Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.

Enas:
How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious

Munchies:
It's a little different for everyone, but there are some general guidelines.

Clearly discuss boundaries beforehand.

Have safe words and/or gestures for when things get too much for you or your partner.

Understand that both parties can revoke consent at any time. Make sure this is respected.

Do not skip the aftercare.

Enas:
This seems to be oriented per-session. Do you think it whould be the same if it were to be contunious? (24/7, until one of the two wants to break out of it) so that it could have the possibility of going on, indefinetely?


Oh, no. Not even a little. That will mess both you and your domme up mentally.

If you're in a relationship with someone you trust enough to do this, it's because they care about you as a person. If they care about it, it will be hard for them to be hard core sadistic 24/7 for an extended time. Even though I am a sadist, I've stopped scenes before because it was too much for me.

If you are the sub in a hardcore consensual non-consent lifestyle, you will forget that this is a kink. One of the most important part of BDSM is aftercare. It strengthens the bond between domme and sub as well as keep the sub mentally sound. If you keep the intensity at 11 indefinitely, you will feel like you are actually in an abusive relationship.

There are some people in the BDSM community that life the 24/7 lifestyle. A lot of them are able to live a fulfilling life doing that. However, not ever flavor of BDSM translates well to lifestyle kink well.
1 year

Eat addiction

BlubberButt:
I have severe food addiction and it's a living nightmare every moment I'm alive. Would not wish this upon my worst enemy. When I was young and slim I wanted to be fat and lardy. Now I am so hugely obese I can barely waddle the 30 steps from my big chair to the kitchen and back without being doubled over from stabbing back pain. Be careful what you wish for...

Munchies:
Sounds like you need to put on more muscle. It should make things more comfortable for you. Your profile said you weigh just under 200 lbs and you're 4'8". Seeing that you are an older gentleman, you should start doing that before your joints really betray you.

You're an American. The hospital bills are not worth it.

As for the food addiction, have you tried Overeaters Anonymous?

LeFerrellV:
I have been training for strong man... Hopefully that will help me to be more mobile when I get fatter


Good luck!

Just make sure you maintain some level of activity. And don't forget to stretch.
1 year

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.

Enas:
How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious


It's a little different for everyone, but there are some general guidelines.

Clearly discuss boundaries beforehand.

Have safe words and/or gestures for when things get too much for you or your partner.

Understand that both parties can revoke consent at any time. Make sure this is respected.

Do not skip the aftercare.
1 year

What whould you want fantasy feeder to have?

CuriousAmy13:
Being able to search users by height.


This is already possible. This search criteria is next to weight.

BlubberButt:
BMI would be a useful search tool as well 🐷


This seems like it should be relatively easy; it's basic math as a function of height and weight.

2seatsalways:
This site has so much potential but I don't want to ramble here.

I'll just list a few things off

- Chat complete overhaul
- Chapter finder for stories
- Faster and easier system for verification
- A verify members only forum sub section: like a perk for users to want to verify


Overhaul to do what instead?

Chapter finder? A very easy work-around is to change the number at the end of the URL, though a little thing at the bottom where you type a number and click "Go" may be better. Unless you mean something else?

Verification - I don't know how it can be any faster or easier while keeping the human element which is essential.

Verified Members only section? That should be okay, since it's not ultimately exclusionary (except to scammers).

MottiF:
Also, option to chat with members and not just send them limited emails. As a social network it not very social.

ILuvChubbyChix:
This is a very common pain point and has been for years. I don't know if the current system is the best way, but it's to help prevent, or at least reduce the following problem:

Scammers/spammers sending messages to everyone.

It also has the side benefit of encouraging premium memberships, the only viable source of revenue for the web site, since there isn't much in the way of viable advertisers. There might be other ways to encourage premium memberships, though it's not yet clear how that may happen.

2seatsalways:
I'll just make a point on the chat. It's not 2009 anymore, it's 2023 and chat is severely outdated. It's clunky, buggy, and the features that are part of it are less to be desired. No one shouldn't be bounced randomly out of chat, OR to someone's private chat where you are seeing an entire conversation.


You gotta agree that if FF could calculate the BMI for you, that would be easier.

As for the chapter finder, most story hosting sites have one. It's been a thing for decades. FF having one would just be bringing things to industry standards.


And on that not, I would like three other things for FF to include. It would also bring things up to industry standards.

I would like to have html and rich text support for the stories. Most story hosting sites have this. I would also like to have an exclude function. It's a game changer when looking for new stories. And lastly, I want the tags to be ungrouped.

What do I mean by ungrouping the tags? There are some tags that have more than one category. The logic is that they are similar, so we should group them. Or at least that's how it was explained to me.

The problem is that it limits the reader when they are looking for stories. Maybe they wanted to read a vore story that doesn't involve death. But since vore and death share a tag, they aren't sure what they are getting into. Or maybe they wanted a revenge story, but since revenge shares a tag with jealousy, they get a story that's about someone screwing over an innocent person.

Tag multi-select options would really bring it all home.
1 year

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)


This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.
1 year

Gaining weight. a method.

MottiF:
It seems that gaining a single kilo is nothing at all: just a week of a sedentary lifestyle with an abundance of junk food, and now you don’t even have one, but all three extra kilos.

So, a kilogram of pure fat is about 9,000 calories, but adipose tissue in this amount is 7,700 kilocalories. That is, if every day you exceed the norm by at least 50%, this will inevitably lead to the deposition of fat and a set of extra pounds.

If every day you exceed the daily calorie intake by 1,400 kilocalories, then you can gain 1 kilogram of pure fat in two weeks,and if you eat like this for 4-8 weeks, then after 2-4 weeks you can see in the mirror plus 4 kilograms.

Seems legit?


Not necessarily. Everyone is different. This specific method is one of the most popular methods in this community, but the results are varied. I've spoken to people that can get pretty fat with this method, and I've spoken to people that struggle to gain anything.

If you do decide to go on a junk food binge, there are some things to keep in mind:

Junk food is high in salt, so some of the weight will be water retention and not fat.

A junk food diet will give you brain fog. This can lead to other aspects of your life tanking - including professionally.

If you are someone who responds well to the junk food diet, it's best to do it in short spurts to mitigate the unexpected expenses from rapid weight gain.

In truth, you want a high calorie diet, and not necessarily a junk food diet. It's okay to eat junk food, but you need a mix of healthy food so that you can function better.
1 year

Wife has agreed to fatten me

Phatballoon2:
Wow! You are so lucky! How do I convert my wife into a feeder?!


You don't. You can introduce her to the concept, but it's to her if she goes that route or not.
1 year

Ai generator

Chubster87:
Is there any AI generator type apps for android that can make pictures/caractors/ anyone gain weight?


I think most can. But be warned, most of them aren't good.
1 year

Fat in waterbed

Letters And Numbers:
It would be wild if every 80s/90s kid who had a waterbed in the house when they were little turned out to be a FA of some stripe.

Munchies:
I never had one, but a friend of mine did. Well, her parents had one in a guest room no one used. It's fun for 15 minutes, but the novelty wears off fast.

Letters And Numbers:
Except, maybe years later, fat folks are your jam and it’s all cause of that one waterbed… we shall never know


Nah. It started before that. I saw a sumo wrestler for the first time, and something clicked.
1 year

Fat in waterbed

Letters And Numbers:
It would be wild if every 80s/90s kid who had a waterbed in the house when they were little turned out to be a FA of some stripe.


I never had one, but a friend of mine did. Well, her parents had one in a guest room no one used. It's fun for 15 minutes, but the novelty wears off fast.
1 year