Yea...as others have mentioned communication is the key. But I do know not only are there many variations of this fetish but people that have this on again off again fascination with gaining. Probably a lot more than any of us even could imagine.....not to mention as time goes on people’s ideas/attitudes and energy to try not to gain or get Fat become more of a struggle and they become more accepting of just going with the flow so to speak.

My wife was chunky as a teenager and then told me she got Fat at the beginning of High School (I wouldn’t consider her Fat but she was clearly overweight and I am sure most guys in High School would call her the Hot Fat Chic). Fast forward to right before we were dating and she was a bikini model and before meeting me started packing on several lbs. again. I let her know after us dating for a bit I wouldn’t mind her slowing down on her workouts and relaxing a little more. At that time she thought she needed to lose weight being that she had been gaining g right before meeting me. She said if I slow down my workouts I will get Fat again....which is when I found out about her chubbier past. She started working out less and the lbs. definitely came on quickly and she looked amazing. She has a huge sweet tooth and the time she wasn’t spending at the gym was nestled on my couch snacking when I would get home from work. Her appetite began to increase and She started growing out of all her clothes and she looked so unbelievably hot to me. She hated getting chubbier again and ended up dieting to lose the 15-20 lbs. she packed on pretty quickly. I was so bummed and it definitely took our relationship from perfect to not so good. Fast forward to us being married and her pregnant. She actually became pregnant back to back to back
And she packed on a lot of weight and was more beautiful than ever. At 5’ 3” and slightly over 200 lbs. after all three pregnancies she had certainly developed a big appetite and vowed to lose all the weight she had gained. Instead she continued to gain weight and eat more than ever. She was the heaviest she ever was a year and then some after her last delivery and it ended up taking her more than two years to start losing the weight. I thought she would continue gaining and keep getting heavier not only because her appetite but her new attitude toward her figure. She was accepting and almost teased me with her extremely full figure sexy body.....she seemed happy being fatter and loved that she could eat to her hearts content. I would even catch her fondling her belly and thighs in a fun way. She has gone back and forth over the years with her up and downs in weight. Her attitude is more care free, relaxed, loving and her zest for consumption in all areas food, desert and love making is so incredible when she is Heavier and fatter. When she loses she is more up tight, cranky and could care less about sex and more about trying to schedule in working out.

Also, when she is heavy she tends to point out pretty women who are also heavy but when she is thinner will only point out in shape or fit (she calls it) women.

Not sure if anyone else has seen this type of back and forth with weight gain and attitude?

Did you ever know why she did it?

This makes sense! I definitely see a lot of this in the community and was curious.

I have seen many models who are gainers or feeders on various websites that seem to have scars from cutting on their arms or legs. Maybe I am naive but is there a correlation at all or has anyone else noticed this?

I mean it seems like you can both communicate with this fetish pretty well together based on where you are at now....or has that changed? Why don’t you just ask what she is interested in as of right now with both of your weights and then discuss your thoughts.

With both of you into this fetish I would think that it is going to be tough to actually control your weight.....especially when the other one loves it....not to mention when you both have become so used to eating so much and gaining together. Also, you can try and set a weight for both of you not to pass....and figure out the tough part of how you can actually stop!

Two big bellies getting in the way making it more of a struggle for deep penetration is very arousing. The fat bellies become an inner tube like bumper pushing each other back. My wife and I gained a bunch at the same time and it was one of the most arousing things ever. Albeit still able to perform all positions but missionary became the most difficult for deep pnentration.

So in my case my wife always seemed like she liked me to be more toned and cut up way back when I was into lifting heavy....I was pretty muscular with a slightly round belly...not much at all. Many years later I accidentally gained and then decided to intentionally gain....and I put on close to 45 Lbs. in 4-6 months. My wife was the same she couldn't keep her hands off of my belly ....although it made it pretty easy because it was always getting in the way and not only was she so much more into the frequency of se but she was initiated it almost every night. She didn't discuss but not only could I tell she liked it she seemed to try and get me even bigger with huge helpings at meals and seconds followed by fattening deserts. The good news was she was eating close to as much as I was....we were big time eating buddies. It was one of the only times she never complained about gaining a bunch of weight....I guess because I was out gaining her.

I am not sure if it has something to do with them being the good wife and cooking and making there husbands Fat or if it is a slight grown FA fetish...not sure...would love to see this thread get a lot of action.

Look up zero sweat and there are a few others but that seems to work the best.

ILoveChibbyChix....... I think she may have a secretive desire for Fat. She only acts a bit on the FA side when she has been drinking and is slightly tipsy above normal. I think she has a deep desire that is tucked away.

She has only done several things over the years that has given me this thought.

I don’t know Italian....but my wife and I will be there for a couple weeks. I am just wondering if all the good food should allow her to pack on at least 10 lbs. in those two weeks?

I heard there is a lot of walking but hopefully I can slow her down a bit and increase her appetite.