Malvineous:
Out of curiosity, I did a search on Feabie for women who like men who are "chubby with a belly", and got 7,793 results out of a total 19,424 women who like men in general, making it 40.1% of the total.
I repeated the same search on Grommr for men seeking men with the same body type. It returned 23,921 out of a total of 50,186, or 47.6%.
OP does have a point. Not only is the percentage higher for men by almost 8 points, but the gap between 7K women and 23K men is huge. It's no surprise that more men are in these communities than women, and combine that with women generally not making the first move and being more cautious than men online, and they're going to feel rare in comparison.
I'm not sure that those are the most accurate/scientific comparisons. The sites seem to have different cultures which could sway the way people use them. Interesting though?
Is there a reason you chose that "chubby with a belly" category instead of something bigger like the OP was talking about? He asked about obese men.
1 year
Let's call the derail over and move back to the original topic of the thread, if anyone else has anything to add. OP, I think it's safe to say that both men and women can be, and are, attracted to men of all sizes, including obese men.
1 year
I'm going to keep this thread stickied for a bit longer, there might still be some folks who are wrapping up stories.
Thanks to everyone for playing and reading (and I promise to finish mine soon).
Do you want to just run the same theme through the end of May and give more people a chance to participate?
1 year
Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.
Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.
Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.
Letters And Numbers:
If I'm interpreting correctly, he might be talking about his own personal experience, which is anecdotal, but a valid thing to talk about. No need to be rude. Not everyone always expresses themselves super clearly.
Munchies:
I'm not being rude. I am being very blunt.
When you say things like this, it feeds into the narrative that women only like guys with a 6 pack. This is hardly true, and it paints women as vain and men who are not fit as being straight out of luck.
And in fat fetish places where there is already a narrative among men that most women on here only want women, it's not great.
Also, OP is not a man. Not sure if they are still using they/them pronouns tho.
Ask for clarification if you are confused by what another user is saying, please.
1 year
Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.
Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.
Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.
If I'm interpreting correctly, they might be talking about his own personal experience, which is anecdotal, but a valid thing to talk about. No need to be rude. Not everyone always expresses themselves super clearly.
(sorry if I misgendered, misterelephant, the username threw me)
1 year
Hiccupx:The issue on iPhone with video thumbnails not displaying and videos not playing should now be fixed

If you are still experiencing problems please let me know.
Letters And Numbers:I found another iOS display issue. Not video thumbnails, but if you go to the Stories page, it doesn’t display any of the featured stories. This doesn’t happen on desktop. I’m using safari on iOS.
Hiccupx:Please could you post the URL for this page and I'll look into it.
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/weight-gain
1 year
Hiccupx:The issue on iPhone with video thumbnails not displaying and videos not playing should now be fixed

If you are still experiencing problems please let me know.
I found another iOS display issue. Not video thumbnails, but if you go to the Stories page, it doesn’t display any of the featured stories. This doesn’t happen on desktop. I’m using safari on iOS.
1 year
Will this story be posted in this thread or posted up as a real story?
1 year
PurpleJade:
Oh boy… I’m definitely getting caught in it.
Almost done with the 3rd chapter with 1 more left, definitely cutting it close but I’m down for the challenge.
Don’t worry about hitting the end of the month, just post when it’s finished. Or if you feel like posting a chapter or two as a teaser, do it!
Or if you like the pressure of a deadline, YOU HAVE SIX DAYS!!!!
1 year