Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?

Aphrodita:
[Part 2/2]

By living as a woman you have the possibility (that’s not an obligation) to reduce a natural imbalance: even outside of the fat fetish community, many men don’t have access to anything which has to do with love/sex, because in mammals, females are much more selective than males (see forbetterscience.com/2021/03/18/female-choice-by-meike-stoverock-book-review/ ). Some of these men are very happy to find people like me (non-selective Ersatz-women). If you’re not at all into men, the idea of doing things with men may disgust you. It disgusted me at the beginning, but I got used to it.

I believe that MtF transitioning (some call it in this case “transmaxxing”, which is acceptable in my view if you respect basic rules like “Don’t enter women-only areas”, “Don’t benefit from measures designed to promote women”, etc.) is THE solution for some/many incels, but also for some/many male fat fetishists. In my case, I blossom, I love my current life.


Please take your incel nonsense somewhere else. I'm glad that transitioning helped you, but that doesn't make you any less of an incel. Grow up.
1 year

Mtf transition: the solution for some male fas?

Aphrodita:
[Part 1/2]

I guess that very few male fat fetishists who don’t lie to fat women about their fetish in real life are (and will ever be) in a relationship, am I wrong? The situation for male FAs is all but enviable.

Outside of the fat fetish community, male fat admirers are considered as “perverts”, especially by fat women. Most fat women are just horrified when they meet a male fat fetishist, many of them then lose a lot of weight, they find the motivation they never had before, even when they were mocked at. In 2005, the thriller “Feed” portrayed male fat fetishists as monsters, with a comparison to pedophilia. Anyway, male fat fetishists and non fetishist fat women have too divergent interests (non fetishist fat women only dream of losing weight and they could succeed). In fact, male fat fetishists can have relationships only with female fat fetishists. What is the sex ratio in the fat fetish community? For example a few days ago on Fantasyfeeder: 8 men for 2 women. In addition, as I experience it since I live as a woman, fat women are in fact very successful with men, so the rare female members in the fat fetish community don’t need to wait for a male fat admirer who lives 300 km away, they already have too many partners in their neighborhood. The fat fetish community is an ocean of heterosexual men who will never find a partner (exception: dishonest FAs who tell in real life that they are just interested in “internal beauty”, but they live with risks).

If you’re a male fat fetishist, you probably don’t only have a passion for fat women, maybe you’re also a gainer (by the way, I think that it’s already a kind of “fetishist transvestism”, see below “autogynephilia”, you try to transform your body according to the fat women you admire). But fat men have a high estrogen level, are feminized, less potent with women. On the other hand, they would pass very well as women (even without HRT, see my pictures ;-) ).

In January/February 2020, life conduced me to transition socially to a woman (only make-up, clothes, etc., no HRT and no operation). What I explained above wasn’t the reason, I didn’t consciously follow a strategy, but afterward, I realized that it was the best that could happen to me. I must say here that I’m not typical at all: I’m asexual (I don’t like real sex with another person), nearly impotent (because of medicament Zoloft and fatness), I don’t like being in a relationship, for me love is only friendship (I really enjoy friendship with women). In my head I live in a world without men (for example I hear nearly only female singers). Historically I admired women so much that I imitated them. I don’t know how MtF transitioning makes sense for a man who differs significantly from this scheme.

If you’re a man who used to have no access to anything which has to do with love or sex, what you will see as a woman very will impress you. You go out and see men turning their head, complimenting you, chasing you, cars driving slower at you, you hitch and the 1st car stops (a man alone), you receive a lot of messages on social media (even too many). As men are not selective and have a strong propensity for fetishism, all women (this also includes transgenders/transvestites) are attractive for at least some men. You look in the mirror and you love what you see: I’d have a lot to tell about it, this is called “autogynephilia”. I don’t want to enter the debate about transidentity, but autogynephilia is also an (acceptable) reason why some (heterosexual) men transition to women. I think that each heterosexual man has an autogynephilic side and can use it if needed. Advantage: “Your body your choice”, you can do all you want only with your own body (being as fat as you want, having long hair, etc.) You decide how you look, you’re yourself your ideal girlfriend.

When you live as a woman, you have many female friends, you’re very close to women, most of them even pamper you.

As a woman you get fetishized for your weight. As a man, you will be vilified if you do that with women, you can barely be fetishized yourself even if it is your dream and puritanical feminists call it “male privilege”. As a woman you now have the right to do wonderful things like wearing make-up, dressing sexy, wearing crop-tops, high heels, mini-skirts, etc. As a man it is forbidden (only sad clothes are allowed, I call it “half-Kabul”), and again, puritanical feminists call it “male privilege”. When you dress sexy as a fat woman, people react very strongly in both directions. Some people “hate” it, make fun at you, show how “disgusted” they are (if you’re into fat humiliation it will be a great feeling, and I think many men who do it are in fact sadists, it’s a sexual SM game, I’d have a lot to tell about it), while other people love it and get crazy about you.


Oof
1 year

Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Miachu:
Guess I'll give a quick update

I'm seeing someone new now, Someone who I 100% knows appreciates me. That's all I'll say for now 😁


thank you all once again for the kind support and comments you all gave me!


I am so happy for you, Mia! Love this for you. 💖
1 year

Getting bigger, but no overhang?

Belly Builder:
Since starting out, my belly has gotten WAY bigger…which is great, but I dream of having an overhang. I’ve gotten up to 255 from 200 and still it’s just a big ball. Any advice? Or do I just need to keep going and hope for the best?


I think I see the problem.

Your belly is made of mostly visceral fat (fat around your organs). Since this fat is behind your abdominal wall, it's not going to hang. Belly hang happens with subcutaneous fat (fat under your skin).
1 year

Weird question..

Sanblxckive03:
Wasn't here since like 1 year? Idk, time passed, gained hell of weight, still gaining, but something came in mind.

I went from 81kg to 106kg and GW is 120kg, problems isn't family nor gf anymore... It's, how do I find pants, that aren't eating my belly and secondly how should I wear them without being an mess and red on my belly? XD It's damn impossible to find nice pair of pants sorry, but yeah fat struggle.

Thanks for upcoming answers!

Munchies:
Looks like you are pretty belly-heavy. Have you looked into plus-sized maternity pants? Sweats and leggings are nice, but sometimes you gotta dress up a bit. No one will know they are maternity clothes. Plus you can look cute and be comfy.

Sanblxckive03:
Ahh I remember you! You helped me before, thanks again! Been inactive but gained a lot as you can definitely tell. Gained all in my belly.

I did, but was few months ago while I was lighter, haven't since bought new pants, kept mine, lol.

I thought bout this too leggings and sweats, for comfortable days and more chic for special situations or when I'm out.

And thanks I'll look up. smiley


So I did. I am glad you continue to find our interactions pleasant and helpful.
1 year

Starting the day with a soda bloat for better appetite during the day

ILuvChubbyChix:
I wouldn't do it if I were you. Munchies' answer is good, but gonna add some more things.

One is that for some reason, soda seems to stay in the body for longer than water does, for some reason. And when that happens, you'll probably end up eating less.

Most soda in America also uses high fructose corn syrup (HFCS), which is horrendous if consumed in high quantities, and if you do what you want to, it'll be too much. There's the fast effect on very high blood sugar, but there seems to be something almost unique about it too. It's much worse than regular sugar, and it doesn't even have as many calories.

I've found that if I have too much soda or HFCS, I get sleepy and drowsy, and just need to lay down for awhile. Might be the blood sugar thing, but I've never had this effect, at least nowhere as intense with anything else.

Other than soda, the most common sources of HFCS will be either condiments like ketchup and barbeque sauce, certain sweet spreads like strawberry jam, and certain pancake/waffle syrups. However, it's very easy to identify varieties of the aforementioned without HFCS. It would probably be best if you minimize HFCS to almost nothing at home.

You can have small quantities of HFCS, so no point in freaking out if you're with friends at a restaurant or something, and the ketchup there has HFCS in it. You can even have the occasional soda, but you don't want to bloat with soda.

Anon5665:
I just drank over a liter in one go, and the drowsiness is intense for sure. I do however feel stuffed--the pleasurable "really full" feeling. I think that doing this regularly might not be best, but it was fun!


You drank over a liter in one go????????

Oh Lordy

While the stomach can stretch up to 2 - 4 liters, the average person can fit 1 liter before their stomach starts revolting.

You just drank over 1 liter of carbonated fluids. And based on our previous conversations, you have not trained your stomach for this.

Soda bottles and cans are under a lot of pressure because of the gas infused into the soda. When you add gas to a liquid, it escapes. However, if you put it in a container that prevents the gas from leaving (like a soda bottle or can) it creates pressure. On top of all that, the warmer the gas is, the more it wants to expand. The human body is much warmer than room temp soda.

With all this in mind, drinking a liter of soda will expand your stomach far more than a liter in capacity. Even more so if you drink it in one go. You haven't given the gas much time to escape, so you get a lot more stomach expansion.

This was posted an hour ago, so hopefully you're fine. But doing things runs the risk of you making yourself sick. And that is to say, nothing of the sugar high followed by the sugar crash.

Please stay safe.
1 year

Weird question..

Sanblxckive03:
Wasn't here since like 1 year? Idk, time passed, gained hell of weight, still gaining, but something came in mind.

I went from 81kg to 106kg and GW is 120kg, problems isn't family nor gf anymore... It's, how do I find pants, that aren't eating my belly and secondly how should I wear them without being an mess and red on my belly? XD It's damn impossible to find nice pair of pants sorry, but yeah fat struggle.

Thanks for upcoming answers!


Looks like you are pretty belly-heavy. Have you looked into plus-sized maternity pants? Sweats and leggings are nice, but sometimes you gotta dress up a bit. No one will know they are maternity clothes. Plus you can look cute and be comfy.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Morbidly A Beast:
What’s the deal with creepy guys with hypothetical wives and being racist

Munchies:
I have no idea. With any luck, he'll either change or suffer the consequences of not doing so, which can be anything from community backlash to getting banned.

Remember that other user from Romania that did something similar? He got banned once or twice before leaving the site and deleting his account. I wonder, whatever happened to that guy?

Morbidly A Beast:
One can hope! You’re not even asking for that much it’s just that he’s getting all defensive and having yikesey responses. That guy is this guy you think?


The guy that was racist towards Asians and black people? It's crossed my mind, but I cannot confirm it. It's just as possible that these are two different guys.

But yes, I am not asking for much. I am very reasonable so, I get pissed when my requests are disregarded. Plus I've already proven in this very thread that I am happy to back down. When you (not OP oddly enough) were kind enough to show me I had the wrong impression of the scene, I let it go.

The same cannot be said for OP.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Munchies:
This is true. This did not need to escalate.

Then why escalate it? You're doing something then complaining said thing happened.

Munchies:
He could have said something along the lines of, "I wasn't trying to be racist. This scene comes from this movie. This is what was happening in the context of the movie. I was trying to make a joke based on this line from the movie.

Why do I need to say anything if it's subconsciously understood?
What racism did I commit which I need to atone for?

Munchies:
But I can understand why you might think that."

But I don't understand

Munchies:
mentioned my past trauma involving the KKK, he just ignored it.

Badtagragtat:
If whatever I say won't fix your trauma why say anything?
I wish whatever bad thing happened to you didn't happen but if I wish it that doesn't mean it's going to magically erase that bad event.

Morbidly A Beast:
Yikes. Shut up racist.

LuvsChub04:
I tried being polite, yet his post not even trying to say sorry made me view his profile.
"About me
Gender: male
Age: 18yrs
Weight: 115lbs
Height: 5’ 8" (173 cms)
Fetish: feeder
Online: 3 mins
Visits website: rarely
Joined: 12 hours"
Joined 12 hours ago, no profile photo.This is a first post, n not a good one. Makes me think he's a total troll.Just seeking attention ,for his kinks n a chaser of racism.


Yeah, that sounds about right. Either he'll eventually grow up or he'll get worse

Feeders like him give he rest of us a bad name. I'm a sadistic domme feeder, and I have never once treated my past or current feedees like this. If I dared to treat my submissive masochistic feedee partner like this, he would rightfully leave my ass.
1 year

How to find fat women to be friends with my wife?

Morbidly A Beast:
What’s the deal with creepy guys with hypothetical wives and being racist


I have no idea. With any luck, he'll either change or suffer the consequences of not doing so, which can be anything from community backlash to getting banned.

Remember that other user from Romania that did something similar? He got banned once or twice before leaving the site and deleting his account. I wonder, whatever happened to that guy?
1 year