Fantasy Feeder

How does one calculate necesary maintenance calories for a fat woman's physique?

ILuvChubbyChix:
You just work with estimates, but that's more than good enough most of the time.

Also, I hope you don't expect perfectly linear results. You, or someone else, will probably not experience a consistent rate of weight gain.

The only thing that's consistent is if you can regularly "eat a lot," you will gain eventually. It's funny. Sometimes, you can eat a lot and nothing happens, then suddenly a few pounds end up out of nowhere. Everyone is a little different.

Nijjrtman8:
Why does this happen?

Lots of reasons. Metabolism, how well you absorb and process your food, hormone fluctuation, fluid retention, medical conditions, certain medications, ect.

1 year

Munchies

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

FAMGM:
The fact you are here at all suggests you already know.

Or is it purely a random accident in an inherently chaotic universe that you have popped up here, on “fantasy feeder”, to ask what a feedist is?

Anyway, I’m off to bang my fat-faced, b-shaped mistress.

Nijjrtman8:
I know of feeder and feedee,never heard of feedist before

Feedist is a catch-all term for feedees and feeders.

1 year

Munchies

How to handle the wife's fattening diet while staying fit?

Munchies:
First off, fiber isn't a nutrient. Your body cannot process it. It'a only purpose in your diet is to keep you regular.

Secondly, while eggs and boiled oats have nutritional value, they cannot provide you with everything you need. You will experience symptoms of nutritional deficiency if you aren't already experiencing them.

www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/micros-vs-macros

Check this link out to learn the basics of how this works.

Nijjrtman8:
Thank you but I am well satiated with one meal already,despite it being at most 1200kcal. I can go an entire day without eating and not even feeling hungry

That's all well and good, but you're old age won't thank you.

1 year

Munchies

The truth is difficult to get a feeder

In a lot of cultures - especial Western cultures - there's a ridged set of gender rolls that society expects us to adhere to. It doesn't impact everyone equally, but it is very much there. In context of this discussion, men (and masculine aligned people) are expected to provide for women (and female aligned people).

It comes from the idea that men are protesters and providers while women are unable to do so for themselves. So any time you see someone (especially a woman) talking about how feeders (often men) should financially support their kink, this is simply an adherence to gender norms.

1 year

Munchies

Increased weight but no waistline progress

TacticalMilk:
Ive gained a good 20 to 30 pounds over the past year but im seeing little to no progress with my waistline which has been stuck at 53 inches.Is this because I exercise often and the rest of the fat goes to other parts of my body like thighs,moobs,arm fat,etc or because of other reasons?

Sounds like it's just your body type. Some people gain weight in specific areas largely due to genetics. While hormones and hormone therapy can influence your body shape, the change isn't drastic.

The only way to get your body shape the way you want is surgery. But good luck trying to find someone willing to add fat grafts to your belly.

1 year

Munchies

Using these sites as a dating site?

Iridescent Pearly:
I'm trying to meet people on these kinds of sites but I always end getting ghosted. I always avoid being sexual or creepy. The only people I attract are creeps that want my pics. Everytime I meet a friendly person or reachout to someone who complains of loneliness they ghost me. Am I trying too hard??? Is this too rare??? Seriously thinking about quitting this crap...

I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this.

People's success in finding someone on this site is mixed. Some of this is site specific. Some of it is not. Some of it may be something you are doing, but some of it may not be.

Please understand that sometimes people will ghost you, and it is not your fault. This is, unfortunately, very normal in the online realm. (And irl too, if I'm honest.)

That being said, I can't speak too much on your situation. I don't know you, and I don't know if you are doing anything that might contribute to it. I don't think you are based on what you are telling me. But I also don't know the full story.

It is possible to have relationships (platonic, romantic, and sexual) on this site. I met my partner on here, and I have a small group of friends. It helps that I've gone into every situation will no real expectations. If we connect, that's nice. If not? Oh well.

1 year

Munchies

When did you realize you wanted to be fat?

Johniav:
From the very beginning. When it finally happened, I freaked out. Go figure.

It's not unusual. It's sad, but it makes sense.

1 year

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

Munchies:
It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

Jd00723:
Only a pint.

I just need to take it easy I guess. Thought it does feel great getting to be lazy as my body struggles to deal with all the fat it’s consuming! Plus I’m not getting anything bad happening in the bathroom to be so crude. So I think it’s going well. Might take a day off soon though.

Munchies:
Heavy cream is best taken as a short term thing. So, at most a few weeks at a time. Although, less is better for most people.

It's also easier to digest if you cook with the cream instead of drinking it.

Still, if you are new to this, it's best to ease your way into it. It's a shock to your body, and it will resist the weight gain at first. As such, you can spend a lot of money of food but gain very little weight.

Remember the key to weight gain is for your body to absorb the excess calories - not flush them down to toilet.

Jd00723:
Thanks for all your help. How long does it take for the body to change tune and start storing the fat, if you’re new to this?

There's a lot of different factors: body composition, metabolism, activity level, stress, food consumption, health issues, ect. Depending on the person, it can take a few weeks to a few years. It really depends.

The most important aspect of getting fat on purpose is to be patient. Don't be afraid to push, but don't do too much too soon.

It's best for a beginner to relax their diet and have a less intense workout regime. Once your body gets used to that, you can up the ante

1 year

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

Munchies:
It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

Jd00723:
Only a pint.

I just need to take it easy I guess. Thought it does feel great getting to be lazy as my body struggles to deal with all the fat it’s consuming! Plus I’m not getting anything bad happening in the bathroom to be so crude. So I think it’s going well. Might take a day off soon though.

Heavy cream is best taken as a short term thing. So, at most a few weeks at a time. Although, less is better for most people.

It's also easier to digest if you cook with the cream instead of drinking it.

Still, if you are new to this, it's best to ease your way into it. It's a shock to your body, and it will resist the weight gain at first. As such, you can spend a lot of money of food but gain very little weight.

Remember the key to weight gain is for your body to absorb the excess calories - not flush them down to toilet.

1 year

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

1 year

Munchies