Morbidly A Beast:
You’re conveniently leaving deleting your old posts

Morbidly A Beast:
but you said you wanted to know how to make fat friends for your wife

Morbidly A Beast:
if you don’t see how that’s mistreatment of her idk what will.

Morbidly A Beast:
she sounds like she’s perfectly able to form friendships on her own without you

Badtagragtat:
What makes you think so?
Have I said anything related to or about her?
I'm simply trying to help her.

Munchies:
Two, nowhere near you if you don't learn how to treat women.

Badtagragtat:
Am I maltreating women?

Also

Explain how one treats women.

Munchies:
I see. Thanks for the clarification. My advise still stands.

Badtagragtat:
Very well, but where da fat women at?

Munchies:
I am so curious as to what was the original post. Because these vibes are rancid.

Are you actually married, or is this a fantasy scenario? I assume you want said wife to have far friends so she can either get fatter or feel more comfortable doing so? Because either way, the answer is "You don't."

If she befriends people because it would make her husband happy, it's a doomed friendship.

Badtagragtat:
Not married,just thinking far into the future.

The original post read
TITLE: "How to find fat women to be friends with my wife"
BODY: "Hopefully they'd encourage(formerly coerce but the user above told me that it sounds forced so I changed it) her into eating more and getting fat and fatter but that's besides the point"

Greentrees8733:
If something is "coerced", that means that the person did not consent. Whatever was "coerced" happened against their will.

Is that what you meant?


Badtagragtat:
No, I meant coerced as in made to do something.
A better fitting word would be encouraged

Hhhggg:
Hi people,
I am looking for a ankle chain, for my wife
But her ankles are jut to big for the regular ones
They are always tight maybe some of you ran into similar problems and could help me out !

Anon5665:
I have an idea, which I will test tomorrow morning, and perhaps over several days, but I wanted to check with you guys first for your input.

Drinking a lot of soda is easy, and when starting out a gain, one goal is to expand the stomach so that it feels empty (or at least less full).

So, starting the day with a soda bloat seems like a great idea...right? Any advice, anecdotes from past experiences, etc., are greatly appreciated.

Thank you!

ILuvChubbyChix:
I wouldn't do it if I were you. Munchies' answer is good, but gonna add some more things.

One is that for some reason, soda seems to stay in the body for longer than water does, for some reason. And when that happens, you'll probably end up eating less.

Most soda in America also uses high fructose corn syrup (HFCS), which is horrendous if consumed in high quantities, and if you do what you want to, it'll be too much. There's the fast effect on very high blood sugar, but there seems to be something almost unique about it too. It's much worse than regular sugar, and it doesn't even have as many calories.

I've found that if I have too much soda or HFCS, I get sleepy and drowsy, and just need to lay down for awhile. Might be the blood sugar thing, but I've never had this effect, at least nowhere as intense with anything else.

Other than soda, the most common sources of HFCS will be either condiments like ketchup and barbeque sauce, certain sweet spreads like strawberry jam, and certain pancake/waffle syrups. However, it's very easy to identify varieties of the aforementioned without HFCS. It would probably be best if you minimize HFCS to almost nothing at home.

You can have small quantities of HFCS, so no point in freaking out if you're with friends at a restaurant or something, and the ketchup there has HFCS in it. You can even have the occasional soda, but you don't want to bloat with soda.

Anon5665:
As I ease into my new lifestyle, I've been working through a lot of old beliefs that kept me thin and miserable.

While it may be normal reality to many on here, it just occurred to me that no diet is ever "wrong" in any sense, if you enjoy it.

I fucking love chips and other snack foods, but was always heavily discouraged from eating them when I was growing up.

Now, I realize that my entire day could be various chips and other snack foods. Would I enjoy this diet nonstop for days or weeks? Probably not, but tomorrow I am going to the store and filling the cart with chips, soda, and a couple of cakes.

Eating can have whatever structure I want it to have now, and so much worry has been taken off of me.

Thank you for reading my rant / little discovery.

Justinboo0313:
So I was talking to someone at work and they were telling me about how the were not happy about unintentionally losing weight before their diabetes diagnosis. She was upset about how her body looked now. She was asking if I knew anyway to safely gain back some of her weight. She is on insulin and under control now. I didn’t know what to say. I told her to ask her dr. I was just wondering if anyone one here had any experience with this. Please understand that there is nothing sexual between us. I looked up some information and it says once one’s blood sugar is level, insulin will most like put weight back on the person anyway. Thanks for the help guy’s.

MultiMedia:
Hello, so this here is mostly about building up courage.

Me and my GF have been together for almost 1.5 years and living with each other for about the same time, and we have had no fights or anything during this time. And what usually happens when people get together is that you gain some weight, which both me and her have done. Now she has problems with her joints, she is opting for losing weight with a gastric bypass, but as of right now, she takes ozempic to lose weight.

Now, I had the suspicion before that I liked being heavier, even though I thought I was a feeder only, but now being so that she will lose weight, and that I still will love her no matter what, has made me want to get fatter. I have gained 22 lbs during our relationship, having a max weight of 235 lbs. I absolutely love the way my stretchmarked bely prutrudes, and how my moobs have started hanging, and I want to gain more weight, like get to 250-260.

The only problem I have, I don't know how to tell her that I want to do it, she generally liked skinnier guys before getting together with me (weighed like 213 when we moved together) because I'm already not really her type, and I want to move away from what her type is. I'm scared that she wanna leave me or something like that. The other problem is that our budget can't really support quick gains (which I want to do) so it will be a double whammy against me wanting to gain weight.

How can I say all this to her without making it too weird, and how do I build up the courage to do so?