long but gone… but the overall subject is still very important to be worthy discussed. Especially if someone wants to say something that’s still within the “theme” and actually has something that’s pretty thought out, then so be it. But if there’s a new updated 2025 (and onward) discussion about a certain topic, then that’s where I feel like a fresh post would be necessary.

Of course it could also be because some people have been waiting to comment on something that they have been wanting for awhile now but couldn’t due to life getting in the way or having that mental blockage to think clearly to write/type something. I mean I could’ve said something when this particular thread was still fresh but it ended up taking me 5 days to write something because of everything I just said above! It ain’t always fun when you work a physical job that sometimes takes a lot out of you. It’s especially true when you get worked up and stressed about something that happened causing you to can’t concentrate on knowing what you’re going to write.

Now I can see the annoying part when someone bumps an old post without taking any effort. Sometimes I wonder if they thought it was an interesting idea for everyone to see the old comments for a future reference?? I could be wrong, but that’s what I think.

Finally I’ve seen some people bump an old post in the Personal Ads section. I get that if the OP is still available/looking I would imagine that they would want to do so, that way their post doesn’t get lost in the void. But if it’s someone commenting on a Personal Ad topic that was a decade ago then yeah… they are clearly wasting their time.


Makes sense.

Personally, I don't consider making a comment on a 5 day old post necroposting. Now, sometimes, I will see a comment that I missed from 3 or 4 days ago responding to something I said.

I usually respond to those unless the person is talking smack and the thread is long buried. No point in doing that, imo. That's just being messy.
2 months

Boostmyappetite - legit?

Faaaat:
Hello, I was recommended this website for gaining syrups and I was wondering if anyone knows it? Is it a scam or do the products work?


Stay away from weight gain syrups. They are a class of antihistamines, and you may experienced unexpected side effects. One of the most common ones are fatigue.

They also tend to taste bad. Most liken it to cough syrup.
2 months

Regret after finishing

Magodamilion2:
you need to be edging after a stuffing, delay gratification as long as possible so you can enjoy it longer

Munchies:
That doesn't help with the crux of the issue.

He can edge and delay until the cows come home. But once he gets off, he has regret.

Magodamilion2:
Not necessarily it could be a timing issue. when somethings over too quickly, the whole experience from beginning to end, it will feel less worthwhile


And some people feel regret from edging. What is your point?
2 months

Regret after finishing

Magodamilion2:
you need to be edging after a stuffing, delay gratification as long as possible so you can enjoy it longer


That doesn't help with the crux of the issue.

He can edge and delay until the cows come home. But once he gets off, he has regret.
2 months