Maxtogs:
Back story:So me and my friends both males(24) decided to live with a random we got paired with a female(23) she is on the heavier side and doesn’t seem to mind my friend is heavier than me and is trying to lose weight and well me I pig out.


The past 2 months I’ve gained around 18lbs and I think it’s her fault most morning when I walk down stairs she’s cooking baking ordering and eating(she’s fattened up more than me recently). She denies any of it but I’m upfront she incest I’ve just gained a pound her or there.
But this last week she has really made it clear her motives whenever she buys she buys extra and wants to do my laundry so she can blame it on shrinking
And even today I walked down still bloated from last night and she cooks me a full stack of pancakes

What do u think is she nice or feeding me?

RobbyP:
Strength, flexibility, endurance, mobility and well-functioning organs have always been important to me. Tree-climbing, martial arts and casual sports (mostly tree climbing) were my go-to exercise in my teens. In my twenties I yoyoed, from 170 lean to 211 at my heaviest then. Not until this year had I gone past it. The difference in activity for me is less climbing, not because I can't lift myself but because it would hurt the trees more now. The extra weight allows me to swing heavy objects with less effort, and assists a lot in grappling. My cardio and heart rates were at their unhealthiest when I ate sucrose, grains and soy lecithin in my mid twenties. Switching to raw fruit and/or honey, I'm once again perfectly comfortable with a 540 kcalorie burning, 30 minute elliptical session. The only uncomfortable thoughts I have about appearance are imagining that people will want me erased if I wear sweatpants or gym-shorts out of the house and imagining that my parents wish that I lose weight and keep it off due to a sense of disgust and thinking, "That is the only correct way for a man to live."

ForeverFFA:
Update:

My boyfriend and I have been taking a break and there's other reasons but at least part of it has to do with my concerns over sexual compatibility. I need to make my relationship decision sometime next week.

I feel badly because he's okay with what I like (he's not big but has a little belly himself) and even the fact that I'm on a site like this (since I'm not using it to cheat), and yet, it's exactly because I've been on Fantasy Feeder that I've come to realize the full extent of what I'm missing out on.

It sounds like a lot of you have been saying that this is just too fundamental to get past? Would any of you just try to forget about feedism instead of ending the relationship?

Maxtogs:
I kinda did but I didn’t want to admit I liked the weight gain,

I’m glad she did it I’m fat and happy now

Finish8000:
I have never seen it myself outside of pregnant women and those who have a hernia. It's possible the pressure is coming from your stomach being overstuffed and stretching your skin and muscles.

Maxtogs:
So about 150 pounds and a year or so I was dating a bigger girl, and me being fit with abs but we both were into feederism but her only getting fed it worked great at first she was gaining a lot of weight and we were happy

Around 3 or 4 months in I notice her wanting to order in instead of going out (I thought it was because she was fat) which caused me to gained around 30lbs I didn’t mind at first


But then around 6 months she starts loving it more than me and makes me “diet shakes which were her weight gain at this point I had lost control I ate more than her and was gaining rapidly


We ended things not related to that but to this day I’m still fat asss hell

Doughboy90:
Oh no, no no no that was a a typo It was supposed to say it wouldn’t hurt me to lose the weight right now for my own personal health that kind of deal I got to see you I’m in no danger.

I do apologize if I caused any type of stress or heartache right now.

Doughboy90:
I would take the blue pill reason being not a whole lot would change, but it would hurt him for me to be a little healthier and not affect my happiness one bit

Enas:
That's wonderful, but it is revolved about love then!

Munchies:
That was an idea that I cooked up in like ... 5 minutes. I read a lot of romance, so romance comes naturally to me. But it doesn't have to be romance. In fact, if you scroll up a little ways, you will see some other themes I mentioned.

There are three main categories that media fall into regarding social impact: positive, negative, and neutral. Most things will fall into the neutral category. Why? Because most people use media as a form of escapism, and media companies want money. They do not want to alienate people from the movie because that means less money in their pockets.

With this in mind, you'll realize that most films with negative social impacts do not mean to be. A misogynistic movie is made because there were no diverse voices and no one realized something was misogynistic until the reviews rolled in. Production started years ago, so a line that was innocent at the time is now charged with meaning. And most common offender is that they tried to make a film with a positive social impact and messed it up.

Enas:
I kinda understand what you're trying to say but i whould look it from a different perspective
Yes, the people that work on a movie might want to have that, but profits come always before the positive impact, you can figure this out when in their effort to minimize costs the employers don't hire enough people to have all these different opinions that are needeed. And they often themselves have no idea about this because they're in business to make profit. Nothing else at all!

They often try to make it look like it has been made to have a positive impact, at times purely for marketing! It's no wonder they fail miserably!

Plus a loooooot of media get it completely wrong. In they hyperindividualistic enviroment (because that's what the world is, today) they "empower" people by abstracting them from... love! Empathy! All those thigns that you need to be mature to feel and understand! Those are seen as a weakness!! And what is seen powerful is not someone who has a lot of knowledge either! Instead if you're brute forcing in the dumbest way, now thats what real power is! Are we kidding??

BigBellyBurgerBoy1:
Okay everyone, let's chat, shall we?

If there's going to be a movie where the main character gets fat (either by accident, or on purpose), what is it we're looking for?

Do we want a movie ABOUT feederism, where the characters have the fetish in question, and the plot ensues from there, or do we just want a movie with weight gain IN it, with no acknowledgement of the fetish whatsoever (save for, perhaps, behind the camera, with the director, writers, maybe even the actors)?

Personally I could go either way, beggers can't be choosers, after all. But what do you think?

Enas:
Weeeellll...
There is porn! If it was to be a feederism movie it whould basically be porn. Plus a few extras.

If you want to make an actual movie revolved around feederism ,then you trully need to look around you and see how people are suffering. Because if you trully want to make an actual movie, you should also make one of its goals, the betterment of society. Because it takes human effort and it's for other people to see.

If you want to make people dumber (in the sense that they can't think on an intellectual level) then present them with loud, empty media! And making a feederism movie whould be kinda like this! (just like the FEED - 2005 was a terrible movie!)

So yeah! Bad idea to make a movie revolved around feederism, there is little point to have it even on some corner of the film, let's say. It might be useful, but.. Who knows!

Just do a porn movie xD

Munchies:


A creative you are not.

Good media does not have to have to better society or preach a message to be good. There are plenty of examples of media that try to do that and suck. You also do not need to make porn to make a feedist story. That's a very narrow way to explore sexuality.

For example, you can make a story about a long-term feedist couple and their love story.

The two meet in early adulthood. The one is a business school graduate working as a server in a restaurant. The other is a line cook who wants to be a famous chef with a line of cookbooks. The two get together and try to make the line cook's dream a reality. The business graduate is the manager and taste tester, while the line cook crafts the recipes and makes the dishes.

They fall into a feedist relationship over time. The chef cooks and the manager eats. Food and a metaphor for love would work well here. Bonus points if the manager gets fatter the more successful the chef gets.

Enas:
That's wonderful, but it is revolved about love then!