Jiggle Junkie:
Envision a small town (population 957) with only a few eating out options. Take a strong preference for fountain soft drinks over canned or bottled equivalents, plus a desire to get out/away from home and work to just go somewhere, even when there’s not much time to do so.

My Love goes to the local Dairy Queen typically once a day, often several times a day, at a minimum for a drink refill (in her brought-in reusable big cup). She and her siblings have worked at nearly every food establishment in town, and in her opinion DQ has the best sodas (she calls them. I call them soft drinks. She prefers Coca-Cola unless it’s late in the day and the caffeine might keep her awake). Indeed her younger sister years ago managed this DQ location.

She has the DQ app and is always scanning receipts to earn red spoon credits. Then we need to use those $5 (typically) credits before they expire, which often entails a meal, desserts, or both. Many a date evening/night we’ve spent there, talking for hours, with at least her eating and getting multiple beverage refills.

She’s in there so often that she’s become somewhat of a celebrity. We know most of the employees by name, greet them, check in with how they’re doing (when appropriate), etc. Most of them know and like/love her (and some really like me). They like her so much that the manager gave her a standing offer of a job there, should she choose to come work there. Also, they stopped charging her for refills. I’m guessing this is because refills aren’t much of a money maker for them, the

Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...

Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?

Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.

Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.

Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.

And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.

You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.

It was great.

However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.

I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.

So, eventually, I had to walk away.

Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.

Bigdoug:
First off, I think it is a very good choice to leave a relationship that no longer meets your needs. People change (or don’t) at different rates and in different directions and may become incompatible over time. So sometimes you have to call it quits for everybody’s sake and well-being.
However, no one outside of a relationship can ever be an accurate judge of what goes on between two people. Heck, most of the time not even the people in the relationship can do that, since we really only can see things from our own point of view. I would be very curious how your ex would describe his side and experience of that relationship. My suspicions are that his “cognitive decline” may be less linked to a high-fat diet maybe more to depression (?), ceasing to make an effort to impress you ( as people are prone to do at the beginning of a relationship) or other factors we have no idea about. Nutritionally speaking, the brain needs fat to function ( and unlike other parts of your body) it’s not too picky about where that comes from. Brain function is much more negatively impacted by an extremely low fat diet than the other way around. Please, this is not to say, that your ex didn’t change or that his eating habits were ideal, I was not there to judge that, however, these changes may have had other causes.

Enas:
Is it

1) one person fat, other person skinny?

2) one person fat, other person muscular?

And on a different dimension

A) feeder short, feedee tall

feeder tall, feedee short?


For me it's 2 and B!
I like my feeder to be able to overpower me, which is emphasized even more if she's shorter than me (because she has to be even more capable on overpowering me, in other ways, if height won't do)

Ballooningupagain:
Quiz: Stand up tall and look down - which (one or more) of the following can you see?

1. Moobs/Boobs

2. Belly

3. Genitalia

4. Feet

5. Scales (if standing on them!)

For me it is just 1 and 2

TheHedonismLover:
I’m not sure if this is the right section to post this in, but I think it’s my best bet.

I want to ask the women on this site a question.
Do you think that love dolls are ethical?
I’m curious about them, but I can’t help but feel rather guilty.
I don’t think of women as objects…but decades without physical contact is messing with my head.

Fatty J:
Im 400 now 😂 and getting bigger

Fatty J:
Ive broken both 😂

FF Team:
We used to have a rep system based off site usage and account duration amongst other things. It was called the Karma score and we had little purple tear drops on the profiles indicating members use and interaction on the site which can give a good idea if someone is genuine or not.

At users request we removed this feature. But if there is enough demand, we can look at bringing this back.

Of course we do now have verification, this is a process where members submit a photo of themselves with a hand written sign to prove their identity. You can search for verified profiles, and you get a little blue badge / shield icon on your profile once completed.

A pinned post on how to spot scammers could be useful. I will look into this and see what we can come up with. Usually scammers are pretty obvious to spot but I don't want to give away too much info for scammers to change their behaviour which would then make it harder for us to locate them if they see the post.

Thank you for the suggestions.

c00kie
FF Team

LydiaFatOttter:
maybe not a full on rep system but more of a "proof you used this site a lot" thing

posting using chat etc makes it go up but it wont go down.

less of a your good person and more of a you using this site a lot

forms have like awards for x number of posts and replies and such and longer your there or more active you are higher it goes

this rank would also keep people inline as acting like dirt bag would risk of losing your accont.

but it will also show to people around here this person been here a lot. but not a metic of if they are nice person or not.

new account will be at behide to older accounts. but id they stick on the site they will grow in rank and be fine.

scamers and Ebeggers mostly be cut out tho since they be bannd and have start again.




either do this or have mods give out bagdes or mini nick names to show they are active and adding memeber

Morbidly A Beast:
how do you differentiate between gluttonous cravings for food and what your body wants/needs? Maybe I used to be able to differentiate them but I currently can’t I’m either starving or almost stuffed/stuffed

Munchies:
It's hard at first, but you can achieve it over time through self-reflection and research. I don't think about what I eat too much until I start craving things. For example, if I get a sudden craving for something deep-fried and crunchy or something sugary, I'm probably stressed about something. I usually want those foods because they make me feel good - at least until the sheer amount of grease and dough makes me feel bad later. But if I'm craving sushi or seaweed, I know that my iron, omega-3, and/or iodine levels are low.

Morbidly A Beast:
Interesting.

What would you say your body is telling you to an amount of food instead of a specific food I’ve been craving amounts recently like x ammount of burritos maybe it’s hard to read cause I’m actively going for it but it’s just super curious to me is all

Morbidly A Beast:
how do you differentiate between gluttonous cravings for food and what your body wants/needs? Maybe I used to be able to differentiate them but I currently can’t I’m either starving or almost stuffed/stuffed