"i'm more than just a gainer"

I've come across the same, though it might simply be that gaining is your strongest connector to that person. I've had very vibrant conversations fizzle when gaining ceases to be a focus of the convo (even if it's not the main focus).
11 years

Any ssbhms looking for a feede

loopytheone wrote:
I was planning on making brownies today anyway but I can certainly add cheesecake to the list of BHM temptations! x3


I'm such a brownie addict, and a cheesecake fanatic. Two of my favorite desserts. Offer me those (pan of one and a whole cake of the other) and I'd be putty in your hands.
11 years

What game are you playing?

I started playing the Mass Effect trilogy. Pretty good so far.
11 years

Fat spread

My fat just settles everywhere. I have huge thighs, fat arms, a jiggling chest, a wobbling belly, and a titanic rear.
11 years

Any ssbhms looking for a feede

The big boys can be a bit timid. You'll just have to tempt us out of hiding with lots of brownies and cheesecake.
11 years

Fenugreek...wow!

So I bought a couple bottles of the "Whole Herb Supplement" tablets. Spring Valley, 610 mg.

I've been taking them since last Thursday and I believe I'm seeing some effect. I've put on a bit of weight. And I've noticed that I get hungry again more quickly after eating.

Seems to be working like they say it should smiley
11 years

Ginger hair / beard trend?

I've got dark hair and a generally dark beard. But some of the hairs in it are blonde and some of them are red. It's kind of strange lol
11 years

Advice

Your weight's for you man. You shouldn't let anyone else dictate it to you.

What I would suggest is putting on maybe 10 to 15 "trial pounds". Once you've gained that weight, take a week or so to feel it out (while not actively trying to gain more weight) and see how you like it.

If you find you like the new weight, I say go for it and put on however much more you feel like you'd want. If not, then 10-15 pounds shouldn't be too hard for you to shed.
11 years

Self control

loopytheone wrote:
BigJay wrote:
I think the whole "uncontrollable hunger" thing is a lot like rape fantasy. An outside force "takes away" all control and consent and forces you into doing something.

However...a rape fantasy is just that, a fantasy. The person who is being "raped" has given consent and is creating an elaborate roleplay.

I don't think any feedee wants to have their appetite be truly uncontrollable, and neither would their feeder. It's just a hot fantasy to play with.


This was the point I was trying to make, far more eloquently than I could have done! The idea of losing control might be hot for some people, but as somebody who has actually been there I can tell you that in reality it is anything but.

On another note, I admit I am kinda horrified by the amount of messages I got after posting in this thread from people who obviously read what I put about having an eating disorder and it being terrible but they still want to fetishise my eating disorder. That is horrible to me, to make a fetish out of somebody being physically and psychologically ill. If you want to binge and gain weight that is hot, but real eating disorders are anything but.


Perfectly said.
11 years