I have been here at least 12 years over all and in the beginning I met some real nice guys but that has changed over the years.
Not a fan of Dr Phil but those videos are right on point about narcissistic people.
You Tube is full of people with narcissistic personality disorder that create channels just so they can talk about themselves and feed their egos.
I know a few people with that disorder and I won't have anything to do with them.

Narcissism is not a positive attribute and its too widespread these days.

I figure if the guy never answers his wife found out he was chatting online with women.
In any case I don't worry about it and could care less.
I have met some really nice guys on here but some real jackasses too.

So sorry you have to go thru that.

You do what you think is right for you.
There is nothing wrong with that at all.
At your age peer pressure can be a powerful thing.
Feeling the need to be a part of something and being accepted is as well.
I got to the point I didn't care about fitting in anywhere I was happy being me.

Never really counted calories.
People that do seem to always get discouraged because their weight doesn't increase as quick as they would like.
They think because they ate this many calories that they will gain X number of pounds.
Science may suggest that just by the numbers but that is not always the case.
Not all humans are the same.

Feel fat every day LOL.

I always hated running even when I was skinny.
If I ran now my flab would probably beat me to death.

Guys with a plump butt and a big belly always get my attention.

When I was 425 I tore the eyelets out of one of those canvas fold up chairs at an outdoor music festival.
It was a nice big heavy duty one too.LOL