Being a feeder

MarieTrans:
He's mad at me because of a misunderstanding that I tried to clear up but he wouldn't listen


Yeah, I'm getting those vibes from squish. But, suddenly, the trans statement makes a little more sense.
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IAmSquish:
Just gonna say.... I was there, in chat when this whole thing happened. There are screenshots and perhaps someone needs to get their story straight before bitching about it in public, where everyone can see, and comment. As it is a free platform.

Munchies:
What happened?

IAmSquish:
People were causally chatting, having a good time, then that topic came up. No one was initially attacked and there was a misunderstanding that was tried to be cleared up, but it was like a person didn't want to see it. Then it fizzled as the topic was changed.
I know that might be vague, but that is all I will say on it. The people who were there know the truth.


Duly noted.
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IAmSquish:
Just gonna say.... I was there, in chat when this whole thing happened. There are screenshots and perhaps someone needs to get their story straight before bitching about it in public, where everyone can see, and comment. As it is a free platform.


What happened?
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Miachu:
Damn this is crazy, let's see how this unfolds 🍿


I'm also shocked about the turn this took. I had an extremely mild take, too. Hardly controversial.
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
I read the first bit. It was very long which is why I stopped. It very much came off on “feeders Are supposed to feed, so if you say no you aren’t a feeder” which is why I stopped reading…


Do you realize how childish you are being right now? You are taking things out on a person who wrote several paragraphs validating your situation. The only I disagreed with you about is comparing your experiences to transphobia.

You need to take 5 minutes to cool your head and realize that not everyone who disagrees with you on something is against you.

If you don't want to read what I wrote, that's fine. But you don't get to make assumptions about me based on your incomplete perceptions.
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
Not sniping at all. Tired of being told I am not a feeder because I won’t feed everyone. And the first few words of your long comment, were saying that. So I didn’t read it. I’m a feeder and tire
D of being told I’m not because o so it just feed everyone who wants to eat.


No. The first few sentences were about why you shouldn't compare your situation to transphobia. The rest of my message was about why you are experiencing what you are experiencing and what you can do about it.

Why are you making judgements about my opinions without even reading my opinions? Don't you realize you are doing the very thing you say you hate being done to you?
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
I’m just sick and tired of “you won’t boy me food? You aren’t a feeder than” like I’m a feeder, my girlfriend isn’t a feedee, but I’m still a feeder.

Me spending money doesn’t change that. I was told in the chat on here that because I won’t feed random feedees; I am not a feeder


Yeah. Still doesn't mean you have to snipe at a fellow feeder.
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
A feeder feeding multiple feedees is like a guy dating multiple women…


I also want you to understand that feeding someone has a different level of significance to different people. On the low end, feeding someone is just a fun thing to do. It's all no strings attached, and everyone has a good time. On the other end, feeding is a sacred bond that should only happen with someone important to you.

None of these approaches are wrong. It just comes down to what's right for you.
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
A feeder feeding multiple feedees is like a guy dating multiple women…


Wow. Okay.

Look, while I know you are just posting to blow off some understandable steam, there are a sizable chunk of people on this site that will co-opt this thread to say some of the most messed up things about women. I see it happen all the time.

So I, a woman who is also a feeder and has been on this site longer than you have, am trying to nip certain things in the bud before they start.

And if you read what I wrote, you will see that I didn't invalidate anything you said. I was even empathetic. I simply provided more context to certain experiences to keep the thread on topic and discourage certain people from dumping on women.
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ChunkyPeanutButter:
I didn’t read that. I say I am a feeder, doesn’t mean I am required to pay for everything any feedee wants to eat.

I am a feeder in this kink.

I don’t have to feed everyone and not feeding doesn’t make me less a feeder.


Didn't read what? What I said or something else? A lack of antecedents makes it confusing to know what you mean.
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