SSBBW Summer:
Now twitter has changed it's name, are we going to be like "Do you want my X?" Lol because that's so funny 🤣

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Fatnamehere:
A 9,000 calorie a day diet is an extremely high-calorie intake and is not recommended or sustainable for most individuals. However, for the The select few this might just be for you:

Breakfast: 7:00am then back to bed
- 3 large eggs (234 calories)
- 6 slices of bacon (720 calories)
- 3 slices of toast with butter (360 calories)
- 2 cups of whole milk (600 calories)
Total: 1,914calories

Snack: 10:00am
- 1 large bag of potato chips (1,500 calories)
Total: 1,500 calories

Lunch: 1:00pm
- 2 large cheeseburgers with fries (2,000 calories)
- 1 milkshake (800 calories)
Total: 2,800 calories

Snack: 3:00pm
- 2 large chocolate bars (1,000 calories)
Total: 1,000 calories

Dinner: 6:00pm
- 1/2 large pepperoni pizza (1,500 calories)
Total: 1,500 calories

Snack: 10:00pm
- 1 pint of ice cream (1,000 calories)
Total: 1,000 calories

This sample diet adds up to approximately 9660 calories. That seems quite doable I'm not even sure if that be enough to keep me full

BigBallBellyGirl:
The people who caution about aggressive stuffing and hard-core gaining are absolutely right. (Note, I said "caution about", not "caution against".) In an effort to gain back some lost weight and ultimately get to 450-500, I started super-stuffings constantly. I was gaining 10 pounds a week, easily, and never leaving any room in my stomach I didn't immediately fill. I loved the journey and the filled past the limit sensation, but about a month ago, I started to have weird neurological symptoms, like tingling, and skin numbness, as well as severe back and upper belly pain. I'm not abandoning my goal, by any means, but I decided to back off on the extreme stuffings for a while and let my body heal. But guess what? I find eating normal meals almost impossible. Yesterday, my partner and I went to a pub. He ordered a Philly cheesesteak and side salad. I ordered a double mushroom Swiss burger and tater tots, 1200 calories according to the menu. Based on nutritional standards, I had a very large meal, but my body didn't think so. I downed everything, but I didn't even feel like I had eaten at all. He gave me a fourth of his cheesesteak, but I still felt not just unsatisfied, but empty. I ended up getting queso with soft tortillas, adding another 1,800 calories. The fact is, I absolutely wanted more, but I stopped myself, because with beer, I had already exceeded 4,000 calories in a sitting. The fact is, had I been intentionally stuffing, I honestly could have easily had a fast food meal on the way home, but I refrained. The reality is, I think I also was averaging way more calories than I calculated when I was constantly stuffing. I usually documented around 15,000, but that number was likely well over 20,000. And last week, I put on 5 pounds while thinking I was eating conservatively. The appetite is a bizarre thing.

Mooidik:
Do you have experiences with eating a lot of nuts? I read everywhere that they are healthy fatteners,

MrCupeKe:
I’m exploring various projects and am trying to figure out who has what skills and availability.
I had an idea for an app that would be great for our community, but it’s feedism related so I don’t think I can ask just any app developer. If anyone knows any developers and would be willing to send them my way, I would really greatly appreciate it!

Munchies:
Gotta learn how to enjoy feedism without the rapid weight gain.

My partner and I enjoy extreme feedism. Think all-day belly stuffing, making him eat over 10k calories, super rapid weight gain, and temporary immobility due to eating far too much.

It's super sexy, but it isn't sustainable. It's why my partner is down about 100 lbs and on a health journey. However, we still practice feedism. We just had to adjust how we went about it.

NoMoYoYo:
I'm hoping that I can do this. In a perfect world, nature just takes its course and I grow bigger as time goes by. Just tough to wrap my head around not constantly stuffing myself. Since I've gotten some control, I am not stuffing as much, but the urge is there.

I will be weighing myself on Tuesday. I wonder what the scale will say. I was 213 on Sept 1st. I hadn't planned on weighing before October, but knew I had gained a lot so I checked. 226 then 222 a couple days later. I may be higher than that come Tuesday.

Munchies:
Here's something else to chew on. What would you do if you reached your goal weight? Would you be okay if you stopped growing? Or would you decide to keep going?

NoMoYoYo:
I'm not sure. I mean I'm open to going further. But I won't know until I'm there. I didn't feel great at my previous high of 258. But thats because I went stupid crazy in the couple weeks before then. It was so bad that I decided then and there to stop and lost a bunch of weight. In this current gain I've eaten a lot of food that isn't great, but it didn't come close to how bad I ate when I got to my highest.

As I mentioned 275 is my goal, but I would be open to going higher. 300? Who knows?

Munchies:
Gotta learn how to enjoy feedism without the rapid weight gain.

My partner and I enjoy extreme feedism. Think all-day belly stuffing, making him eat over 10k calories, super rapid weight gain, and temporary immobility due to eating far too much.

It's super sexy, but it isn't sustainable. It's why my partner is down about 100 lbs and on a health journey. However, we still practice feedism. We just had to adjust how we went about it.

NoMoYoYo:
I'm hoping that I can do this. In a perfect world, nature just takes its course and I grow bigger as time goes by. Just tough to wrap my head around not constantly stuffing myself. Since I've gotten some control, I am not stuffing as much, but the urge is there.

I will be weighing myself on Tuesday. I wonder what the scale will say. I was 213 on Sept 1st. I hadn't planned on weighing before October, but knew I had gained a lot so I checked. 226 then 222 a couple days later. I may be higher than that come Tuesday.

NoMoYoYo:
It appears I've got my gaining under control. After gaining almost 30lbs in less than 3 months, I knew I needed to slow down.

I did slow down...success! Or is it? I very much miss the fact that I was growing at a fast pace.

I know this is better for me, but man do I want to gain faster again.

I'm so conflicted. On the one hand, I just want to get to my long term goal soon. On the other, I know I shouldn't go that route.

HELP!!!

Munchies:
Do you want to grow? Or do you reach a specific goal? Because that will affect any advise I give you.

NoMoYoYo:
I want to grow. I want to be fatter than I've ever been. The problem is I know that the path I was on is not a good one. 30lbs in 2 and a half months is too much.

But there's part of me that just wants to get there now. I love eating. I love junk food and fast food. I love being stuffed.

My goal is 275 lbs...about 50lbs from now. At the rate I was going I'd get there next year. So many reasons why its not a good idea.

When I get there who knows where it'll lead. More? Maybe. That's a topic for another day.

But my whole persona here is that I don't want to yoyo anymore. I just want to get fatter at a steady pace over time.

Munchies:
Sounds like you have a problem with instant gratification. Basically, look at yourself and think "I look good fat, but I could be fatter. In fact, I could be fatter now."

There's nothing wrong with these thoughts. That's the entire point of this community. But sometimes you can get so fixated on the journey that you forget to enjoy the journey.

There's something intoxicating about eating a lot of food and then experiencing the weight gain. But it's not the only thing to enjoy about having a bigger body. I'd argue it's a very small part of it.

Take time to slow down and enjoy your size as you are. You'll gain weight at a slower pace.

NoMoYoYo:
There's no denying that I do like the instant gratification part of it. As I wrote in a different thread, I enjoy my clothes getting tighter and then growing out of them completely. It's exactly as you describe: intoxicating.

I want to be that guy who gains like 10lbs a year. It's definitely cheaper (food and clothes) and no doubt better for me. I believe I've gotten to the point that the gaining is under control. But its somewhat discouraging to not get that instant gratification.

I enjoy many foods, not just junk. I am trying to stick to healthier options with bigger portions. The problem is that it seems more like a chore than eating whatever and whenever I want. That's what I need to get over.