Freddii:
So I’ve been bestfiends with this girl for 3 years and she knew about my kink (I’m a feedee). Recently I told her that I have feelings for her and she said that it makes her uncomfortable and stopped being friends with me. What should I do now? Is she in the right? I feel awful.
Munchies:
From what you described, I don't think your kink was the issue. It seems more that you confessed to her than anything.
That being said, the fact that you said you guys were best friends implies there's much more to the story.
Freddii:
She said it is the issue
Ah, okay. Should have included that.
Based on the limited information you've provided, I don't think either party is in the right or the wrong. You weren't wrong in confessing and she wasn't wrong in ending the friendship. It's unfortunate, but that's often life.
All you can really do is mourn the friendship and move on. I wish you well.