Have you ever gotten off simply by playing with your belly?

Here's a fun fact. Your lower stomach - specifically the space between your navel and your mons - is an erogenous zone. Try teasing and massaging that area on a stuffed belly. It'll feel amazing.
2 months

Favorite easy fattening snacks?

Karenjenk:
cheapest brownie mix you can find.
extra oil
extra whole milk or cream
no eggs
mix well and freeze

if you get the right amounts of liquid it wont freeze solid and is more like ice cream.

also good for funnelling


Just wanna add on here that raw flour products can have traces of salmonella or e. coli. Cooking the flour usually circumvents it. But if you do decide to raw dog it, double check that whatever box mix you have has not been impacted buy any safety recalls. Can't vouch for other countries, but America has been having a lot of those lately.

Most stores tend to be good about getting rid of bad lots once the recall's been issued. As such, the real danger is using that old box of mix you got a while back and have just decided to use.
2 months

Design you dom or sub/ feeder or feedee

PlumpLilPet:
I'm not sure if as a result of my recent post here or maybe because of my profile that someone on this website thought it was appropriate to email me over and over, commanding me to submit to him. When I finally told him simply that "I'm not interested," he responded, "stop teasing everyone."
I wasn't aware that I had done any such thing. I believe I'm allowed to express my personal fantasies and desires.
I have been in a BDSM relationship in the past and I have been part of the BDSM community in NYC and Philly. I have been to SM clubs and partiers and met real life Dominants and submissives, both male and female. A Dominant doesn't just start ordering a submissive around. They introduce themselves and talk to them like a normal human being and then discuss any personal possibilities. If anyone thought I was teasing that was not my intention, but if you are a real dominant then you should know how to conduct yourself. Stalking is not the answer.
I think I'm right about this. I'd appreciate hearing anyone else's opinion on the matter.


It's nothing you did. Some people just suck.

I'm very open about my status of being a domme, and some assholes will still try to force me into being a sub because I am a woman. I know female subs and they have it even worse.

Still, I encourage you to message admin about it. You can send them an email with screenshots at team@fantasyfeeder.com
2 months

Who would be most surprised to see your weight gain?

Person12670:
I often fantasize about this. I would love to see reactions from two ex-girlfriends in particular. I was thin, fit and exercised a ton when I dated them. I was 75 lbs lighter than my recent max. One of them often said she didnt want her man to ever get so "huge" as 250 lbs... but thats exactly what I did. If I saw her, she would comment immediately but probably be sort of intrigued and playful about it. My other ex would be way more judgemental and probably gasp in disgust, especially since i put about 50 lbs on in the year after breaking up haha. I lived near her, so I used to walk around in outgrown clothes hoping to bump into her. She even hated that i put on 5-10 lbs while we were dating and wanted me to lose weight, so I suspect she will also think that she dodged a bullet getting away from this fatty.

Glitter Jelly:
I'm actually worried to accidentally bump into my ex since I've gained weight.

At the beginning of our relationship 6-7 years ago I was 30 lbs lighter than I am today, and since the breakup I gained close to 20 lbs, which are very noticeable on my 5'1" frame.

There are some clothes I can't let go (3 corduroy overalls especially) and I've been hoping to stretch them by wearing them.

I'm not sure it's working, because even though they are mostly made of cotton they contain like 3-5% of spandex. They seem to go back to their unstretched shape as soon as I take them off. T_T

In the meantime, tight as they are (my thighs look like sausages in casings and the fabric is visibly pulling everywhere but especially around my midsection), I'm painfully aware they are not the most flattering look for me right now so I don't wear them in public.


Here's the cool thing about ex's:

Their opinions don't matter. They can think whatever they want, but their opinion of you does not matter unless you let it matter. Don't let a possible interaction that never happened steal your joy from you.
2 months

Expecting pants to fit - and they don’t

Closetgainer:
I’ve ripped a pair of jeans and two pajama bottoms since quarantine. I’ve gone from size 8 jeans to a snug 12. (20+ pounds gained.)

I’ve been a size 6-8 my whole life and am having a hard time saying goodbye to all the clothes I’ve accumulated over the years. But the new belly and softness is...nice. Not sure I’m ready to give them up.

Glitter Jelly:
I find it so hard to accept it when I outgrow clothes but pants are particularly unforgiving.


Look at sizing up as an opportunity to find new cute clothes. It certainly helped me when I had to size up. Also, certain fits, cuts, and materials are more forgiving than others. SO you may be able to keep certain things for a bit longer.
2 months

Health challenges

Hectoplasm:
I get regular blood tests due to unrelated reasons than gaining. If the doctor ever tells me anything like my cholesterol or blood sugar really is too high I will absolutely stop this for good. My health is too important to me to lose over a fetish.

TBC I'm not saying anyone else must do this. Just that I already have some "health" related issues (autoimmune) and don't want more to deal with.

It would be hard to finally say goodbye to the fetish completely because I don't think it truly completely goes away, but I lived for many years without gaining, so could do it again, though I know I wouldn't like my stick-body I'd have again.


In my experience, the best way to get fat and stay fat is to be mindful of how you gain and monitor your health. This way you can avoid the worst health issues while monitoring any milder health issues you can live with.

This also means if anything more serious pops up, making adjustments usually won't be drastic.
2 months

A question regarding sexuality and feederism

Vick:
Hey all, I just had to express a weird quirk I've always had with the hope that others may be able to relate to and/or have some answers for. I've been into feederism, weight gain, fat in general all my life, but I feel disgusted by NSFW and pornography, and have no desire whatsoever for sex or anything related. Does that make me asexual? I feel like it doesn't because I'm still attracted to the fetish, but I don't know what I'd call that... It'd just be nice to know if I'm not alone in that regard.
Thanks ^^


Ace people are in pretty much every kink and fetish. And what is kink if not a niche adult hobby?

I mean, at the end of the day, feedism is about eating a lot of food and maybe getting fat. If that's not aro/ace friendly, idk what is.
2 months

I wanted to get it on with my boyfriend, but he doesn't know about my fetishes

Sla007:
I've always wanted to inflate, stuff myself or even enjoy my belly with him. However, he doesn't know that I have these fetishes and I'm ashamed of them. He likes fat men, and so do I, but that doesn't mean anything even though we're chubby, and I don't know what to do because I want to try it with him, but at the same time, saying that I'm attracted to putting air in my ass and watching my belly grow is strange... What do I do?


Sounds harsh, but you gotta pluck up your courage and tell him. Maybe he'll be into it. Maybe not. But you'll never know until you give him a chance.

I have fetishes that my partner does not share. He'll indulge me on some. Others are a hard no. But he still loves and accepts me anyway.
2 months

Fat and insulin

Delta9:
There is a theory that fat cells won't grow in the absence of insulin, which is of course our body's natural response to sugars.
So theoretically you could eat a high fat, very low carb diet and have difficulty storing any of those extra fat calories.

Was wondering if any of our heavy cream drinkers have tried something like this or could confirm anecdotally. Would be an interesting experiment to only consume fats for several days.

Munchies:
Don't do that. A fat only diet will have a laxative effect. Also a high fat, low carb diet is just keto.

Delta9:
I'm sure someone has already done it. I just want to know what happened.

Munchies:
Hun, I said what I said. Don't encourage people to kill themselves.

Delta9:
Munchies, you must be the biggest person on here just by your ego alone. How anyone can constantly try to play the morality hall monitor on a site and community that literally praises people for being unhealthy is beyond me.
Asking people about their experiences for educational purposes is hardly encouraging them to kill themselves.
If you don't have anything to contribute to a thread, then why respond? Discourse and disagreement is fine. But you constantly try to shame people out of participating in conversations and topics. Be as offended as you want, just do it without trying to bully everyone else in the forums.


Lmao! Man, I ain't even being mean to you.

There's asking people about their experiences (perfectly fine) and then there is encouraging people to put themselves in harms way for an experiment.

Besides, I answered your question in my first post. The answer to your question is very well studied and documented. If handled carefully, a high fat, low carb diet is keto. If handled poorly, you shit your pants for days.

And if you are a diabetic, you go to the hospital.
2 months

Fat and insulin

FAMGM:
Yes, I basically was doing that when I was attempting to gain and didn’t realise I was diabetic.

I was taking in 10,000 cal per day and losing weight.

It was really, *really* awful.

Munchies:
Ironically, a symptom of out of control diabetes is weight loss

FAMGM:
Precisely. I diagnosed it myself when it suddenly occurred to me, “perhaps this is diabetes”, and borrowed a friend’s blood glucose monitor. The reading was too high for the device to measure.

It’s all under control now.


Oh wow! I am so happy you figured it out and have it under control.
2 months