What does fat symbolize to you?

ForeverFFA:
I was just curious what people's mental associations with fat are, besides the obvious fact that it turns them on? And do you think these are somehow connected to the reason that you have this fetish?

I've always thought of bigger guys as somehow strong, cuddly protectors. Like, it makes me feel safe to have one on (or by) my side. Beyond that, cooking and eating can be emotionally charged and intimate acts even for vanilla people. To see a person who wears extra signs of that on their body conjures up those same associations for me. Also, people who know how to eat seem like people who know how to have a good time in general.

Thoughts?


Aside from enjoying the texture, I feel neutral about fat outside of kink. However, if I am the reason someone has gotten fat, it makes me feel domestic. I enjoy cooking delicious food, but I only feed the people I like. So if I feed you a lot, and you gain weight from it, it's because I like you a lot.
1 year

Belly button tingling

ForeverFFA:
Tingling can also be caused by unhealthy amounts of pressure on the spine or a nerve. Whatever the cause, it sounds like your body is sending warning signs that it needs a break.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I have just in the past week had a bit of a reality check with myself, because I do want to remain mobile. I'm 29 and a working professional, and my partner is moderately physically active. I've been putting on 7 to 10 pounds a week lately, and obviously, that can't go on indefinitely. While I'm 403 now and still hope to get to 450, I'm going to try slowing down to see if that helps with my belly pain, bizarre tingling, and sore belly button. My partner agrees that's probably best. Maybe 2 pounds a week is more sustainable!

Munchies:
It is, but you will probably need to have gaining breaks all together of you want to let your body recover.

I also caution against stopping cold turkey. I'm a feeder that enjoys super intense stuffings, and I've been around the block a bit. If you go cold turkey, you'll struggle a lot. I find transitioning into better eating habits to be more effective. It takes about a month to do, and you'll still gain weight during this time, but you won't have such a hard time dealing with cravings.

Week 1: Eat anything you want, but don't stuff yourself.
Week 2: Eat as much as you want without stuffing yourself, but eat cleaner.
Week 3 - 4: Decrease your portion sizes over time until you have a normal amount of food during meals. Continue to eat clean.

Since you have a supportive partner, involve him in your goals. It's easier to stop/slow down when you aren't going it alone.

BigBallBellyGirl:
This guidance sounds very manageable and realistic


Thank you! This is a method that I have tested myself, and I can confirm its effectiveness.
1 year

Does gaining make you hungrier?


NoMoYoYo:
I'll admit I haven't done much exercise at all since starting this gain. I go on short walks and took my kids swimming twice but thats about it. I haven't touched a weight or other strength training since the beginning of July.

Munchies:
I would get back into it. Depending on how you go about things, you won't lose weight by exercising. If anything, it will allow you to be more comfortable as you gain weight.

NoMoYoYo:
As I've mentioned in other topics, I love how soft this gain has been. I want to gain even more softness. In my belly, in my chest. I want to be squishy and jiggly. Could strength training affect that?

Munchies:
Unless you are putting in the work to make serious muscle gains, it will not. If anything, it will help you in your goal to be squishy.

Your body burns visceral fat (the hard fat surrounding your organs) before it burns subcutaneous fat (the squishy fat under your skin). So if you do light-to moderate strength training and cardio, it will help you to be softer than if you didn't exercise at all. You just have to keep up your calorie intake.

NoMoYoYo:
Ahh interesting. Well, I'm sure the calories won't be a problem. I eat a lot lol. I am going to try the month-long weaning you wrote about cause I need to slow down. I have some of my old bigger clothes, but I had to buy a bit more so I'm not wearing the same three or four things.

Bills225:
Great discussion here. I want to add that my experience has been exactly how Munchies has described. I finally got back into working out this year and the only thing that’s happened is that I gained 5 pounds. But I feel better, have more energy and I’m generally much happier. Eating healthier and exercising doesn’t mean giving up on gaining. If anything, I think a weight training diet and low impact cardio can help with making the numbers on the scale increase.


That makes me happy to hear.

Conventional wisdom in feedist circles is to be as sedentary as possible to promote weight gain. While I won't deny a sedentary lifestyle helps you get fat, it also prevents you from enjoying things you used to enjoy.

When I first joined FF, I saw a lot of posts talking about making sacrifices to get bigger. And while you do need to give up some things once you hit a certain size, I don't think you need to make yourself so out of shape you can't enjoy life outside of feedism anymore.

I've spoken to a number of feedees between 150 - 300 lbs who are too out of shape to do much more than laze around and eat. Meanwhile, there are plenty of feedees who are in decent shape. There might be some things that they are too heavy to do, but they are still able to enjoy most things.

If you enjoy being out of shape, then more power to you. Let your freak flag fly. But if you don't enjoy it, just know you have other options.
1 year

Hooked on ff

Highway:
You know you’re hooked when you view the forum section and realized that you posted on almost every subject. Sorry to those I’ve crowded out, I’ll try to cut back and just observe more.😂

Munchies:


Couldn't be me.

Enas:
How much coffee (or tea?) are you drinking???


Yes
1 year

Hooked on ff

Highway:
You know you’re hooked when you view the forum section and realized that you posted on almost every subject. Sorry to those I’ve crowded out, I’ll try to cut back and just observe more.😂




Couldn't be me.
1 year

Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Morbidly A Beast:
Bullying just stresses everyone involved even people who aren’t being actively bullied raising cortisol levels..

Humans aren’t even meant to burn fat we are designed for storing it. Losing weight is a problem.


Yeah, it's super interesting. Here's an article giving the quick and dirty about it:

medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325668

The science behind fat is endlessly fascinating.

That said, I do want to make it clear that the mechanics behind metabolism are far more complex than "it's hard to lose weight."

Some people will find weight loss easy and some people will not. There are a multitude of factors as to why, and those factors will change over the course of a person's life.

Regardless of what happens with your body, it doesn't have a moral impact for or against you. It simply ... is.
1 year

Belly button tingling

ForeverFFA:
Tingling can also be caused by unhealthy amounts of pressure on the spine or a nerve. Whatever the cause, it sounds like your body is sending warning signs that it needs a break.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I have just in the past week had a bit of a reality check with myself, because I do want to remain mobile. I'm 29 and a working professional, and my partner is moderately physically active. I've been putting on 7 to 10 pounds a week lately, and obviously, that can't go on indefinitely. While I'm 403 now and still hope to get to 450, I'm going to try slowing down to see if that helps with my belly pain, bizarre tingling, and sore belly button. My partner agrees that's probably best. Maybe 2 pounds a week is more sustainable!


It is, but you will probably need to have gaining breaks all together of you want to let your body recover.

I also caution against stopping cold turkey. I'm a feeder that enjoys super intense stuffings, and I've been around the block a bit. If you go cold turkey, you'll struggle a lot. I find transitioning into better eating habits to be more effective. It takes about a month to do, and you'll still gain weight during this time, but you won't have such a hard time dealing with cravings.

Week 1: Eat anything you want, but don't stuff yourself.
Week 2: Eat as much as you want without stuffing yourself, but eat cleaner.
Week 3 - 4: Decrease your portion sizes over time until you have a normal amount of food during meals. Continue to eat clean.

Since you have a supportive partner, involve him in your goals. It's easier to stop/slow down when you aren't going it alone.
1 year

Crossing from feeder to gainer

Justinboo0313:
It’s not like we can turn off our kink. It just finds another outlet. And right now I’m the only option!


Behold your future, big boy:


Have fun ~
1 year

Crossing from feeder to gainer

Justinboo0313:
I’m on the verge of jumping to the other side. I have no one to feed, so I’m thinking about possibly feeding myself. I’m wondering if anyone has experience in this?


It's a whole pipeline. It usually happens one of two ways:

A feeder has no one to feed so they feed themselves.

A feeder has a feedee, and their gluttonous habits start to rub off.
1 year

Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Morbidly A Beast:
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined

Munchies:
This is true. Fat is demonized, and a lot of people think that fat shaming is "helping". I've heard a number of people say something like "Fat shaming is the only bullying that helps people." Feedism cannot and will not be accepted by the mainstream until we deal with fatphobia first.

Morbidly A Beast:
Yup so true. It’s the “Last bastion of acceptable bigotry” someone phrased it as.

2seatsalways:
I don't think I could roll my eyes any harder or I'd go crosseye. Wow...
Yet I keep seeing preaching of tolerance yet not for this


It's so dumb. Even if everything they believed about being fat is true (which is it not), I haven't met a single person who changed for the better because they were bullied into submission.
1 year