10 pounds in a week

BlobOfFat:
i wana try and get real fat before Christmas and get even fat after that but i rlly wana know if someone can gain 10 pounds in a week if yes how lol

Munchies:
It is possible to put on that much weight in a week. But then you'd have to be eating upwards of 10 calories a day. Plus, some of that weight would be water and food weight.

BlobOfFat:
do u mean 10k calories?
also will it have any severe effect on my health?


Lol, I did mean 10k. Typos smiley

It's hard to eat 10k calories a day for a week. You'd have to train yourself to hold that much food, and it will take a toll on your body. Your body wasn't meant to eat that much - let alone over a period of time.
1 year

10 pounds in a week

BlobOfFat:
i wana try and get real fat before Christmas and get even fat after that but i rlly wana know if someone can gain 10 pounds in a week if yes how lol


It is possible to put on that much weight in a week. But then you'd have to be eating upwards of 10 calories a day. Plus, some of that weight would be water and food weight.
1 year

Is she a feedee?

Bigdaddy:
My question is, my GF is she a feedee?
For the past year we have been dating I’ve told her I like curvy woman. She is slightly chubby. I asked her if she would be into gaining more weight. She freaked out. So I’ve dropped the topic. Started buying her donuts she ate them. Then started buying cakes and cookies lots. We chill and watch TV at night I’ll bring out the cookies she gets mad at me but by the end of the show she’s killed 20 cookies. It’s gotten worse, bag of chip a night a loaf of bread a day, on average 6 donuts a week. She’s put on about 80lbs. I tell her she looks good and she freaks out. I’ll bring the food out at night she’s mad again but eats all of it until she’s stuffed burping etc.
is she a feedee?


Doesn't sound like it. Sounds like she's weak around food and you are abusing that.

Knock it off before she has the courage to dump you. You have no respect for boundaries because you keep pushing your fetish on her without her consent.

It's feeders like you that give the rest of us a bad name.
1 year

Did you know any cheerleader type girls who became heavier and nerdier?

Jshep2158:


Look at this queen. Proud graduate of Herfer University and has 6 fingers. Shame she got the hand correction surgery.
1 year

Effectively find a feeder

Mobius:
Putting yourself out there for one. Sites like this help a lot, given the niche community.

But it's a lot like anything else when looking for a relationship, whether that be platonic or romantic. You strive to find a community and seek out like minded people.

Be communicative and make sure you're both on the same page about what you want. However that sort of thing takes time in order to establish a meaningful connection.

SlyFox:
Thank you so much! These are very helpful pointers

Mobius:
Hopefully that helps.

Also, and I am sure you know this. But bears saying, sometimes it can be really exciting to find someone local. Like any sort of situation exercise caution and discernment with meeting up.


All of this is good advice. But I also want to add be a good conversationalist. You can be the nicest person in the world, but if you can't carry on a conversation, the other person won't want to stick around.
1 year

Random new views from fairy new account

Angelette:
When I first started out, I have gotten messages as usual from guys. Even if I hardly say a word. Now, it has toned down and I get messaged from people I know.

Even on my old account from 3 months back the same thing happened. Makes me wonder what happens if I switched the gender settings?


The older your account, the fewer DMs you get. And if you mark yourself as female, you get more engagement overall. Why? Because horny men want to get female attention - especially if the user is new and more easily manipulated.

Switching your gender to male only gives you a different set of problems. You'll still get the PMs from guys (usually gay or straight guys that didn't read), but then you get flooded with scammers begging (or demanding) you to feed them or give them money.

I think there's still a no gender option. I selected that when I first joined. I got 0 engagement for the first few months I was on here. Then, the moment I switched my gender to female, I got flooded with creeps.
1 year

Random new views from fairy new account

2seatsalways:
Chat helps for views but yeah I've gotten them as well. Just be careful tis the season to scam


Hey, scammers gotta get Christmas gifts too smiley
1 year

Scream into the void

Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.

It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.

She lives 2 hours away.

I work 60 weeks.

She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.

Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.

But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.

I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.

And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.

Thanks for listening.

Munchies:
Bro, if you don't feel like it's working, and you can't handle being just friends, then move on.

What benefit does it bring either of your guys to stay in this zombie of a relationship? Just let it die. Are you so afraid to be single? Or are you terrified that you won't find another play partner?

Wowthatsbig:
Damn. Zombie of a relationship. That hit the nail on the head. I don't mind being single it's more the fear that I'm unlovable. That's not the right word but I can't think of a better one. Incompatible?


So, you stay with her because you think that this is as good as it gets for you, is that right? That there's something fundamentally wrong with you that no one else will want?
1 year

Random new views from fairy new account

BigFox:
Anyone els getting a random influx of new profile views from new accounts?


No more than usual. Are you in chat regularly? I notice the biggest spike in profile views when I'm either in chat or getting into it with another user in the forums. And you don't post enough for it to be the second one.
1 year

Scream into the void

Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.

It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.

She lives 2 hours away.

I work 60 weeks.

She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.

Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.

But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.

I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.

And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.

Thanks for listening.


Bro, if you don't feel like it's working, and you can't handle being just friends, then move on.

What benefit does it bring either of your guys to stay in this zombie of a relationship? Just let it die. Are you so afraid to be single? Or are you terrified that you won't find another play partner?
1 year