Going swimming when you've gained weight!

BigBallBellyGirl:
I love the sensation of the water "lifting" my belly when I'm standing submerged to my chest in the poop.


And unfortunate typo.
1 year

Knees taking the strain of my weight

Spiky128:
I've had a bad knee injury for around a year now, had it swell up out of nowhere. I had to be transported to hospital in an ambulance and was referred to physiotherapy where I was given exercises to do. As a result, my knee... mostly healed up, but it was still creaking and cracking when going down stairs, for example.

Fast-forward to today, and I just got seen by an orthopedic specialist who straight-up said there's nothing they can do because it's a "textbook example of overloading the patella" or in other words, I'm fat enough that my knees are struggling.

I'm torn between being annoyed there's nothing they can do about it and... weirdly aroused that I'm heavy enough to cause such an issue? I'm not trying to gain weight but I am trying to at least accept my morbid obesity (according to BMI values anyway since I'm ~275 pounds).

I don't know, it's a weird feeling being told straight that my excess weight is causing a problem like this. I just have to hope it doesn't get worse...!


Health insurance worker here. I strongly advise you to proceed with caution. If your size is truly the problem, then either you need to lose weight or get your strength up. Because if you keep pushing it, it will get worse. And worse can mean surgery or a knee replacement.

Take care of your knees and they will take care of you.
1 year

How fast heavy cream will effct?

Jaakkotamminen:

Heavy cream sits heavy in your stomach. So some people use it as an appetite suppressant. Keep that in mind if you don't see results. Some people have more success cooking with heavy cream instead of drinking it.

MarshmallowMinotaur:
Yep, ironically because it’s almost pure fat, which slows digestion. There’s a point of diminishing returns.

I love heavy cream. I add it to coffee, I whip it and eat it by the spoonful, I add it to shakes, drink it by itself but just a small cup because it’s so heavy, add it to cream of wheat in place if a portion of the milk/water, mix it with whole milk for a not-so-heavy drink.


Jaakkotamminen didn't say that. I said that.
1 year

How fast heavy cream will effct?

Kacchan:
Even heavy cream, the so-called "golden fattening liquid" isn't as revered as it once was. Sure people still consume it, but they are being much smarter about it.



Greentrees8733:
Wait, what do you mean it's not as revered as it once was?


Heavy cream used to have almost a cult like following. People would say it was liquid gold when it came to fattening. They'd tell people to stock up on it and drink as much as possible.

When people inevitably mentioned that they got sick drinking it, didn't see any weight gain, or even lost weight, people would tell them to keep drinking. If people said they didn't care for the taste, they'd tell them to power through.

It was a mess.

These days people are being smarter about things.
1 year

I don't care if i get banned.

Angelette:
Thanks everyone. I did talk to 988 weeks ago. I might again because work has gotten worse for me. I wish to quit my job right now. It makes me miserable.


Check out the links I posted earlier if you need help with that. You can also find job assistance programs
1 year

Should be a place to easly report scammers on here

Letters And Numbers:
Would it be helpful if users could report individual posts or threads? The spam bots that have been coming through lately are all over the place, and you can report the account but not the posts. On the other hand, I can see people reporting slap fights and stuff like that and just making a lot of work for the admins.


The spam bots are just annoying. And sometimes, when you go to report them, their profile has been disabled. So you gotta send up an email about it.

It would be nice if a spam account could be banned once confirmed to be a spam account.
1 year

New relationship

BigGator:
Hahaha! This is really so uncanny. I've told my partner I am into weight gain fetish, but they took it to mean like tf porn, and honestly I was too embarassed to push it further.

I do plan on telling them this weekend, because I think having them feed me food would be fun, and we'll be on a vacation away from home. Maybe I'll hit you up in DMs and let you know how it goes? Fair?


Good luck! I hope all goes well.
1 year

New relationship

Chinchilla:
A month ago, I started a new relationship with someone awesome. The first weeks went by smoothly, I enjoy cooking for both of us and I started having a bigger apetite and enjoying food better.

Four years ago, after I intentionaly gained 20lbs, I decided to completely forget about feederism because it was taking to much space in my life (I'm kind of an obsessive person when I'm interested in something). I managed to not think about it for years, but suddenly this new relationship made it all come to the surface. Damn, I love eating so much, I love feeling full after a good meal and seeing my body expand !

So I started eating more... And complained a bit to my boyfriend that I was eating to much and that I will certainly gain weight because of it, as to test the water. And what did he say ? He said : "you eat more probably because you are happy. And if you gain weight because you are happy, then it makes me happy too."

And since then, he seems to borderline encourage me to eat more. Like the other day, I was eating a pack of biscuits. I told him : "I'm eating too much, I should save what remains for tomorrow." He said : "Do you want to eat what remains ?" "Yes." "Then eat it if you want to, nothing is stopping you." Seriously, this made me so horny ! Of course then, I finished the pack.

Beside these encouragements, he started buying me treats often and he never tells me that stop, I had enough. If a finish a pack of candies in one sitting, he doesn't even seem to care.

So I came to question if he might be a closet feeder ? He said he likes to touch my belly, but at the same time he seems carefull to not overtouch it so I don't notice how much he likes it (that's my impression, maybe he is just not THAT fond of of it, just normaly likes it).

Anyway, I just gave in. I will gain weight, and since it won't even bother him I don't have to worry. I will have the fat that I want, I can eat what I want, I'll be happy and well loved. And being in a new relationship is the perfect excuse to gain weight, my family won't find it as strange as the first time I gained weight and I will be less self-conscious about it. It's just something that happens when you are in a relationship.

It's only been one month, I started eating way more after two weeks and I'm up by 4lbs. It's not much, but I can't wait to see my progress the next month, then the next one, since my apetite seems to grow a little bit everyday.

For those who want to know, I started at 105lbs (BMI 19.5). I didn't really set a goal, I mostly want to enjoy it, but I would like to be chubby (not obese, it is not for me) so maybe have a BMI of 25, that would make me weigh 140lbs. But maybe that won't be enough for me. Or maybe that I will be unable to stop gaining. I don't care actually, I just want to eat and be fat.


Just talk to your partner. Communication is key. And if you can't talk to them about something so important to you, then that doesn't bode well for your relationship - no matter if it's a kink or something else.

You are making the decision for him. You are deciding that he can't handle the real you when, based on what you shared, he seems pretty okay with it.

And if you truly believe that he won't love you fat, then that's not a relationship that will make you happy long term.
1 year

Has your belly button become deeper and wider as you gain weight?

Perfectly Rounded:
Yeah I have also noticed the same phenomenon. My belly button has clearly gotten more shallow as my belly has grown. I wonder if it will eventually pop out completely.


Sounds like you have a lot of visceral fat.
1 year