Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!

Munchies:
Feedism doesn't have to be eating a billion calories a day to gain a million lbs in a week. It can also be cute and fluffy. I may be a sadistic domme feeder, but I enjoy the domestic side of things too.

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.


A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.
1 year

Pants, under or over the lower belly?

Maxtogs:
It’s an on going struggle


Might wanna revisit your methods.
1 year

Will gaining on heavy cream cause permanent changes for me?

Also, heavy cream is easier to consume if you cook/bake with it instead of drink it.
1 year

Will gaining on heavy cream cause permanent changes for me?

Fatty67:
It can raise your set point range and make you permanently jiggly smiley


Your milage may vary. Some people experience permanent changes. Some people lose all the weight the moment they stop. It really depends.

Besides, the real magic of heavy cream is that it primes the body for weight gain. So if you want a more permanent change, make sure you are eating enough high calorie food. If it's a struggle to eat more, you are drinking too much heavy cream.
1 year

Pants, under or over the lower belly?

Maxtogs:
Most of the time out because in hurts to much, and I don’t feel awkward pulling out my belly when I get stuffed


Sounds like you need bigger pants.
1 year

So twitter changed it's name...

SSBBW Summer:
Now twitter has changed it's name, are we going to be like "Do you want my X?" Lol because that's so funny 🤣

Casual Gainer:
Apparently Elon says they should be called "X's".


Laaaaaaaaaaaaame

Especially since "X's" can also mean "kisses".
1 year

So twitter changed it's name...

SSBBW Summer:
Now twitter has changed it's name, are we going to be like "Do you want my X?" Lol because that's so funny 🤣


Just keep calling it Twitter like everyone else.
1 year

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!


Feedism doesn't have to be eating a billion calories a day to gain a million lbs in a week. It can also be cute and fluffy. I may be a sadistic domme feeder, but I enjoy the domestic side of things too.
1 year

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.


Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.
1 year

Approximately 9,000 calorie diet daily plan

Fatnamehere:
A 9,000 calorie a day diet is an extremely high-calorie intake and is not recommended or sustainable for most individuals. However, for the The select few this might just be for you:

Breakfast: 7:00am then back to bed
- 3 large eggs (234 calories)
- 6 slices of bacon (720 calories)
- 3 slices of toast with butter (360 calories)
- 2 cups of whole milk (600 calories)
Total: 1,914calories

Snack: 10:00am
- 1 large bag of potato chips (1,500 calories)
Total: 1,500 calories

Lunch: 1:00pm
- 2 large cheeseburgers with fries (2,000 calories)
- 1 milkshake (800 calories)
Total: 2,800 calories

Snack: 3:00pm
- 2 large chocolate bars (1,000 calories)
Total: 1,000 calories

Dinner: 6:00pm
- 1/2 large pepperoni pizza (1,500 calories)
Total: 1,500 calories

Snack: 10:00pm
- 1 pint of ice cream (1,000 calories)
Total: 1,000 calories

This sample diet adds up to approximately 9660 calories. That seems quite doable I'm not even sure if that be enough to keep me full


Could be fun. Some advice:

- Please consume fiber and stay hydrated. When you eat a lot of food, it has to go somewhere. If you don't give your body the means to process everything smoothly, you are going to be constipated, in pain, and probably won't want to eat anything the next day. Ironically, a poorly planned binge can end with no weight gained or even weight lost.

- Work up to eating this many calories. The average person eats about 2 - 2.5k calories a day. Most gainers and feedees on here claim to eat 3 - 4k calories a day. If you go all in without training your body to handle this, you will make yourself sick.
1 year