Mr Smith:
Can be anything for me cartoons and stock images seem to be most prevalent but it is in all media.

Munchies:
PETA's anti-fois gras campaign is hands down my favorite case of accidental feedism.

Some examples:







Everything is so overtly sexualized - which is the norm for PETA. But this specifically comes off as feedist BDSM. And I am not confident that is what PETA was going for.

Mr Smith:
🤣 Thing is a lot of accidental stuff has a reasonable explanation but that is just bonkers so obviously fetish looking. Imo it's in some ways weirder making something like this if you don't have feederism fetish.

HectorConvector:
I used to be 127lbs and am now over 205lbs is that enough?

I used to be practically anorexic though, so at my current weight I have more energy than I did then actually. My belly is sticking out a lot though and can get in the way.

Mr Smith:
Can be anything for me cartoons and stock images seem to be most prevalent but it is in all media.

Swiss Gainer:
Thanks for your reply Munchies,

I have a very open diailago with her, however few elements hold be to openly forcing the topic to a clear answer, It's not an “easy” topic especially as you said, “if” it might be a chance that she simply loves food languages. Then I tried a few times lightly to face the topic and she skipped and changed the topic immediately… I'm fully aware that strangers can not give me an answer, but maybe there is a common path that help me to untie this knot. However, whatever, will be the outcome will not change my feelings and to be honest I have learned to love these “new things” ..

Swiss Gainer:
So quite new to this forum, my recent doubts require probably the “competent” expertise and independent judgment of you people.

I started to suspect that my wife has hidden feeder tendencies or she is probably one, this enlightenment came way too late considering my weight gain of approximately 50kg in only a few years, since we got married. So question how i can understand if she is a feeder or was all only incidental?

Magnificentblubber:
Happy new year everyone, hope you y'all had a great start

I'm kinda stuck right now real sorry to start a topic


I've been gaining again quite fast, an 4lb this whole week which I love and dearly want to be fatter, but some are sturborny against IT

My family, dad is the worst....

My gf now lives at my family's house same as me and she's been keeping real fed and real stuffed which is lovely and all, but my dad actually became an quite raging, well quite an dealbreaker, even my brother plays the rule kinda.

He commented on my weight how fat i've gotten and he doesn't like that not at all

That my gf is fault, that he cares for me and my health and such and all but...

He said it's unhealthly cuz my asthma (ofc I know that ;- it's getting out of hand and I don't get a job, cuz fat is ugly as he said and so on.... That I gained alot and he's that and blah .

I was pissed af

I did stand up for myself and said it's my body, my life and my choice and he can't force me to lose weight etc. He said no I can, I said no you cannot , then he said it's my rules at my house. The discussion went about an hour.

I have asthma, yes, it's moderate and not severe , it got actually better, before the 2rd COVID caught up on me.. I weight alot ofc, but that doesn't mean i'm ugly nor that. It's my life , it's all quite complicated and all and kinda scared to at my doc's what they're gonna say..
I don't want to lose weight and I hate IT sm they're bringing up, I want to speak up and say nah i'm not interested etc.

Just cuz you're fat, doesn't mean you can't get a job... Here in germany, there are lots of fat people working , he's also kinda fatphobic same as my brother.

I want to gain, but all that kinda gets me stuck

I don't have neither have HBP, T2D or something obesity issues related... I just "Love" to eat and get fatter.

Hope someone can help a bit :/

Munchies:
Being gluttonous is all about eating in excess. Whether it's eating a lot in a sitting or eating smaller meals throughout the day, it's still gluttony. I've met feedees and gainers in this community who cannot stand being overly full but are still pretty gluttonous. So being a glutton isn't the same thing as having a big appetite.

Anywho ~

I'm an ex-gainer who's always had periods of low/no appetite. It certainly slows down the gain and can be very demoralizing. However, it gives you a chance to get used to the weight and stop whenever you want. You also get to keep your clothes and other things for longer.

GrowingLoveHandles:
I think this topic is well worth exploring. I want to write a lot about this, but I need to get my thoughts together on this. There is so much emphasis on bodies, but gluttony and appetite and fullness are definitely part of the kink for me.

There are many stories here which extoll the pleasures of this kind of gluttony, over-fullness, voracious appetites, etc.

I would look to the stories by Shores. She does a lot to explain what this is about, and how it fits into kink from the feeder point of view.

I’ll try write about it from the feedee or gainer pov later.

Munchies:
Your poster child feedee (someone who loves being stuffed to gain weight) is technically several fetishes in an overcoat trying to sneak into an R-rated movie.

A feedee is, strictly speaking, someone who gets off on being fed. They may not have a fat fetish or enjoy being stuffed.

A stuffer gets off on being stuffed with food. This is similar to a bloater who gets off on being filled with liquid or an inflationist who gets off on being filled with air or liquid. They may or may not get off on being fed/filled by someone else or have a fat fetish.

A gainer gets off on getting fatter, but may not enjoy being stuffed or being fed.

A fat fetishist gets off on fat. However, not all of them want to get fatter or stuffed.

There may be more fetishes, but that's all that I can think of right now. My point, however, is that with all these things, there are numerous ways to practice feedism. And none of them are wrong.

GrowingLoveHandles:
Thanks, Munchies. You always bring clarity to these situations. I think someone who is repulsed by being full/others being full can still very much enjoy these other things.

But I think OP still wants to know what's the draw of all this, and I don't know that it's possible to describe without here experiencing it. Just as those who have none of these fetishes would be unable to understand any of this.

Softtummy:
I often see people talking about how if you gain weight really quickly it tends to go to your gut, as opposed to a slower gain which distributes the weight more evenly. It's been really difficult for me to find any information backing up or refuting these claims.

What does everyone here think of this? If you have any insight/experience with rapid and gradual gains, I'd love to hear about it.

Munchies:
All of this is incorrect.

Your gain speeds have nothing to do with your fat distribution. What influences your fat distribution are your genetics, hormones, any health issues (like lymphedema), diet, and activity level.

That said, if you rapidly gain, you may end up with a prominent belly. This has nothing to do with the speed and everything to do with what you did to gain.

First off, some of that belly is not fat. Some of it is food weight and constipation from abusing your GI tract. You'll also experience a good deal of bloat too.

Secondly, people who put on a lot of weight quickly tend to eat foods high in unhealthy fats. All of this can lead to sizeable visceral fat gains. This person likely isn't exercising either. And since the body burns visceral fat before it burns subcutaneous fat, the belly will stick out more prominently than if it was mostly subcutaneous fat.

With all this in mind, your belly will appear bigger since it juts out. It doesn't mean your fat gains favor your belly. If you are naturally pear-shaped or all your weight goes to your tits, no amount of rapid gains will change this. And once you take a gaining break, you'll notice your belly will go down in size even if the scale doesn't.

Softtummy:
Got it, thanks so much for all of the info 😊

I guess the only question I have left is, what fats are "unhealthy"? I know that trans fats are considered to be very bad for you, but other than that I really don't know the difference between them.

Heavy cream is so popular in the gaining community, and yet everything I find suggests that the saturated fat which it's so high in is one of the bad ones. Maybe it's use is just a result of the people who are interested in it not caring too much about visceral vs subcutaneous gains.

Softtummy:
I often see people talking about how if you gain weight really quickly it tends to go to your gut, as opposed to a slower gain which distributes the weight more evenly. It's been really difficult for me to find any information backing up or refuting these claims.

What does everyone here think of this? If you have any insight/experience with rapid and gradual gains, I'd love to hear about it.

Munchies:
Being gluttonous is all about eating in excess. Whether it's eating a lot in a sitting or eating smaller meals throughout the day, it's still gluttony. I've met feedees and gainers in this community who cannot stand being overly full but are still pretty gluttonous. So being a glutton isn't the same thing as having a big appetite.

Anywho ~

I'm an ex-gainer who's always had periods of low/no appetite. It certainly slows down the gain and can be very demoralizing. However, it gives you a chance to get used to the weight and stop whenever you want. You also get to keep your clothes and other things for longer.

GrowingLoveHandles:
I think this topic is well worth exploring. I want to write a lot about this, but I need to get my thoughts together on this. There is so much emphasis on bodies, but gluttony and appetite and fullness are definitely part of the kink for me.

There are many stories here which extoll the pleasures of this kind of gluttony, over-fullness, voracious appetites, etc.

I would look to the stories by Shores. She does a lot to explain what this is about, and how it fits into kink from the feeder point of view.

I’ll try write about it from the feedee or gainer pov later.