JN_TumLover56:
Hey fellas, I didn’t mean to make everyone upset. And I’m sorry for making everyone triggered about what I said. But at the same time it kinda did made be now more aware that I can’t always go with the wind. 👍
I know that I am better than this and I will try to do what I can in supporting and defending plus size people. After all I do still believe in body positivity/liberation after all.
Morbidly A Beast:
That’s big of you and I get it. I’d just remember that the people who you find attractive have to live in their bodies everyday and what seems like nothing to you is a pretty sizable part of their self image. I don’t think you would abandon your SO in the face of ridicule it’s just that I don’t see an effective difference in shying away from fat positivity and advocacy in online spaces, and abandoning an SO in the same sense.
Thanks for understanding. And yeah I would never abandon a significant other for anything related with the topic that we’re talking about. I’m pretty much loyal until the relationship is over.
3 years
Hey fellas, I didn’t mean to make everyone upset. And I’m sorry for making everyone triggered about what I said. But at the same time it kinda did made be now more aware that I can’t always go with the wind. 👍
I know that I am better than this and I will try to do what I can in supporting and defending plus size people. After all I do still believe in body positivity/liberation after all.
3 years
JN_TumLover56:
Well I am a content creator myself. And if some people find out that I’m into plus size women then I might try to find a way to pretty much use my platform for saying that I am what I am attracted and find beauty towards.
But when it comes to the whole fetish thing it will more than likely ruin my reputation. Especially since the whole body positivity/liberation is no longer relevant than what it used to be, and there’s literally so much hatred (and health concern-like-talking-down) everywhere you go on social media when you find any content related to BoPo. So sadly I wouldn’t want to go through that hell of people accusing me of “destroying people’s lives/health”.
Unless if one day the modern or future culture finally gets some peace towards diversity and equality. I sadly don’t want to put myself in jeopardy when the online world (outside of this site) now thinks plus size is wrong.
Munchies:
Speaking as a marginalized person, I have more respect for outwardly bigoted individuals than people who make virtue signaling posts about how they would speak up for marginalized groups if it was safe to do so.
I'm not saying you have to be a vocal ally. I understand from personal experience how it can be hard - even scary. But it's pretty gross of you to think that saying people (not even just women) should be treated like people is too "controversial."
Yeah sorry if I came off a little bit blunt. Just one of those moments when I was typing what I was feeling. I do treat people regardless of size and shape with respect. It’s just sometimes the online world can be pretty harsh sometimes.
3 years
Well I am a content creator myself. And if some people find out that I’m into plus size women then I might try to find a way to pretty much use my platform for saying that I am what I am attracted and find beauty towards.
But when it comes to the whole fetish thing it will more than likely ruin my reputation. Especially since the whole body positivity/liberation is no longer relevant than what it used to be, and there’s literally so much hatred (and health concern-like-talking-down) everywhere you go on social media when you find any content related to BoPo. So sadly I wouldn’t want to go through that hell of people accusing me of “destroying people’s lives/health”.
Unless if one day the modern or future culture finally gets some peace towards diversity and equality. I sadly don’t want to put myself in jeopardy when the online world (outside of this site) now thinks plus size is wrong.
3 years
Well as a belly lover myself I certainly love it too. But I’m totally okay with it someone has thicker thighs as well. Sometimes it goes well with the belly too!
3 years
How about something like wrestling? I mean there’s all sorts of people who are in all sorts of shapes and sizes in the WWE or AEW.
3 years
This is a good question. But what I can say from my personal experience is yes, it does matter to me.
As much as I like the sexual tension of worshiping one’s belly. I still want to have a trusting relationship with that person. As well as the communication of when to stop and the encouragement to keep going.
It’s also why I prefer to be close friends or better a lover. As much as this is a fetish and a business in a way, we are all people in the end of the day.
3 years
I guess if some people either got in trouble with another user or just moved on with their lives, they would just vanish.
3 years
I’ve done it in the past before. It’s definitely quite something! Though every belly button is different and not all of them would be big enough to fit in??
Though at least having your tongue do the work is always fun with any belly button. 😜
3 years
Well as you can tell from my username; I’ve always been a belly person. Don’t get me wrong thighs are nice to look at and feel every once in awhile. But bellies are my thing.
5 years
