Sneederid:
Read through and it’s well explained, thanks for the insight. Why do you think it sticks when people don’t immediately lose it naturally?

Trying to gage wether it’s a good idea for those dipping their toe into gaining

C00kie:
A couple of days ago I had a discussion in the chat with some folks about the chat leaks that happen. Those in the chat decided that compiling some data would be helpful in finding out when and why this happens to see if there are patterns, and figure out how to fix the issue:

The easiest way collect the data would be to submit this to us on the site as and when it happens. To keep things private such as details about browsers and such, rather than posting all details here, it would be best to make an abuse report against FF Team Profile and copy the form / info below and fill it out.

I can then transfer this over to a program and do some data mining once we get enough reports.

Please submit an abuse report on the FF Team profile: Click Here

With the following details:

Time of chat leak:
Your time zone: (For example England is BST British Summer Time).
Browser and version:
Using Mobile, Table, Desktop:
Using Mobile Data or Wifi:
Description of what happened immediately before, and after / what were your actions in the chat, what did you click on, were there any errors?:
For example:
* Did the chat automatically change to general before you sent the dm?
* Did you submit your dm in private chat and then chat changed to general?
* Is the dm shown in both private and general chat?
* Were you thrown into a private chat?
* Did the chat crash, freeze or have a blank screen when it happened or near to when the chat leak happened?
* Did your internet disconnect from mobile data or wifi?

Please also include anything else you can think of that you feel might be helpful?

Morbidly A Beast:
I went to the doctors today it was just a normal check up but I got weighed in, turns out I’m up to 426 the topic of my weight came up when the nurse weighed me she assumed I weighed less than I did and was super apologetic when she read the number outloud, I just shrugged it off like nothing but I was quite amazed how much over 400 I am haha I remember when I just crossed 300

then again when the doctor came in, mentioned how I’m up 50 pounds from my last visit expressed concern asked what I’ve been doing and I was just honest about it, I just said how I love to eat and eat a lot and how work takes almost all my energy and how I actually don’t mind being fat. He said my weight isn’t a problem, for now (hey plus points for being educated) but he recommended me a dietician (again) and said he wants me back more often for regular checkups.

also I could not for the life of me fit into any of my sweatshirts from the spring this morning 🙈they are 3XL my belly poked out the bottom of all of em ☺️

Munchies:
Sooo ...
When the scale you got way back when suggested you were over 400 lbs, it might have been true. 🤭

There's no harm in seeing a dietitian. My partner has one, and she's been helpful. She's fat friendly and takes the time to listen to him. Her focus is health, not weight loss.

My partner is looking more vibrant and feeling more energetic since he's started seeing her.

Morbidly A Beast:
Im not sure what kind of rink a dink thing happened with that scale im fine not owning one im not about to spend 400 dollars for one haha do you guys have a high end scale?

Yeah I will be seeing the dietician I think what kind of information does she give him?

Morbidly A Beast:
I went to the doctors today it was just a normal check up but I got weighed in, turns out I’m up to 426 the topic of my weight came up when the nurse weighed me she assumed I weighed less than I did and was super apologetic when she read the number outloud, I just shrugged it off like nothing but I was quite amazed how much over 400 I am haha I remember when I just crossed 300

then again when the doctor came in, mentioned how I’m up 50 pounds from my last visit expressed concern asked what I’ve been doing and I was just honest about it, I just said how I love to eat and eat a lot and how work takes almost all my energy and how I actually don’t mind being fat. He said my weight isn’t a problem, for now (hey plus points for being educated) but he recommended me a dietician (again) and said he wants me back more often for regular checkups.

also I could not for the life of me fit into any of my sweatshirts from the spring this morning 🙈they are 3XL my belly poked out the bottom of all of em ☺️

Stranger122:
It's ex's and ohs by Elle King but I would love to hear the foot ball version

Nofbar:
Football (US) coaches will often go over plays with the team before the game. The plays are drawn on a chalk/white board with X's representing "us" and O's representing players on the other team.

Softcutie:
On tumblr “soft feedism” is the term most used to describe this.

I’m curious as to understanding the continuum of kink that seems like many kinks have a spectrum that ranges from creation and celebration to ruination.

Munchies:
Kink is a very fluid thing. But I've noticed that there are some general archetypes.

Non-gaining feedism: No desire to gain weight
Classic feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed)
Extreme feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed) as much as possible without severe health issues
Ruination feedism: Desire to be fed/feed and fatten(ed) regardless of or in service to health issues.

Technically, feedism as we understand it is two fetishes merged into one: fat fetish and feeding fetish. Then there are the satellite fetishes - things that aren't feedism but are feedist adjacent. Examples include but are not limited to:

- Food
- Bellies
- Expansion
- Transformation
- Vore

A lot of people view feedism through a BDSM lens - even if they aren't into BDSM. I won't say it's a bad thing. BDSM is a very popular fetish, and it pairs well with everything. However, I think it's also a limiting view. There's nothing wrong with enjoying soft feedism, but there is so much more than soft vs hard feedism.

ForeverFFA:
So well put. I find that categories can be limiting, in that most people check more than one box even if they choose to identify more with one or another aspect. Also, it's a pet peeve of mine that kink = BDSM automatically to a lot of people.

Softcutie:
On tumblr “soft feedism” is the term most used to describe this.

I’m curious as to understanding the continuum of kink that seems like many kinks have a spectrum that ranges from creation and celebration to ruination.

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.

Munchies:
Might wanna look into increasing your activity level. And also look into your diet and see if there's anything you need to cut back on. Don't gotta reduce your calories, but you can play around with things.

LuvsChub04:
tru, just didn't think id be getting out of breath n so sweaty this easily.

Fatty67:
It can raise your set point range and make you permanently jiggly

Munchies:
Your milage may vary. Some people experience permanent changes. Some people lose all the weight the moment they stop. It really depends.

Besides, the real magic of heavy cream is that it primes the body for weight gain. So if you want a more permanent change, make sure you are eating enough high calorie food. If it's a struggle to eat more, you are drinking too much heavy cream.

Ceepert:
How do you mean that it "primes the body for weight gain"?

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.