WideJuan76:
We all have had those feelings and that is why most of us are fat because we surround ourselves with comfort foods and they release dopamine and serotonin so our brains just go on autopilot and we can't stop ourselves
NYCBlimp:
Good 411 regarding dopamine and serotonin as that does explain a lot along with the emotional connection to food that some experience as well.
Anytime playa, those of us who have waddled into the obese sunken place have to realize that at the core of this; we are addicts. We are addicted to the taste of food, to how the flavor sets off our neuro pathways like a drug and we love that feeling so much that being full is like overdosing but all we get from it is that we grow a fupa and we can't fit through doorways or we grow a gut that slaps our thighs when we try to walk. 🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽
5 years
thatlost1:
What sounds like you need to find a partner that embraces your eating habits and someone to cheer you up after the feasts.
HungryAndConfused:
I have a partner who is not into it. It would be for my own pleasure if I were to get fatter.
If they were into it I'd be massive I bet
WideJuan76:
Then you might have to start seeing a future with someone who is into it. That is easier said than done but your frustrations will only get worse.
HungryAndConfused:
I dont know if it's worth ruining my whole life over a fetish that I may get over one day.
You don't have to ruin your life. You are self conscious about liking fat and that is normal. If you don't want to get too fat then don't; you can always dream about it through visualizations.
5 years
We all have had those feelings and that is why most of us are fat because we surround ourselves with comfort foods and they release dopamine and serotonin so our brains just go on autopilot and we can't stop ourselves
5 years
I had no issues with that until I kept bumping into things and I have never been the clumsy type. But when it kept happening then I had to face the fact that I take up way more space and I have to account for that because I kept seeing myself as not that fat. But I knew I was fat when I broke a lawn chair
5 years
thatlost1:
What sounds like you need to find a partner that embraces your eating habits and someone to cheer you up after the feasts.
HungryAndConfused:
I have a partner who is not into it. It would be for my own pleasure if I were to get fatter.
If they were into it I'd be massive I bet
Then you might have to start seeing a future with someone who is into it. That is easier said than done but your frustrations will only get worse.
5 years
HungryAndConfused:
I've been into this fetish for years but never actually went through with it.
I'll eat alot and be super horny for a few days and then I never continue because I feel super ashamed and not sure I actually wanna go through with it. I know it's not a passing thing because I've been fantasizing about weight gain for years and havent gotten over it. I wish I wasn't like this, or had the balls to gain. Hate being stuck in the middle.
WideJuan76:
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how you have been taught that getting fat is crazy and that feels embarrassing but there is way through that because I felt the same thing before I went all in
HungryAndConfused:
So once you became fat, how did things change for you mentally?
WideJuan76:
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way more as you walk plus the fact that your walk has germinated into a waddle.
HungryAndConfused:
So accepting things as your new normal, ok, so maybe if I gained a bit of weight I could try and see if it becomes normal
Try it for yourself. Just imagine what it would look and feel like to be exactly how you see yourself in your imagination. Wouldn't that feel amazing not having to hide that ?
5 years
HungryAndConfused:
I've been into this fetish for years but never actually went through with it.
I'll eat alot and be super horny for a few days and then I never continue because I feel super ashamed and not sure I actually wanna go through with it. I know it's not a passing thing because I've been fantasizing about weight gain for years and havent gotten over it. I wish I wasn't like this, or had the balls to gain. Hate being stuck in the middle.
WideJuan76:
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how you have been taught that getting fat is crazy and that feels embarrassing but there is way through that because I felt the same thing before I went all in
HungryAndConfused:
So once you became fat, how did things change for you mentally?
WideJuan76:
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way more as you walk plus the fact that your walk has germinated into a waddle.
HungryAndConfused:
So accepting things as your new normal, ok, so maybe if I gained a bit of weight I could try and see if it becomes normal
You have to train your mind into slowly becoming that. I used meditation to help with that. Every day, I would lay back and visualize myself in that newer way until my brain had no choice to evolve and follow.
5 years
HungryAndConfused:
I've been into this fetish for years but never actually went through with it.
I'll eat alot and be super horny for a few days and then I never continue because I feel super ashamed and not sure I actually wanna go through with it. I know it's not a passing thing because I've been fantasizing about weight gain for years and havent gotten over it. I wish I wasn't like this, or had the balls to gain. Hate being stuck in the middle.
WideJuan76:
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how you have been taught that getting fat is crazy and that feels embarrassing but there is way through that because I felt the same thing before I went all in
HungryAndConfused:
So once you became fat, how did things change for you mentally?
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way more as you walk plus the fact that your walk has germinated into a waddle.
5 years
supergirl:
Question for the fatties who started out small - when did you (or someone else) notice that you started to waddle? I am curious how different people experience it.
Just recently my girlfriend commented that I waddled. Now, I don't normally waddle, it was just a few steps, an isolated incident - and I am not *that* big (about 275 lbs).
I know an ex of mine had a constant waddle at 350 lbs, but a previous ex wasn't really waddling at all and he was well over 400 lbs, so it is not just a size thing. It's got something to do with how you carry your weight, your build, and maybe your fitness too.
I didn't start waddling until I started to feel my thighs fully touch and my gut dropped into my lap and the fuda didn't help either but the transitional sensations were the best
5 years
HungryAndConfused:
I've been into this fetish for years but never actually went through with it.
I'll eat alot and be super horny for a few days and then I never continue because I feel super ashamed and not sure I actually wanna go through with it. I know it's not a passing thing because I've been fantasizing about weight gain for years and havent gotten over it. I wish I wasn't like this, or had the balls to gain. Hate being stuck in the middle.
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how you have been taught that getting fat is crazy and that feels embarrassing but there is way through that because I felt the same thing before I went all in
5 years
