What do you think caused you to develop this kink?

ButterHimself:
For me I have always been fascinated for some reason by people who are generally fatter or have bigger bellies. Maybe it was a result of media and how fat people are portrayed, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve found myself being a lot more attracted to chubbier women in general. How do y’all this you obtained this kink?


My kinks have evolved a lot since first got into this, but I think it all started when I was a skinny little girl who hated her body. Like, I knew I was pretty, but I wanted nothing more to be a full figured woman like my family members.

And now I'm a feeder that works out, lol. Funny how that goes.
1 year

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

FAMGM:
There is no “category” for all of those things. You’re obviously a feedist. Now just get on with exploring the fact of it, rather than worrying about the precise taxonomy.

Nijjrtman8:
What is a "feedist"?

FAMGM:
The fact you are here at all suggests you already know.

Or is it purely a random accident in an inherently chaotic universe that you have popped up here, on “fantasy feeder”, to ask what a feedist is?

Anyway, I’m off to bang my fat-faced, b-shaped mistress.


1 year

Cruise prep

DoesntMatter01:
I never thought of a cruise as such of a potentially fun place for people like us 😅


Oh yeah. A lot of people come back from cruises fatter.
1 year

Did you feel ‘different’ growing up?

Raboot The Admirer:
Absolutely. I can relate with a lot of what's been said on this thread.

Fat men always made me "feel funny", even before I started discovering my sexuality. After I actually developed and understood what sexual attraction was, for a long time I kept my preferences hidden. Sometimes I would stop and think about what would happen if the people I knew found out about what I like, and it was a bit scary for me.

Since I came out of the closet, however, I'm much more ok about it. I'll never reveal the feedism part of it but my friends know about my type. Telling them was a weight off my shoulders, (no pun intended). The sensation of being different never goes away but I'm not worried about it anymore. It doesn't make me inferior to everybody else!


Kudos to you! I'm glad you have people in your life who love and accept you.
1 year

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

Munchies:
I'm both an FA and a feeder. I enjoy actively making my partner fat as well as just enjoying his size.

Nijjrtman8:
I see,I thought that feeder was an umbrella term
As per what I said in the Opening post,what do you think I am into is called?


Ngl, there's a lot of possible fetishes listed and I am hesitant to label you as I don't know you.

You seem to have feeder, FA, sadistic, dom, and voyeur tendencies. I say this because you and I have similar interests and I know what I am. But I don't know you well enough to say how accurate that take is nor to what degree.

It's better to figure it out yourself over time than let internet strangers tell you what think you are.
1 year

What is the category or name of the situations which arouse me?

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you're asking about how you would be categorized on websites like this, I'd say fat appreciator.

Nijjrtman8:
Why a fat appreciator and not a feeder?
I would not mind fattening her myself

Munchies:
It is possible to be both. A feeder take an active role the the feedee's weight gain. An FA (fat admirer) takes a more passive interest. They also may or may not want their partner to gain weight

Nijjrtman8:
Can you be an FA and a Feeder at the same time? How would that work


I'm both an FA and a feeder. I enjoy actively making my partner fat as well as just enjoying his size.
1 year