Brimstone:
Guilt is such a funny thing- I have been on several sides of this metaphorical fence, and it's really neat to see a variety of answers from many users here as far as things that we all seem to feel concern over ( a partner's wellbeing, what our partners want, etc.); I find when I have an actual romantic attachment to someone, I have a hard time sitting by as they discuss how they might want to lose weight, or how they dislike their body, etc. - I am incredibly supportive, very caring as an individual outside of any relationship setting, and for me the dilemma becomes what I want to say, which is "No"/"You're not doing that", and what I need to say as a supportive friend who wants her partner to be happy. It's caused me a fair amount of distress in the past, but for me the gratification comes out of a sadistic paraphilia - so in essence, the exertion, physical pain, and negative consequences & daily struggling are the main components to sexual gratification for myself personally LOL.

And the nature obviously of a paraphilia is that there is either distress caused by the atypical sexual ideation due to social stigma, personal conflict, or the distress of others - to which I definitely fall into the diagnostic criteria lol. When I don't have the friendship association or, "relationship" quotient with someone I am taken with, or if they are genuinely masochistic and love all of the exact same aspects of their weight gain and subsequent suffering or difficulty as I do, I don't care at all LOL. It's a bit of a slippery slope, however - and I'm a psychosexual weirdo/total predator for the willingly defenceless lmao. But I guess I can turn it off, can't turn it off, live with it, and also do all of the above at once?

I'm rambling lol ! I'll shut up now.

aho:
THIS. I care about my partner's health because I romantically love him and want to spend my life with him (I don't want him to die an early death). He also cares about his heath and I respect that.
I feel though, if I began a relationship hypothetically with a feedee that truly wanted to gain to a much higher weight with higher health consequences and they didn't care, or if I had a sexual and non romantic relationship with a feedee, I would definitely enjoy the sadistic aspects of them struggling to catch their breath, workout, fit in clothes, etc.
I'll fantasize about my partner being 600 pounds but because I respect his boundaries and love him by my side, I'll settle for slightly chubby and use my imagination for the rest haha.
The struggle of being a ffa.

OnyxStar:
My fantasies involve caging somebody and really forcing a lot of food without activity so they get bigger and bigger. The only way to get "free time" out of the cage is to clear ALL of the food from a huge plate/bowl - oh yeah, they have to eat like an animal.

I really like both roles, in and out of the cage, I have always wished I could be the one or one of the ONES in the cage, initially they would be given some clothes like scrubs or bondage attire that is fitted and not given anything else so they can spill out of them - it would only be one person to a cage though. I would love to be"forced" into that situation... oh what would I do When they are out the "captives" would be highly spoiled for their good behaviour - food would also be involved in the reward.

Jinx Cole:
So my question is, where do you all feel that line is? I'm always a little apprehensive when it comes to teasing (even when they say they like it) because I don't want to come off as a generic dork or an abusive prick.

Maleficent:
I guess that this is something that is actually very common for a lot of us on here. To find someone with the same Fetish as you is incredibly rare in any relationship - everything involves a little give and take. I like to be as open as possible in relationships about what I 'like' and 'how' I like it but I get that sometimes that makes things either a little awkward or difficult. But, it can be fun just to try! I once for example had a partner who was wonderful but sexually we didn't match - at all! Especially in regards of quirks shall we say: what he wanted me to do as a turn on for him could not have been more of a turn of for me! Of course there always has to be compromise.

So, what am I getting at here? I guess I'm saying that I know that it's sexually frustrating not matching or not getting exactly what it is that you want in bed from a relationship. But, sometimes that's just what happens. I'm in a really lucky position in that I've found someone now who matches me with regards to allowing me to stuff him. Yet it's important that it's not the only deciding factor: unless you're just looking for someone to have sex with once I would highly recommend connecting with someone on a human level. I get a lot of guys on this site (and I'm sure you all can sympathize with me at some level) messaging me wanting to just jump into talking sexually to me, or asking "Will you be my feeder?" or telling me about how they're gaining. It's like fabulous but I like to actually have a bit of a connection with someone at a human level - let me see you as a person and as a potential partner and then I will be much more receptive to feeding you.

So, the real crux of this incredibly long ramble is: as exciting as it is to find someone who finally shares your sexual preferences be careful not to focus your search so that it's /just/ that which you have in common, because trust me that is just as bad as not being fully sexually satisfied! Chat to people, get to know them beyond the full belly thing etc!

feedmeorifeedyou:
I'm young and a girl and pretty sporty sometimes but more recently i started to stuff myself regularly and realised i liked being teased after a few comment after meals with others. If you want to tease me or anything PM me

bigbelly98:
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Yindy:
My fantasy is a bit cliche. I'm a female feedee who fantasizes about a very dominant male feeder. He would be loving and attentive but also want to fatten me. Sometimes by hand, sometimes by a tube forcing sweet creams down my throat, not giving me time to swallow before they pressure has forced its way into my stomach. While that happens, he's pleasuring me- either with a vibrator or with oral sex. Through this I connect being stuffed with sexual pleasure and need to have my belly stuffed in order to get off (like palov's dog) And he can't keep his hands and tongue off my growing fat, making sure I know how he loves my growing body. He would need to be very persuasive and make me want to gain to please him.

aho:
So my partner has started gaining. In December he was 6 pack abs, muscular guy at about 190 pounds, 6 feet...hit the gym daily. Now, 7 months later, he is 212, no abs, and the beginnings of a small gut. He is snacking constantly and probably consuming like 4000 calories on a good day, but his average gain is like .7 pounds a week.

So I guess my question is-did you start to gain faster after losing some muscle, and how did your metabolism change over time?
Does this seem like an average rate of gain? Did your gain speed up, or slow down, as you got fatter?