I really don't think I would. I do have my wavering moments (mainly when something I really like and want to wear doesn't fit), but I really don't think there's anything weird or wrong with it. I see too many good-looking bhm to think there is anything wrong with it.
9 years
august:
Do you have your own money for groceries? If you don't have a job and have to rely on eating their food, it will be much more difficult to gain.
Fattlover:
Yes i do but they are super overprotective and they will notice it when i buy unhealty stuff.
You can get fat on plenty of healthy stuff. Just eat a lot of it: pasta, potatoes, rice, oatmeal, bread, cheese and other dairy, lots of oil and croutons in salads. When you're out by yourself or with friends go on a junk food rampage.
9 years
LurkerTemporarily:
As someone uncertain about packing on the weight what made you finally want to go through with it? What was the "breaking point"?
Not asking for convincing or anything, but just curious. I'm only uncertain about whether to go through with it due to the social reasons. If my family and co-workers wouldn't look at my differently then I would already be stuffing XD
I don't worry about coworkers because a lot of my coworkers are very fat. My family is judgemental about everything (because they are perfect, you know), so I just avoid them.
I've always struggled to keep my weight down but once I eliminated any societal concerns, realized there are too many bhm out there for there to be anything wrong with being fat, I went with it.
The fatter and softer I get, seeing the scale and tape measure creep up, the more I'm driven to gain.
9 years
Most of the time I draw first blood by joking about my belly, how hard I'm working for it, and referring to myself in the 3rd person, usually as "fat boy". It always gets a laugh... with, not at me.
My sister and nieces are another story. They have no qualms about making cutting remarks in front of other people. I began distancing myself from my family even before I starting gaining.
9 years
I've never had a feeder, but the idea is becoming increasingly attractive.
Getting, being and looking fat feels great. I love food and I love to eat. It's becoming a goal and a challenge to get fatter. Especially with every pound or inch I increase by. It helps to envision myself bigger, and what I want to look like.
9 years
chubbynate:I've gotten bigger around and more bottom heavy...
I hope it has that effect on me. I would like to get more fat on my butt and hips to balance out my belly, not to mention getting more moobish.
9 years
Ohudidntkno:
what heavy cream do you guys use? i want to try and add this to a shake with ice cream and milk, what brand if you dont mind me asking
I use the store brand of whatever store I happen to be at.
9 years
masabear:Wow, sounds like these people will use anything as an excuse to take a jab at you. What a miserable bunch of jerks.
MarshmallowMinotaur:It's bullying when you really think about it. One sister says "oh get over it" or "lighten up", the other says (proudly) that they do it to my niece (her own daughter!) too. So classy. 🙄
masabear:That poor girl, and then they are gonna give her crap later when she has no self esteem and then if she decides to get help for that they'll attack her for getting help.
The thing is that she doesn't have a lot of self esteem to begin with, never did. I might add she's always been overweight too, and recently got out of an emotionally abusive marriage with a bully. Her ex is overweight but made fun if her. She and I probably relate the best of all.
I guess I'm not stating anything new that this is the kind of prejudice and abuse we will face. Gotta take it in stride.
9 years
CallBR549:
Yep, heavy cream at 3200 calories per quart is hard to beat. Add some sugar to that and you have the perfect fattener!
chubbynate:
When I visit the food store I buy a quart of cream for every pound I want to gain and I consider the ice cream related calories as a bonus.
So, you'd just use up 1 or 2 quarts spread out over the week, adding it to whatever else? I've been adding about 2 oz. to a glass of whole milk to punch up the calories.
9 years
masabear:
Wow, sounds like these people will use anything as an excuse to take a jab at you. What a miserable bunch of jerks.
It's bullying when you really think about it. One sister says "oh get over it" or "lighten up", the other says (proudly) that they do it to my niece (her own daughter!) too. So classy. 🙄
9 years
