VincentTurnill:
In my time on Feabie and other social feedism websites, I've found it kind of difficult to find aren't purely sexual. That's not to say I'm not interested completely, being demi-sexual, but it's so hard to find relationships that are more than just the fetish on the websites. It's a personal issue I know, but I'd like to find a relationship that goes beyond just sharing the fetish. I don't know how many people can relate, but after two years and nothing, it's just enough to get you down.

Lovemylard:
I can somewhat relate, except I am not asexual.

But to be fair, regardless of the app, site, location, the type of guy he is, his income, his appearance, his age, his education, his race, his personality style, whether he's a feeder or not, and so on, NO man will ever want a relationship with me. So, whatever.

I am just absolutely loving the free food and fun, being taken to restaurants and nice places I've never been before without having to spend a dime, not even on gas. 😄
Being able to order the most expensive food on the menu, whatever you want, however much you want, without being side-eyed by your date is the main benefit of meeting guys from the feederism community. 😆 Just live it up as if these are your final moments alive!

Fat Daddy:
you look absolutely amazing I'd love to fatten you up and spoil you in person

CookieCrumbs:
No one trust this person. They are rude and insulting and incredibly dumb

FatFalcon:3. This website used to have a lot of gay guys who were into Feederism. But they went to Grommr and Feabie. I hardly ever found my Mr Right in this community. Another thing to add is this website used to have an LGBT forum.



So yes a profile is meaningless if you can’t find your SO.

I am thankful that I found Bigger City for us gay men who are under appreciated.

FatFalcon:
Ignore the haters. If they are screaming to look at their profile then ignore them. You shouldn’t be hated because someone else’s opinion. Just ignore their hate.

Bigs1996:
I’m probably going to get a lot of hate for this post. But everyone I talk to seems to slowly hate me. Been getting a lot of hate being accused of I don’t read people’s profiles, nor do I care about the other person I’m talking to. Been here for awhile, and I’ve been trying to stay positive. But I think I should just not talk anyone.

Obviously there’s something wrong with me if this keeps on happening…

I’m not mad by the way, I’m just sad that I can’t have experiences and relationships in this fetish.

FatCat300:
Has anyone ever been to an all you can eat place for pretty much all day or have gone for multiple days or even weeks. It has always been a fantasy of mine to eat at a buffet every day for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. And maybe meals in-between, in the hopes of getting fatter with each time I go.

Gastonitza:
There is no doubt about it in my mind, there is nothing as thrilling, fulfilling and arousing as witnessing fat being deposited on someone's body, including your own. From subtle changes to unmistakable ballooning. I have been much bigger before, and through various life events, have lost the weight. Coming up to the festive and indulgent season again, I am already gaining weight again, and although everything around us is shouting, stop! The allure of seeing that first little bulge or roll, or the slow but sure tightening of clothing, is intoxicating. We all know about the health implications well enough, but still we deliberately eat to gain body fat. I think I have always been this way, but in later life, with metabolic changes and more sedentary lives, the inevitable fattening happens with relative ease.

What was it for you? That thing that sparked your obsession to get fat or to fatten another? When did you know it, and is it still as exciting now as it was then?

Munchies:
I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.

Gastonitza:
Wobbling, jiggling, shimmering... The swish and sway of fat when a large person moves, is hard not to stare it. I have been busted many times, letting my gaze linger just a little bit too long, when looking on in awe at a beautifully big person walks past or sits nearby in a restaurant. I love the way fat forms rolls and can't be concealed by clothing. It just seems so crazy to feel so attracted to fat and fatness, but it must be something to do with bounty, being plentiful, abundant. Being thick and substantial. There is nothing attractive about a stick insect!