How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Morbidly A Beast:
If people want to be fat they’ll get fat or a poor diet will make them fat. You don’t know for sure that being around other fat people will make her fat. This is icky

LuvsChub04:
the whole being around 'other fat people' was kinda creepy to me..yet dont know the whole story...


It feels creepy because it is.

Nothing wrong with wanting a fat wife. This is a fat fetish site. However, he wants said wife to hang other fat women in hopes of her getting fatter for the sake of his fetish.

It's controlling because he wants her to hang around specific people for the sake of his fetish. It's objectifying because she isn't the one that's looking for these kinds of relationships. And OP had admitted that he isn't married, so this woman doesn't exist.

It's creepy because he is trying to research how to control her life before they even get together.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
Still not engaging with the racism, I see.

Badtagragtat:
Still not engaging with the question, I see.

Munchies:
Baby girl, I am not not giving you an excuse to ignore that, so I am not going to engage with the question until you engage with your racism.

You posted a racist gif. I called you out on it. And while you have been happy to engage with everything else, you have not addressed that in any capacity.

You have not apologized, taken down the gif, or anything.

You might be happy to ignore that. I am not. So I won't let you.

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not defending him at all and I think he is trying to troll at this point but he posted a gif that’s from a movie called Blazing Saddles and it’s a postmodernist western style comedy. I don’t think he was trying to be racist just made an inconvenient poor taste joke. “Where da fat women at?” In the movie the characters were trying to distract kkk members (bad guys along with nazis and bikers) and to do this gene wilders character grabs the guy and the guy said “where the white women at?” And the klans men chased after them. It’s old from like the 70s and it said the nword more times the Django Unchained


A lot of racism is incidental. You are not trying to be, but it still happens. This is why I am giving him a chance to address it and not going full tilt like you've seen me do to other people.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
Still not engaging with the racism, I see.

Badtagragtat:
Still not engaging with the question, I see.


Baby girl, I am not not giving you an excuse to ignore that, so I am not going to engage with the question until you engage with your racism.

You posted a racist gif. I called you out on it. And while you have been happy to engage with everything else, you have not addressed that in any capacity.

You have not apologized, taken down the gif, or anything.

You might be happy to ignore that. I am not. So I won't let you.
1 year

Unexpected signs and side effects of weight gain

MoreOfMe:
No more thigh gap😮

LuvsChub04:
noticed mine has gone away


Thigh gaps are interesting. I went from being 115 lbs to 168 by the time I stopped gaining. I have never had a thigh gap. I've always had big hips and big thighs.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
I am so curious as to what was the original post. Because these vibes are rancid.

Are you actually married, or is this a fantasy scenario? I assume you want said wife to have far friends so she can either get fatter or feel more comfortable doing so? Because either way, the answer is "You don't."

If she befriends people because it would make her husband happy, it's a doomed friendship.

Badtagragtat:
Not married,just thinking far into the future.

The original post read
TITLE: "How to find fat women to be friends with my wife"
BODY: "Hopefully they'd encourage(formerly coerce but the user above told me that it sounds forced so I changed it) her into eating more and getting fat and fatter but that's besides the point"
I am asking because I can't find any fat young women in my area.

LuvsChub04:
Something about this just doesn't seem sound right as I cant see the original post.If she wants to get fatter she will on her own not someone forcing her too, unless thats her kink..


My thoughts exactly.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
You are being controlling. That's what makes it abuse.

By asking where to look for peers which might have stuff in common with her?

Munchies:
Even toddlers can form friendships on their own. Of course a grown ass adult doesn't need your help.


Badtagragtat:
Yes, but that's if they can find other toddlers. If I dropped a needle and can't find it, ofcourse I would want for help. Why shouldn't this be applied to this situation?


Still not engaging with the racism, I see.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Morbidly A Beast:
You’re conveniently leaving deleting your old posts

No I haven't done this in the last 2 hours.
Morbidly A Beast:
but you said you wanted to know how to make fat friends for your wife

Ideally she'd be friends with them, yes, but I'm not sure how I can make her friends without her doing 95% of the work while I just search for candidates.
Morbidly A Beast:
if you don’t see how that’s mistreatment of her idk what will.

Looking for people which could become friends with someone you know is abuse?

Morbidly A Beast:
she sounds like she’s perfectly able to form friendships on her own without you

Badtagragtat:
What makes you think so?
Have I said anything related to or about her?
I'm simply trying to help her.


You are being controlling. That's what makes it abuse.

Even toddlers can form friendships on their own. Of course a grown ass adult doesn't need your help.

Man, I am glad you aren't married.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?


Munchies:
Two, nowhere near you if you don't learn how to treat women.

Badtagragtat:
Am I maltreating women?

Also

Explain how one treats women.


Love how you only focus on "maltreating" women and ignore that I called you out for racism.

Love that for you, bestie.

And Morbidly A Beast phrased it perfectly. If you still can't see, then you are not ready for a relationship.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
I see. Thanks for the clarification. My advise still stands.

Badtagragtat:
Very well, but where da fat women at?


Okay, so. Two things.

One, I am a black woman who had had run ins with the Klan, I do not find that gif funny.

Two, nowhere near you if you don't learn how to treat women.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
I am so curious as to what was the original post. Because these vibes are rancid.

Are you actually married, or is this a fantasy scenario? I assume you want said wife to have far friends so she can either get fatter or feel more comfortable doing so? Because either way, the answer is "You don't."

If she befriends people because it would make her husband happy, it's a doomed friendship.

Badtagragtat:
Not married,just thinking far into the future.

The original post read
TITLE: "How to find fat women to be friends with my wife"
BODY: "Hopefully they'd encourage(formerly coerce but the user above told me that it sounds forced so I changed it) her into eating more and getting fat and fatter but that's besides the point"


I see. Thanks for the clarification. My advise still stands.
1 year