Billedmeup:
This is a great thread. Thanks for sharing.

I think he has the traditional conflict. It is clear that the belly is a huge turn on for him, but to friends and family he is embarrassed that he got a bit fat.

Does he know you are posting on this forum? If so, any chance you could post a before and after (or maybe just the after) of his belly? Just the belly with the rest of him cropped out.

Chunkadelicc:
Hi! I was forced to live in my ex’s basement for a period of time while we were in a feedism-relationship. It caused me to become depressed beyond belief, to which I have been medically diagnosed with since.

This fantasy is NOT cute nor attractive in the slightest. If there’s consent between you and a partner for this fantasy, cool, whatever. Hell, I love some good death feedism. What we’re NOT gonna do is glorify a literal crime.

Funneladdict:
I can't explain why I find your feeder ex so attractive, despite the pain she inflicted.

RobertsonMailer:
Grocery shopping on an empty stomach, well never really empty, is something I’ve alway tried avoiding. I caved and all I kept thinking was how good everything would taste. One thing led to another and I find myself in the bakery loading my cart up with pastries galore. In for a penny in for a pound, my trip took a little longer than expected but proved fruitful. Once home I had to try what I bought and definitely helped reach my goal. Stuffed, sleepy, and satisfied…for now!

Is there any other activity that prompts stuffings better? Or good you can’t pass up when walking by

Boomerang:
I don't know how to explain it, but it affects my whole life


But then again, I'm a psychologist myself, and although I've meditated a lot about, even I can only offer some slight hypothesis about why myself I'm here and where does it come from

NocturnalDevotion:
What would that be? I’ve heard fetishes stem from trauma.

FAMGM:
So, since 27 January 2023 I have put on 72 lbs. I have noticed a significant change in my sex drive through this process.

First, let me explain the method.

This very rapid growth is the result of regaining. I have basically eaten as much as possible at every opportunity, I’m averaging 9,000-10,000 cal per day.

I have also largely abstained from orgasm during that period. I have masturbated to orgasm probably 3 times since 27 January, and not once in the last fortnight.

This is a notable change. For most of my adult life I have been content with one orgasm per day. Sex with another person has come in on top of that — my basic needs have been stable.

I have essentially been using the pent-up horniness to drive more gorging. It has worked very, very well, and at first, I was overeating whilst extremely erect, often whilst edging without permitting release.

As time has gone on, though, my erections have become less frequent, though I am still highly aroused, and I’m losing interest in my cock as a source of pleasure.

Today, for instance, after a 3,000 cal breakfast, a 2,000 cal top up breakfast, a 2,500 cal lunch, and then a 3,000 cal second lunch, I looked down at my semi-erect cock, and thought, “I could masturbate… or I could have a short nap and eat more”. I chose the latter.

In short, I’m finding profound sexual gratification in overfeeding myself stupid amounts of food, and in fattening up rapidly — gratification that is more satisfying than the “normal” method.

Does anyone have any experience in this sort of shift in sex-drive?

Munchies:
Having spoken to a lot of men on this site, it's fairly normal around here. Even more so if you are rapidly gaining weight and are over stuffing yourself every day. Plus, it seems you're inadvertantly training your brain to see food as a source of sexual pleasure over orgasms.

I will say be careful. The longest time I've stuffed my partner was a month. During that time, he'd eat around 10k calories or more. Gained about 20 lbs and had some indigestion to go along with it. Poor guy barely ate the first few days after we stopped

The body needs a break to rest and recover. You can inadvertently mess up your internals from constantly eating and stretching your body to the max every day.

FAMGM:
Yes. A rest is due soon.

I attempted a pause this week, but got carried away. 🫢

FAMGM:
So, since 27 January 2023 I have put on 72 lbs. I have noticed a significant change in my sex drive through this process.

First, let me explain the method.

This very rapid growth is the result of regaining. I have basically eaten as much as possible at every opportunity, I’m averaging 9,000-10,000 cal per day.

I have also largely abstained from orgasm during that period. I have masturbated to orgasm probably 3 times since 27 January, and not once in the last fortnight.

This is a notable change. For most of my adult life I have been content with one orgasm per day. Sex with another person has come in on top of that — my basic needs have been stable.

I have essentially been using the pent-up horniness to drive more gorging. It has worked very, very well, and at first, I was overeating whilst extremely erect, often whilst edging without permitting release.

As time has gone on, though, my erections have become less frequent, though I am still highly aroused, and I’m losing interest in my cock as a source of pleasure.

Today, for instance, after a 3,000 cal breakfast, a 2,000 cal top up breakfast, a 2,500 cal lunch, and then a 3,000 cal second lunch, I looked down at my semi-erect cock, and thought, “I could masturbate… or I could have a short nap and eat more”. I chose the latter.

In short, I’m finding profound sexual gratification in overfeeding myself stupid amounts of food, and in fattening up rapidly — gratification that is more satisfying than the “normal” method.

Does anyone have any experience in this sort of shift in sex-drive?

Nofbar:
I've been told that any application for disability will be denied at first. You'll need to repeatedly apply and/or get an attorney to help.

Miachu:
So getting to fat to work (like immobility) can get classed as a disability?

Thats wild if true

Casual Gainer:
Update to my previous post.

So for the last couple of days I've been continuing to no longer suck my gut in after decades of doing so.

As before I've still yet to hear any comments.

But today I faced what I think was the ultimate challenge.....family.

In the end neither my parents nor my brothers seemed to notice or they didn't care, including the one who I especially thought would be the one to say something, in fact he joked about how I would be able to eat an entire Large pizza by myself (which of course I did).

Tl;dr: Nobody seems to care and I'm just going to continue being myself.

Canderson206:
Hi folks,

My girlfriend and I are discussing goals for her long-term weight gain. She's willing to meet my needs up to a certain point, but she's a bit unsure about how legal disability might work if she becomes too fat to do most jobs. Its not the financial aspect we're wondering about, it's the legal aspect. She has a large amount of student loans, and as I understand it, she can be legally absolved of those if she goes on permanent disability.

Does anyone here have experience with qualifying for long-term disability once they reach a certain weight? Could you shed some light on how that worked for you?

If my gf could qualify as permanently disabled and get out from under her student loans by growing extremely fat, she'd be much more willing to do it. (Which I think is totally understandable).

Thanks in advance for any input.