What to tell friends and family when they comment on your weight/gain?

FatDave:
How observant. Expect me to get even fatter too. Simply put, fast food tastes too fucking good, and I'm way too fucking hungry to diet.


If you're gaining weight the fast food route, you gott supplement it with some healthy foods and maybe a multi-vitamin. You'll deprive yourself of important nutrients otherwise.

Plus, more calories are more calories.
1 year

What to tell friends and family when they comment on your weight/gain?

Ditzy:
Just be honest and tell them stop if they always comment about your weight.
Generally good friends won't say anything to purposely hurt you but may mention you have gained a few pounds.
I don't understand why people these days won't stand up for themselves.
You don't tell other people how to live or they have to be slim do you?
Of course you don't.
Sure I had people tell me I was getting fat I just didn't acknowledge their comments.

Munchies:
From what I can tell, it's always been like this. You got some people who have no problem stand up for themselves. You got some who struggle. That being said, most people online struggle with direct confrontation. So that's why is seems that people these days don't stand up for themselves.

J8o8h8n:
Yeah, I tend to fall into the camp of wanting to be everyone's friend/a people pleaser so that probably plays into me trying to avoid conflict/confrontation.


It's an impossible challenge. What makes one person happy will upset someone else. And you'll just be miserable the whole time.
1 year

I denied myself my sexuality all my life

I used to be thin too. Hated it. Now I'm thick. Enjoy that much more.
1 year

Nonstop buffet binge

Starfish:
We dont have many buffets here in the UK, but there is one which is a 5 minute drive.

I go every now and again and i always fantasize about staying as long as possible and eating as much as possible.

I need to go back its been too long lol

Munchies:
You should! It's only a 5 minute drive away. It's practically a crime not to go!

Starfish:
Oh i agree! They have such amazing dishes, coca cola chicken is a favourite, roast meats, indian, thai, sushi, pizza and a dessert bar!

Its my favourite place, and I need to start going so I can start improving on how many plates i cam finish lol but sadly money is always an issue


Easy fix. Make it a sometimes treat. Squirrel some money away and go to the buffet.
1 year

Gaining by developing a stuffing addiction?

AskDrFeeder:
Based on people I've chatted with, if you stuff to the max more than once a week you're likely to go out of control. E.g. one woman wanted to gain from 130 to 180 pounds. She couldn't gain until she started stuffing herself to the point she couldn't take a deep breath. She did that every day. Then she gained pretty easily. She quit stuffing like that when she got to 180 but was still in the habit of eating a lot and kept on gaining even though she didn't want to. When I chatted with her she weighed around 300 pounds and was still gaining.

J8o8h8n:
So you're saying that it might be a good idea for me to keep at it for a bit and stuff myself more often to increase my appetite and develop a habit of eating more?


Be careful with that. It'll be fun at first but less so as your body struggles to keep up. You risk a slew of things such as digestion issues, high blood pressure, joint pain, ect.

Weight gain is like weight loss. If you do it too fat, you can mess yourself up.

If you want to stuff yourself until you can't breathe, proceed with caution.

My partner and I enjoy extreme weight gain. He's a big guy. A about 470 - 480 ish lbs. He was 407 when we met. He loves it when we go on stuffing sprees. This is when we'd go days or weeks with near constant stuffings. I made sure to give him regular breaks, but it was still hard on his body. He developed a few mild health issues as well.

We've scaled back on doing such long stuffing sessions. He's also eating more healthfully. Once we've fixed all that, he'll go back to gaining for me, but as a slower pace. It's about finding your balance.
1 year

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

Wifestuffer:
Dom feeder, definitely have Tourettes

Like, can't control my volume, singing weird songs and shouting obscenities level


That's interesting. You should make a thread to see if there are other feedists who have Tourettes. But do you have autism? Because that's what this thread is about.
1 year

Cravings developed!

Jd00723:
Hi all,

To be succinct, I recently did a heavy cream gain for about 10 days, a small gain but nothing major yet.

Decided to pause for a day or two but I’ve developed a craving for it now and I really want to keep drinking it a lot. I’m talking a pint at least a day.

I get addiction to things like sugar. But can a body get addicted to fat? Why the cravings all of a sudden? It’s heavy cream but not mixed with anything else.

Any answers would be much appreciated.

Munchies:
You can get addicted to literally anything. If something creates enough dopamine in your brain, you'll want it all the time. Sugar, salt, fat, sour certain textures. The list goes on.

From our previous conversations, it seems that you were really enjoying the heavy cream.

Jd00723:
Thanks Muchies - you’ve proven a fountain of wisdom on all of this ha ha!


😅

Thanks, hun. I just know a lot of things about a lot of things.
1 year

Cravings developed!

Jd00723:
Hi all,

To be succinct, I recently did a heavy cream gain for about 10 days, a small gain but nothing major yet.

Decided to pause for a day or two but I’ve developed a craving for it now and I really want to keep drinking it a lot. I’m talking a pint at least a day.

I get addiction to things like sugar. But can a body get addicted to fat? Why the cravings all of a sudden? It’s heavy cream but not mixed with anything else.

Any answers would be much appreciated.


You can get addicted to literally anything. If something creates enough dopamine in your brain, you'll want it all the time. Sugar, salt, fat, sour certain textures. The list goes on.

From our previous conversations, it seems that you were really enjoying the heavy cream.
1 year

Nonstop buffet binge

Starfish:
We dont have many buffets here in the UK, but there is one which is a 5 minute drive.

I go every now and again and i always fantasize about staying as long as possible and eating as much as possible.

I need to go back its been too long lol


You should! It's only a 5 minute drive away. It's practically a crime not to go!
1 year

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

Stickman66:
Add me to the list.
I think most of us can spot each other because like recognizes like.
All the little things that other people miss, but we don't because that spark of the familiar shows through when so much of the world feels unfamiliar.
I suspect half the reason I got good at RP'ing is just from having to work out how to communicate with the normies.


Heh. I got into creative writing trying to figure out the neurotypicals.
1 year