Damn Straight!

May 29

lol, if you can't get honest, helpful advice on quick and easy weightgain in the weightgain section of a fat positive site, you can't get it anywhere.

Enjoy!

Man, it sounds like you're one open and honest conversation away from a totally awesome mutual gaining relationship.

lol gainerism, never heard it called that, I like it.

It’s really up to you, although it certainly helps that you are now in a situation that allows you more freedom then you had before.

You could always do what is often suggested to new gainers, gain a small amount and see how you feel about it and then decide where to go to from there.

Also you could try planning out the fantasy as if you would go ahead with it. Think about things like how much you would gain, if you'd have a goal weight, paying for bigger clothes and the food to gain, not to mention dealing with the reactions of friends and family.

Speaking of which, there is one thing that you mentioned that concerns me:



I know I don't know the situation, but I think you need to teach your fiancé about this if you intend to pursue it along side a relationship with her.

It’s great that she didn't freak or anything, but that reaction leads me to believe that she seems to have very stereotypical views about fat and fat people.

I'd just be worried about going ahead with it, thinking that she’s ok with it when she doesn’t fully comprehend what it’s all about. That leaves the risk of her freaking out later when you’re married and bigger which would be a tragedy.

Anyways, there is no need to rush into things; you got your whole life, and now the freedom, to do what you want. Experiment, test your boundaries, see what you like and what you don’t. Just please make sure your fiancé understands that any increase in your weight won’t automatically effect your hygiene and/or personality lol.

This thread reminded me of this other thread:

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/view-thread.php

Or more specifically:

Kid A wrote:

Msprettypanties wrote:
I think my first time was funny. I hope he (an ff member)doesn't get mad that im sharing. He fed me cold cornbread. It was awkward for me. I spent the next few minutes coughing and sipping water.

Thank you so much for this post. I am still laughing with tears. My first one was with cold refried beans and I had dry mouth. How do you swallow refried beans when your mouth is parched?! I dont blame him, I should have known better too.

lol, fail feeders are fail.

I'll take one of those too if someones giving them out.

Stop perpetuating a false stereotype of us.

I know how you feel man, it takes a bit to get your head around it.